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eatscherry

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  1. Once again, you're not honest. You let her know in a backhanded way that you would "prefer " she be with you and your wife and with "caution" say all the reasons (on the slide ) she shouldn't be going out with other bad single people bla bla bla blaa blaa......... Look , I don't think your wrong in the way you think , I just don't think that there is swingers any more just a lot of couples that are selfish. I just wish it were more about the lifestyle then it is now . You see a lot more blackballing now than in the past for some reason. Like I said before, I'm getting girls. I am not whining, Ok, griping yes. I just don't like seeing something changed and people sidestepping the issue just because they can dismiss the problem with dishonesty and selfishness over some one else. Swinging should have love and friendship, I just don't hear it here or a lot of other places.
  2. I'm sorry that it sounded like I've been kicked out of any thing, I haven't. But, I have been with women who liked me but there better half didn't. And there isn't that warm feeling any more when you go to them. I lost my main girl in a car wreck, I'm ready to begin again. I just don't want to start getting my women into something that doesn't feel right to me anymore. A lot of my girlfriends have girlfriends and husbands, so I do see the cock-blocking.
  3. Oh Great, thanks for that messed up warning. And no,You don't have to set me up. Just stop all of your "cock-blocking" and hiding behind the "... and the single guy's are just here for sex" load of crap that I hear. And you aren't gonna whin like a victim if your going out of your way to be "protective", matter of fact..... You aren't being honest, just say that's what you do. I've been with clubs that had parties and sometimes no sex, just getting together. Call it the good old day's if you will. I got into swinging because you and everybody involved with you were honest. I do not see that in you and a lot of other people anymore. " LET ME HAVE A UNICORN "!!!
  4. First, I did and maybe do now swing, and it wasn't just about the sex but the parties and peoples you were around and did stuff with other singles and "guy's" too. And don't get me wrong, a lie is lie. But if he shows up later one day with his girl you shouldn't treat him the same crappy way you treat the rest of the single guy's. And swingers back in the good old days would get people that are better suited to be with each other together and wouldn't just kick'em out. Some women and men like a tanning to the backside and it's fun to watch sometimes. I say get the singles together to make more swinging couples. I'd hate to think that some girl and guy that click can't be together and cum all over each other because some guy didn't like some guy looking at her, and gets him blackballed. And because couples don't want people having sex with their partner or the single women they have sex with, he gets nailed, an not in the good way. I have friends that don't get along with each other, but I keep them all as friends and just don't try to mix them. Us swingers should start doing the same thing ...... "AGAIN"! And unless your gonna take in other swingers and lifestyles don't call it swinging, and just have a wife swap club and be honest about it, and don't hide behind blackballing everybody to make it seem ok to be couples only.
  5. I think the problem is bigger than that. The whole lifestyle is gone it looks like. Couples have taken over and have gone out of there way to get rid of the single males. Couples are now just being with one couple that they like and say no to everything else. And then the couples do everything to keep the single women to themselves and not let us, the single males, become (and you gotta love this) well , "couples" . All of the parties, get-together's, and all of the dating and meets we did with each other. All of the swinging lifestyle has lost it's way.
  6. Hhhmmmm... I go out with girls of all types . One of my girlfriends likes SLAYER and AFI and the other likes 2LIVE CREW so you can guess what they look like . But I have found that the choices people make is basesd on race , sometimes . But some people try to force it and others vailidate being racist every chance they get and for any reason . And me being black does make things harder dating defferent people .
  7. This one made me say damn. I had a lady I seen that would cum from anal and still squirt all over me. I was just starting to get her into anal. Well, after three months was the first time she did all of this, she made my dick white with her cum ana'ly. Then when I did longer, slow and deeper. She started squirting...a lot. After that first time, she squirted every time we did anal.
  8. Honesty is the best because I don't see it as a playing with somone . Straight up, If I'm in a relationship or friendship or swinging in a group of people or orgy and I can't be honest and or trust them and them with me, I do not want them around...period . I get what your saying . But why play games or put on a front in your personal life too ? To swing is to be open with it .
  9. Risking ? I'm not risking anything because I'm honest from the start and honest with them .And any open relationship should be honest . You only have risk if your gambling or playing games . And swinging shouldent be about that . It should be a all you can eat .
  10. I think alot of you for saying what you are , but do any of you swing with a single just because or would mind if your women went to a orgy or your man liked being with a girl that was just......different?
  11. Because I am single I am more out there ,but you are tring like other people are to change something like swinging to suit them after something else has been used up or need some spice . And if your at risk with your woman when you swing , you have other problems . I swinged before my girlfriends, with my girlfriends ,and will if I'm single too because that's my fifestyle .
  12. Alot of couples (most of them ) are tring to change the rules so they can wife-swap and not be bothered by single guy's or there own hing-up's . Look, swinging is being open with sex with other people that want more orgasoms in diffrent ways . If your hiding it from the person your seeing ......your not a swinger. If you come home and your woman is doing two guys and maybe some women and she just say's "Come on and put your dick in my throat"....your a swinger . As I'v said to people before , it's about being open and honest about sex and friendship .
  13. Let me tell you from both sides ....EVERY ONE WANTS A SINGLE FEMALE , NOBODY NOW WANTS TO SEE A SINGLE MALE AT ALL . You got it wrong , most of the people that are here got into this lifestyle after the fact. Most of them couldn't and don't get how someone could be single at all. I swing because I'm open and honest about my sex and friendships and you can't be when your in it with one person that you keep stuff from or have to drag into it. As one person already said , it's hard to swing and be single. And if you read this whole thread like I did you'll see that most couples go out of there way to make it wife-swaping and not really swinging .
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