new2wild

It sounds like a addition such as a sun room might be the way to go, Lots of glass for a good view and still inside. I already had planned on a large tub for the master bath, But 3 or 4 people I like the idea any recomendations?

Thanks for the replies. socolais, This is what I was worried about. Can you give us any tips? We are pretty much going to outline the floorplan and her sister is going to take care of the blueprints, But I know she has no experince with the hot tub issues.

We are currently planning to build a house next year (cross your fingers). We are figuring on about 2500sqft, Nothing fancy single story and we will be doing most of the work ourselves with the help of a few friends. The place is being planned with a eye toward entertaining with swinging in mind. I am thinking I want a indoor hottub but most seem to be outdoor? Is there something I am missing here? We had planned on it being in the house, Do we need to rethink this? Is there issues with having it indoor we are not aware of? Our idea had it joining the master bath as well as a entrance from the living room. Any input is welcome.

I would stick with public, No way would I do the first meet at his home. Just seems like a common sense rule to me.

Ok we are new here, as well as new to swinging. That being said. Openmindedcpl, I read your post and like many men that responded by voting be angry. Not that I am a homophobe, in the proper situation I might play with him or more. I have to somewhat agree with sereneiders but understand you felt you were leading up to the question properly. But it seemed a little dominating/forceful to me. I don't think very many men would feel comfortable being dominated, or forced into man on man sex, and would respond accordingly. I feel it would have been better received by the group had it evolved from a 4some (2 couples) and proceeded gently from that point. P.S. I really tried to take your post in the everything/everyone is safe notion that I believe it was meant, but still agree on not leaving the ladies alone.