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razldazl6974

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About razldazl6974

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  1. Thanks for your effort Vol! It is very appreciated. At this point, our relationship is the strongest it has ever been and communication is at an all-time high. Trust me, we wouldn't even be discussing the possibility of a 3-some otherwise! LOL Our seperations were never the result of cheating or being bored with each other, etc. They were mainly due to others (the Army, family members) driving wedges between us and a sad lack of communication back in those days. It's a really long story! I can honestly say that I don't have a problem with him being unwilling to share. My experiences with other men were always unsatisfying and no one ever compared to my husband. I am totally satisfied and addicted to what I have with him and have no desire whatsoever for any other man. I think my real problem is that I think too much. Most days I am completely fine with the thought of giving it a try, but then some days I just let my imagination run wild and get all twisted up in knots. Part of me just thinks that its nervousness and that if we could just do it and get it over with it would prove I had nothing to worry about in the first place. Is that crazy? LOL
  2. Hello everyone! I'm new to this, so please bare with me. Hubby and I have been married for 6 years and have recently been discussing the idea of having a MFF threesome. However, I find myself constantly having conflicting feelings on the subject. On one hand, I want to do this because I know it is my husband's fantasy and I am all about making him happy. On the other hand, I constantly find myself feeling insecure when I think about actually doing it. Will he find sex with another woman better than with me? Will he be more attracted to another woman than he is to me? Will she turn him on more than I do? Are these really stupid questions and feelings? My husband tries to reassure me that nothing will change his love for me. He tells me that sex with someone you don't love is completely different than sex with someone you do and that I will always have his heart. But he also says that I completely satisfy him and that no woman could be better than me, so I guess that leads me to ask "Why does he even want to have sex with another woman if he feels that way?" I know that he had threesomes before we met, but I am completely new to this and have never done anything like this. To top it all off, when I asked how open he would be to a MFM 3-some, he gave a resounding "Hell NO" and told me that he was unwilling to share me with another man. Now is it just me, or is that a little two-faced? He tries to justify this because he knows that I have no desire to be with another man. I guess in the end, I'm just trying to understand what motivates him to want another woman and he seems unwilling to tell me or seems to not know himself other than to tell me, "All men want to have sex with other women....it's just the way we are". Side note....hubby and I have been seperated several times over the past 6 years and were both with other people during those times yet we always ended up back together. So why am I so hesitant? The only thing I can think of is that I'm terrified to actually see my husband get aroused by another woman firsthand....I'm scared of how that will make me feel. Any and all advice would be appreciated! Thanks!!
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