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    Sunny...For Your Pleasure sunbuckus's Avatar
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    Default Tips and advice about engaging in double penetration (DP) sex

    Hello, there! So, you’re interested in double penetration but you aren’t sure what it is, if it hurts, or if you’re even interested in it. Well, if you have two patient men and some lube (just in case!) it won’t hurt. Promise.

    Okay, so maybe you aren’t totally naïve about double penetration. You’ve either seen it in porn or heard about it from someone who watches porn. Or perhaps you’ve noticed that you enjoy being played with anally during sex and have entertained the thought of being sandwiched between two men.

    For all intents and purposes, let’s clarify what double penetration is before we go on. We’re talking about a male/female/male threesome (MFM) where one male is penetrating the woman vaginally and the other male is in anally. Some might qualify a DP as oral with vaginal/anal penetration but for this article, we will refer that position as a “spit-roast”.

    I suppose the next step is finding a suitable male playmate to join you and your partner or two males if you are a single woman. Or perhaps you are the single male, in that case, this next part is just as important. A swinging single male with experience or swinger husband with a hall pass (wife verified) is crucial. For one, the males involved will not only be in the same room together naked but they will be in close proximity to one another! Limbs will touch and, from what I’ve heard, males can feel each other move inside the woman during the double penetration. You’ll want to make sure that such incidental contact doesn’t freak him out, and if it does, then find another.

    Another reason for picking a male in the swinger community versus a male from the non-swinger (vanilla) community is the greater chance that he will be able to perform. Using a vanilla male will increase the odds that he will be too nervous to achieve an erection, more likely to bail, or not show up at all.

    Now that you know what double penetration (DP) is, you’re interested, and you have your participants picked out and ready to go…when should we go at it, you ask? Foreplay, massages, blowjobs, handjobs, spit-roasting—these are great ways to get acquainted with each other’s bodies and ready for the main attraction. Decide beforehand whether condoms will be used for anal and/or vaginal sex. The use of condoms for anal sex will provide playmates the opportunity to quickly take it off and switch to vaginal sex if desired.

    Let’s talk about positioning. There’s the cowgirl position, the reverse cowgirl position, the side-by-side-by-side position, the standing position, and the sex swing position. The height and size of the DP participants may determine which positions will work or not. Also, be aware of which positions give the woman the most pleasure. Some enjoy anal sex which might mean cowgirl position might work best because the male on top will be in the position to thrust into her anally. If a woman enjoys having her G-spot stimulated, then the reverse cowgirl might be best. If having both men thrust at the same time is a must, the side-by-side-by-side position is one to try. As for the standing and sex swing positions, those will highly depend on height and athleticism of everyone involved.

    If engaging in a DP for the first time, it is recommended that the venue be intimate and private so that the male participants will not have extra unnecessary pressure to perform in front of an audience. It’s also a good idea to know where the necessary supplies are (condoms, lube, bathroom/wash clothes) in case they are needed.

    Here are two of the most important things everyone involved needs to have: patience and a sense of humor! Be prepared that a DP might not happen the first time you attempt it. Technical difficulties may occur. One or both men might not be able to keep an erection during the positioning and maneuvering. It might take some time to figure out who goes where and who goes first in entering the woman. If it doesn’t work the first time or with a certain position, don’t be afraid to try something different to achieve a DP! And remember, if it doesn’t come to fruition in this MFM, try it again during the next MFM.

    Have fun and happy DPing!
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    Swingers Board Addict asncpl's Avatar
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    Default Re: Tips and advice about engaging in double penetration (DP) sex

    Excellent advice! Sun points out something that's so obvious but usually overlooked, and that's making sure the two guys don't mind incidental male-to-male contact, including with the other guy's genitals. Don't forget the lube for the anal entry!

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    Default Re: Tips and advice about engaging in double penetration (DP) sex

    Very well written! We are one of those couples that are working our way up to this. Thanks for the very informative read!
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    Default Re: Tips and advice about engaging in double penetration (DP) sex

    Thanks for the insight! Like Mochacino, this is a goal we're working up to, and all information is helpful!
    MEEOW!

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    Default Re: Tips and advice about engaging in double penetration (DP) sex

    In our experience has been that this is easier said than done. At times it seems like you might need a Ph.D. in advanced physics/ math or be an acrobat in order to successfully pull this off. If I want to do the back door entry and my wife and the other guy are doing the missionary position, being 5'7" I have to squat over her like in a football stance while attempting to maintain my balance on the bed. The other part of the problem is that my wife likes spontaneity so if we want to do a DP then I almost have to telepathically tell the other guy to be half off the couch, get my wife to straddle him and then position all the legs in order to enter her through the back door because if I start telling them what to do I will probably hear "don't direct".

    I do agree that for me, a very straight guy, I find this to be one of the absolutely hottest of positions.

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    Default Re: Tips and advice about engaging in double penetration (DP) sex

    DP is still on our bucket list, and this is a great guide to giving it a go and hope to get to put this advice into use some day.
    Not all those who wander are lost

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    Default Re: Tips and advice about engaging in double penetration (DP) sex

    Tried it, loved, so I tried it again and again and again...

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