guys: Are you a show-er or a grow-er?

I was having this discussion with some friends about why it is that so many guys who feel the need to post a pic of their dick often don't bother to even get it hard first. The comment was made that it was likely the difference between a show-er and a grow-er, and perhaps all these guys who don't bother to get hard are just "show-ers" and therefore getting it hard wouldn't help them.

So, that got me thinking... guys are you a show-er or a grow-er?

Show-er = You are about as big soft as you are hard (you might grow a little, but not enough to brag about).

Grow-er = When you get hard your dick grows A LOT (heck, you might even look like you've been hanging out in cold water until you get it good and hard).

White northern European heritage, definate grower.

One day I should measure soft and get the % volume change, you know, for science!

LOL Chicup!

Hubby is also a grow-er.

As far as pics go, I am not a fan of cock pics...but, I kinda do think a laid back body pic of a man with a flaccid member is sexy. I guess that comes from my first experience with Playgirl. The centerfold just looked so comfortable in his nakedness (and softness), I thought that was very erotic.

Most often I'm a grower. Occasionally I'll look pretty good while relaxed. I have no idea what it depends on.

My wife likes to quote Elaine from Seinfeld, "I don't know how you guys walk around with those things."

Usually I'm a grow-er.

I'm never a show-er.

White northern European heritage, definate grower.

 

One day I should measure soft and get the % volume change, you know, for science!

Same here.

Great idea you have there, that would be some interesting data and also a whole new category of useful info one could put in their SLS profile to impress the ladies, we could call it the dick Delta factor. If for no other reason, the project needs to be done to establish exactly what the dick Delta cutoff is for show-er vs grow-er

. . . dick Delta factor. . .

Hooray, I win! This would skew the contest toward those who are almost inverted before growth. When I was eighteen years of age, I read in Dr Jerry Reuben's book that the average length was five inches (grown). So I ran around looking for just the right measurement device (jig transit and theodolite) that would put me (although only slightly) into the above-average category.

These day I am no longer concerned. No woman of my acquaintance is complaining.

grower, I am some where between thimble and thumb soft and just over 6" hard.

White male so definitely a grower. I do practice PE so I can look pretty good sized flaccid when doing that allot and the weather is warm--over 5" flaccid at times. But even then, I grow allot in girth when I get excited. I think growing hard slowly feels really good so I am happy with that. Still a good semi feels and looks great to walk around with (clothed or naked). Not being a shower has been unfortunate when a girl I liked caught me naked several years ago and was not impressed. "I was in the pool! I was in the pool!" ~George Costanza

Absolutely a grower. Amusingly one women in a swinging couple we played with looked really shocked after we were done playing and we were just chatting. Still naked she looked down and I don't know if the look on her face was surprise, disappointment or what. It was like she had never realized a penis often shrinks lol.

I am about 3 to 4 inches when flaccid and grow to 7 inches when aroused. I like that since it shows a woman that I am definitely interested in her.

Definitely a grower, 3-4" when soft, 7" when completely erect. Jo has told me that watching me (or any other man for that matter) grow is very erotic. It shows her how much we desire her sexually she says!

Grower, according to one girl & I knower!

As Adam said to Eve when they met for the first time...."Stand back, I don't know how big it will get!"

I"m a grower. I'm embarrassed by how small my cock looks when it's soft.

grower, I am some where between thimble and thumb soft and just over 6" hard.

This, if it is really cold it can be hard to find but it grows to nearly 7 inches when really aroused.

Mine is usually very small until erect. I refer to it being in "storage mode" until I get excited. It grows quite a bit from its flaccid length.

grower

Grower

Grower, 2-3 inches flaccid, 6 1/4 inches erect

The comedian Adam Sandler said he’s packing five inches measured from his hemorrhoid.

... Jo has told me that watching me (or any other man for that matter) grow is very erotic..

My wife says that she finds that having one grow in her mouth is very erotic. And challenging.

After reading so many posts on this board I would recommend every man in the world to join this board, you will automatically grow 2”. This board has the most endowed group on the planet.

In the real world men who are smaller when flaccid are growers and can grow to twice the size. Show-ers will grow but nowhere double.

I have found most guys will start to grow before any contact. Fully flaccid is when everyone is relaxed.

And yes it is exciting to watch it grow during oral.

Definitely a grower

My wife says that she finds that having one grow in her mouth is very erotic. And challenging.

Totally agree!

Nice size

I’m a grower, but I find that after sex, or after a good long jackoff session, my cock doesn’t go back quickly to my normal flaccid size. So if I want pics of me flaccid, I do it after I’ve had an erection for fifteen minutes or so. Then I’m somewhere between grower and shower.

Allow me a digression. Sometimes when I get back from a run, my husband, who is a grow-er grabs me despite me needing a show-er. I used to protest, but he indulges himself by taking my sweaty stinky body, creating a smelly sexual mess.

This may not be appropriate for this venue, but I still find this anecdote amusing: We were working to install a heater in the new water tower in SE South Dakota because it was 20 below with a lot of wind. My partner had to pee, so he went out on the cat walk. You can imagine how cold it was 80 feet in the air at that temp and windy! He came back and grumbled that he was wearing FIVE layers of clothes but he only had "a THREE-LAYER DICK!" My guess is that he is a grow-er, but I didn't ask.