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freekynme

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About freekynme

  • Rank
    Active Contributor

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Germany
  • Interests
    Music & photography
  • Swinging Experience
    2 years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    se_ga_deviants
  1. Mr GT tell us all how you got a black eye during a swinging session. Only thing that comes to my mind is swinging balls or tits are dangerous lol.
  2. Just gotta put my 2 cents in. Im a non-pushy selectively bi female in a full swap only couple. What that means is Im not bi with all women due to sexual attractiveness or lack of & respect straight females. We also believe that if we meet a couple & things work out then we all play. Maybe its me, but I dont get the men watching the women only unless thats specifically what they want. Personally I love watching my hubby play with a woman while Im playing with her partner.
  3. Hi all, this is Mr Freeky, my first time posting on this website! I usually let my wife post comments and I read the threads and comments with her! Very interesting and informative! I feel I must comment on this topic as it is near and dear to my heart! When I met my wife, I didn't see color, money, or anything else. I saw a beautiful woman (inside and out) with a smile that lights up a room! I fell in love with her and definitely wanted to pursue things further with her! As we progressed into marriage, it frustrated and angered me more than her about the "looks" and comments we would receive from people about us being an interracial couple. It wasn't fair that people would judge me for being with an African American woman or her being with a Caucasian man, and it was an eye opener for me. She would just laugh it off and chalk it up to people being the way they were, and I thank her for keeping me calm! LOL But seriously, I love my wife for her being her, not for her being a certain color or anything like that, and wouldn't change her for anything or anyone! Swinging is supposed to be fun, exciting, and strengthen your relationship instead of tearing it down or belittle people for the color of their skin! Believe me, I usually let the wife have the final say on who we swing with because I love seeing her pleased and turned on and want her to feel comfortable with who we are with! If she says no, I will support her 100%. But anyways, thank you for letting me express my opinions and I welcome any feedback! It's a damn shame we are now in Germany because there's a lot of nice people on here!
  4. Tybee, you're more than welcome for comments from me. I'm glad someone appreciates them LOL. Seriously, I wouldn't change your profile to include anything because you may get those people who won't want to swing with you because you swing with "undesirables". And by undesirables, I mean anyone who isn't white. I don't know if those type of people even matter to you guys, but being in your area there's a lot of them. If you did choose to change your profile, I would suggest saying race unimportant. As far as the "I have black friends" thing....OMG you wouldn't believe how many people in GA period use that line to let us know that they're ok with playing with us. These were also the people who didn't care about meeting before hand, but just wanted to hook up. Honestly, I had never heard this line come out of a person's mouth until I moved to GA. I usually respond to this by saying, "Really? Wow I wish I could see my friends. They're all invisible."
  5. Very well stated Taylor. Being the black female in an interracial couple, we were often bombarded with what I called the "stupid" males. These were men who once they found out that I "liked" white men wanted to sleep with me, simply because they couldn't find black women who liked them or because they'd never done it before. I promptly refused them, but tried to answer any legitimate questions they had in a dignified manner. Stupid questions (yes there are stupid questions LOL) got stupid answers. I too hate people who have agendas regarding race & we try to avoid them at all costs. I don't like feeling that I am just another thing to be done on a "to do" list. Tybee As far as black couples making sure you're ok with them, like Taylor said, it's just their way of being reassured you will not reject them later on. My hubby usually meets most of the couples online we may potentially meet & talks to them. He used to use his swinger account, we have separate ones, & couples were eager to meet us until he sent a picture. Then all talking would stop or we'd get the usual lines of BS & excuses. So I'm sure black couples come across this just as often. And being in GA, particularly where you are doesn't make it any easier. We know, because we were right down the road from you & preferred to find playmates in FL. My hubby & I never saw the difference in our races or having to even state the difference before living in GA. We just accept people as they are for who they are & I guess our downfall is that we expect everyone to have this same belief. So as Taylor said, what you're doing to reassure the other couple seems to be just fine. Even if you reject a couple because of incompatibility issues, they will still probably think it was racially motivated. This is just ingrained in some people in the south & especially in how black swingers are treated there & is not meant to reflect on you personally. The worst thing to say to a black couple or person in my opinion in trying to reassure them that you are fine in swinging with them, is the dreaded, "I have black friends". Just my 2 cents on the subject.
  6. Yeah, what cona2k said. I usually have a hard time with my Gyn doing a vaginal exam, so I couldn't even imagine double vaginal.
  7. For our first time hubby & I were lucky to find a very caring couple who were experienced & took the time to meet with us. While we were newbies as a couple, we both had swinging experience from previous relationships, so things were fine for us. This couple took us to our first swingers club & basically introduced us to their friends & invited us to house parties & get togethers & everything. They were very patient & easy going which made our first experience together enjoyable. So I dont think a couple's or person's level of experience or lack there of should be the deciding factor in whether someone plays with them, but what I do think is that if everything feels right & everyone's on the same page then do it. Although I can understand why vets dont want to get involved in with newbies, I think it is a bit unfair to assume that all newbies are a waste of time, source of drama, etc. Just my 2 cents on the subject.
  8. Personally Ive never had anyone I was in a relationship with ask for this, but Ive had several guys online ask me to do it. I also had an online male friend who was into bondage & discipline & his wife was a Mistress, he got off on her doing this to him. Apparently this is fairly common for some men, it seems to give them stronger ejaculations. Glad it works out for the both of you & you enjoy making him as happy as he makes you.
  9. Good luck with it. No pressure no stress just enjoy the people you meet and each other. Like you said if it happens it does and if it doesn't don't beat each other about it. Just keep up your communication. If your wife is against sex with another man, maybe let her try a female with a strap-on. That maybe more her speed. Just don't focus so much on full swap and in her own time she may just come around to it. Or she may find she likes females more and just doesn't have an interest in other men. Who knows? She's a woman and has the right to change her mind at any ole time she feels like it and you just have to respect her wishes no matter how frustrating they may be. :smile:
  10. Mrs. Freeky- Im more attracted to a nice smile, sense of humor & personality, then comes the physical attraction. Sometimes it doesnt happen in that exact order. Mr. Freeky is more of an eyes & smile man.
  11. Hubby & I actually got started when we were dating. It probably took us so long because we were in the south & surrounded by people who were stuck on color issues, but we were persistent & it paid off.
  12. I have to agree with the ladies on this one about liking the more average sized penis. Anything more than 8" is just too much for me.
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