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Forum: Making the First Swinger Move

How do you approach other swingers you are interested in getting to know and having sex with?

  1. How to initiate a MFM threesome?

    by Chris, 08-08-2003 05:30 PM
    initiating threesome
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 16,995
    10-03-2003, 02:22 PM Go to last post
  2. Breaking the ice?

    by couplentulsa, 08-15-2004 11:23 PM
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    ice breakers
    • Replies: 50
    • Views: 10,153
    05-11-2006, 11:36 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 7,803
    11-15-2002, 06:30 PM Go to last post
  3. Bartering sex?

    by J&RNNJ, 06-18-2007 08:25 AM
    2 Pages
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    approaching others, bartering for sex, swinging for money
    • Replies: 37
    • Views: 7,444
    07-07-2007, 07:20 PM Go to last post
  4. Signs of unapproachability

    by JustAskJulie, 04-28-2009 04:13 PM
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    approaching others, showing interest, swinger clubs
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 7,417
    06-03-2010, 11:49 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 7,414
    02-19-2005, 09:20 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 7,101
    03-17-2008, 09:32 AM Go to last post
  5. How do you approach a single woman "Unicorn" ?

    by UnicornChasers, 08-23-2009 12:30 AM
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    • Replies: 36
    • Views: 6,668
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    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 6,452
    11-26-2007, 05:27 PM Go to last post
  6. How crude is too crude?

    by Spoomonkey, 01-24-2007 08:00 AM
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    approaching others, changed mind, rude behavior, turn offs
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 6,348
    01-31-2007, 06:57 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 6,159
    03-25-2006, 11:49 AM Go to last post
  7. First Step

    by MyWife&Me, 07-31-2010 05:45 PM
    first time, mfm
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 5,956
    11-11-2010, 12:15 PM Go to last post
  8. Post Hubby's (Soon to be) Ex- boss

    by Testdiva, 10-27-2002 04:47 PM
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    approaching others, co-worker
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 5,848
    11-07-2002, 11:53 AM Go to last post
  9. Question Are we being approached to swing?

    by CAM, 03-09-2004 10:59 PM
    approaching others, friendship and swinging
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 5,576
    03-10-2004, 11:49 PM Go to last post
  10. Not sure how to ask guys for MFM

    by itbus69, 10-17-2006 06:21 AM
    approaching others, single males, threesome
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 5,551
    11-01-2006, 08:46 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 5,390
    07-11-2003, 11:27 PM Go to last post
  11. How do you ask people to play?

    by flywithus, 01-17-2005 07:26 PM
    approaching others, transitions
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 5,388
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    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 5,358
    03-16-2011, 04:27 AM Go to last post
  12. Conversation Starters

    by JustAskJulie, 04-09-2004 12:12 AM
    communication, ice breakers
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 5,281
    01-22-2008, 06:01 PM Go to last post
  13. Chatting with Couples Online

    by Roxysbayou, 12-23-2003 03:07 PM
    chat, communication, gauging interest
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 5,202
    06-02-2006, 11:11 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 5,111
    10-06-2006, 07:19 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 5,027
    11-18-2008, 05:17 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 5,026
    05-06-2008, 11:51 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 4,970
    04-24-2014, 11:31 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 4,834
    05-06-2004, 10:10 PM Go to last post
  14. Cool Cock Blocked!

    by Styles-N-Heidi, 02-29-2008 11:33 PM
    attraction, cock blocking, different pace, discretion, experienced, playing with newbies
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 4,799
    03-03-2008, 12:35 AM Go to last post
  15. How to ask would you like to???

    by twoartists, 11-09-2006 03:03 PM
    making the first move
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 4,555
    11-27-2006, 11:44 PM Go to last post
  16. The Pickup Artist

    by JustAskJulie, 10-22-2008 12:09 PM
    approaching others, swinging on tv
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 4,552
    10-28-2008, 02:45 PM Go to last post
  17. Any advice for couples with a straight female?

    by arvcpl, 12-20-2008 12:27 PM
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    connection, intimidation, straight female
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 4,533
    12-22-2008, 04:14 PM Go to last post
  18. A Piece of the action?

    by JanetAndBrad, 06-16-2003 12:20 PM
    aggressive, approaching others, discouraged, first club visit, showing interest, swinger clubs
    • Replies: 12
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    07-02-2003, 04:09 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 4,513
    12-11-2012, 03:59 PM Go to last post
  19. Men: Do you approach women?

    by JustAskJulie, 02-19-2009 05:06 PM
    approaching others
    • Replies: 17
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    03-01-2009, 08:23 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 4,349
    07-18-2015, 08:35 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 4,264
    05-24-2006, 06:45 PM Go to last post
  20. Unhappy Friends without the benefits

    by shy kitty, 05-16-2011 07:59 PM
    disappointing, getting started
    • Replies: 17
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    06-18-2011, 12:32 PM Go to last post
  21. Good ice breaker or opener to sex..

    by Tojo99, 05-13-2006 12:15 AM
    ice breakers
    • Replies: 10
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    11-28-2007, 02:14 PM Go to last post
  22. Cool Wall-flowers in need of HELP!

    by hppycpleus, 01-31-2010 11:50 PM
    approaching others, ice breakers, shyness
    • Replies: 15
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    02-07-2010, 10:37 PM Go to last post
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    11-28-2008, 09:05 AM Go to last post
  23. Question What Do We Say to close the deal?

    by JM153, 03-18-2006 12:31 AM
    making the first move
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 3,900
    10-08-2008, 10:07 PM Go to last post
  24. Remembering names????

    by TNT, 03-24-2004 11:20 AM
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    meeting others, remembering names
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 3,886
    03-01-2008, 05:38 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,803
    04-10-2006, 01:28 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,696
    06-22-2008, 09:00 PM Go to last post
  25. Approaching People at clubs

    by JustAskJulie, 01-10-2007 11:15 PM
    approaching others
    • Replies: 10
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    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 3,674
    07-22-2006, 03:36 PM Go to last post
  26. [A] Foreplay/Ice breaker Question

    by M&S, 08-15-2012 01:57 PM
    foreplay, ice breakers
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 3,612
    08-20-2012, 06:37 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,583
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  27. trouble moving things along

    by redzhubby, 09-26-2013 12:06 PM
    getting started
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,532
    10-03-2013, 12:10 AM Go to last post
  28. Breaking the Ice

    by Alura, 10-09-2008 12:53 PM
    ice breakers
    • Replies: 17
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    10-31-2008, 02:31 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,430
    08-31-2004, 12:17 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 3,281
    09-05-2006, 01:57 PM Go to last post

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