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Hi, I am hoping someone can give me some advice when its comes to being more verbal during play. My hubby gets turned on from any noise or slutty talk I make when getting fuked. I normally aren't too vocal bc I never want to "over do it". I like the sounds I make to be natural & I don't want to change that however, I would like a few suggestions on what things you say or have heard while in the moment that really turn/ed you on so when I am feeling it I can insert these words or sayings into the spots I normally just moan & grunt in.

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I know women who shout out their desires and I know women who simply close their eyes and moan a little. I am a guy who has no special need for to woman to be singing, "fuck me, fuck me now, fuck me harder." But I do enjoy the girls who croon compliments into my ear -- "yes, just like that", "ooh", "that's good", "don't stop." But I'm not every guy.

 

I recommend you should not try too hard to create affectations. There is a hazard of sounding insincere.

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You are who you are. Faking it is most likely just going to come off sounding like you are faking it (making noise that is). I would much rather have a woman be genuine and quiet that hear her faking anything. At the same time, if he's doing something that you like, say something (oh, I really like that).

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I know women who shout out their desires and I know women who simply close their eyes and moan a little. I am a guy who has no special need for to woman to be singing, "fuck me, fuck me now, fuck me harder." But I do enjoy the girls who croon compliments into my ear -- "yes, just like that", "ooh", "that's good", "don't stop." But I'm not every guy.

 

I recommend you should not try too hard to create affectations. There is a hazard of sounding insincere.

 

Yes! This I know. That is the reason I'm not very vocal bc I don't want to sound unnatural. My man will tell me he liked what he heard during a session & most of the time I can't even remember what it was I said since it just happens naturally. I am just looking for suggestions so when I am in that moment I can use those words instead of just moans.

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The whole exclamation issue ended for us when two things happened.

 

First the last of the kids moved out. 

 

Second while discussing the new noise level we  started to talk about why anyone hearing it was an issue.  We discovered that "being discovered" somehow tied into a deep seated piece of trash  learned early on that sex was somehow dirty and embarrassing. Neither of us had ever thought about it that way consciously. We were manifesting things picked up from the time when we were just out of diapers and on. Learned just from observing. Little  things like the level of PDA's among our parents, mostly chaste  kisses when they thought no one was looking. Conversations  "not fit for mixed company".

And other things that inferred a lack of comfort about expressions of this sort in any place that we could witness. We knew logically that the love and the sex was there. Both sets of marriages produced  families that were large enough and marriages that lasted until death.

 

At any rate we talked, and talked and little by little my wife started to be more vocal yet. Finally she  just let loose and regardless of who might hear. She just lets whatever comes from her mouth come out. It is a joy to behold and hear. It is especially fun when we are in separate rooms. I have had more that one lady ask me "What is THAT?" The answer is always "It just means your husband was up to the task." 

 

From that experience I offer this. Do not over think your responses. Just let them out. If there is anything inhibiting you find it and vanquish it. You and he will probably enjoy it more if the sounds progress from your nerves and body chemistry directly to your lungs and vocal chords without passing through your frontal lobes on the way.

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Word to the wise, just don't scream out the wrong name....like your brother in laws name :)

 

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When I'm having sex I want to hear the natural moaning of a woman.  My GF isn't really that verbal unless you provoke her to be.  If she's role playing or if a guy says to her "tell me you're a dirty fuckin whore" then she'll repeat it.  Otherwise she's not really that vocal on her own.

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Mrs. Alura's sexiest remark came when we were trying to impregnate  her. At our climax, she grabbed my butt, pulled me as deep as she could, and whispered, "Stuff me full of little people, Darling."

 

We only found one big cock (9.5"-Laura measured it) in our swinging years. Swapped partners were warming up on our sectional. Laura took Rick's penis our of her mouth and said, "Are you really going to fuck me with this thing?" In a few minutes she was expressing more vocal opinions than she ever had. She still felt "big cocks don't matter" but decided one would be fun occasionally. Unfortunately, we didn't have another experience with Rick and Jo.

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Mrs. cplnuswing isn't a big talker during sex, and one of the sexiest things she ever said to me came not during sex.  It was before we were married.  She had come down for the weekend to visit me at my college and of course wasn't completely through the apartment door yet before the clothes were flying off :) 

 

We finished taking that initial edge off, and then hit the bars.  We were sitting at a table with a pitcher of beer in front of us and a few of my friends there, and she nonchalantly leans over and says in my ear "I can feel your cum in my pussy."  That was one of those up until dawn nights that we fucked ourselves raw, literally.   Ahhh...the days of youthful vigor :)

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On 7/30/2020 at 1:53 PM, udsarge said:

Word to the wise, just don't scream out the wrong name....

Hubby spontaneously did that once with me - it was a girl we were dating, he got to fuck her a few times and she made such an impression on him (so I say) that he called (unfortunately, didn't scream) her name when we were fucking.  It was one of the more jealous moments that I experienced, and I loved it.  I liked it so much that I've subsequently asked him to call me by other women's names, but he doesn't do it.  I think it embarrasses him, not because of the sex, but it implies that he forgot.  It happens more around the house in regular life, all of us mixing up the adults', children's, dog's names.

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i love verbal because i'm aurally stimulated. It just depends on my mood and what fetish i'm currently into, but when my wife is into it too, it makes it so much better. 

 

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You can tell him what to do.... if he is f*** you tell him “Deeper”, harder, etc.... or tell him how you feel at the moment. Tell him when you are orgasming

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When the kids are in the house, even in a far corner, I'm (we all are) very quiet.  When they are not around I can be a screamer as I orgasm, although it's not because the orgasm is more intense, it's just that I am verbally letting loose.  In either case I give instructions sometimes, but to direct, not for "dirty talk."

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Ok so I am pretty damn verbal in the sack.  I will take cues from my partner, so I'd say it's a little different everytime.  But I've never met a guy that didn't like it, they usually come at me with renewed intensity.  I can get pretty vulgar but there are certain words I hate and avoid.  I never say cunt or twat, I prefer Pussy, kitty, cookie, hoo hoo, or vagina.  I occasionally say cock, but prefer saying dick.  I love the word Fuck, so I say it often, as in, oh fuck, fuck me, fuck you, fucking hell, you're fucking me so good, fuck that tight pussy.  So common usage I use,

 

is it tight Baby,

baby tell me how tight I am, 

Give me that dick.

Put it back in.

Right there

Keep doing that

don't stop fucking mevc

I want that dick baby.

I need that dick baby.

I fucking love your dick.

Fuck me.

Fuck me harder.

Go deeper.

I want to taste you.

I want you.

I want you in me.

Babe your dick feels so fucking good.

It's so fucking big. 

Wow you have a big dick. (This actually works if its a big dick or a small dick, guys wanna feel good about their size.)

Put it in my ass. 

You fuck me so good.

Fuck me,

Fuck me harder.

Fuck me deeper.

You are so deep baby.

No one ever gets this deep. 

You are stretching my pussy so good. 

I love how you stretch my pussy.

Keep fucking that pussy

That's your pussy now.

I fucking love you inside me.

I'm your little slut.

Kiss me

Kicking kiss me

Suck my pussy

Suck that clit.

Keep doing that.

God that feels so fucking good

Cum inside me

Give me that cum,

I want it

Does that pussy feel good?

I'm so fucking wet.

My pussy is so wet

I love the way you fuck me

I love fucking you

 

Hope those help.

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On 12/5/2020 at 11:34 PM, JessicaJamison said:

I want that dick baby.

I need that dick baby.

I want a baby.

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10 hours ago, couplers said:

I want a baby.

Some years ago, as a relatively new guy neared climax (bareback) in my wife, she said "Give me my baby!"  He immediately pulled out and lost his erection.  After a birth control reality check, they finished and he left his load in her pussy.

 

They would say it again when they got together, but it was something of a joke instead of a turn on.  Among our current group, it's understood to be strictly a mental thing.

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3 hours ago, Numex said:

Some years ago, as a relatively new guy neared climax (bareback) in my wife, she said "Give me my baby!"  He immediately pulled out and lost his erection.  

And that is exactly why I do not go with the making babies kinda dirty talk lol.  If everyone's not on the same page it can be triggering.   

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On 12/8/2020 at 9:09 PM, JessicaJamison said:

i don't usually go with the make me a mommy line but I love it

Sex when I was trying to get pregnant was some of the most intense ever.  Especially the first time after Clair had accidentally gotten pregnant, and after considering all of the options, Clair and I decided that it was time and I should try too.  My kid was pot luck between hubby and boyfriend Red, the four of us making up our family at the time (until Lora joined as our fifth and final adult member).  Fucking two guys and trying to get pregnant was unbelievable.

 

The second time turned out to be the opposite.  Hubby was the biological dad of our daughter so I wanted the next child with Red.  I didn't have hubby in my pussy for months.

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1 hour ago, couplers said:

Sex when I was trying to get pregnant was some of the most intense ever.  Especially the first time after Clair had accidentally gotten pregnant, and after considering all of the options, Clair and I decided that it was time and I should try too.  My kid was pot luck between hubby and boyfriend Red, the four of us making up our family at the time (until Lora joined as our fifth and final adult member).  Fucking two guys and trying to get pregnant was unbelievable.

 

The second time turned out to be the opposite.  Hubby was the biological dad of our daughter so I wanted the next child with Red.  I didn't have hubby in my pussy for months.

My daughters are both with my husband.  Im on birth control when I play, so I've never tried to have another guys baby.  

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20 hours ago, JessicaJamison said:

My daughters are both with my husband.  Im on birth control when I play, so I've never tried to have another guys baby.  

I certainly understand, and never thought that I would ever be doing this.  But Clair, Lora, Red, David and I (along with our children) are a family as close as any one-man-one-woman family.  I don't consider Red to be "another guy".  IDK, it just works.

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