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No, not at all. It's most common term is "pegging" and there are a variety of communities and resources that talk about it. It is also commonly reffered to as "bend over boyfriend". The prostate is an amazing thing that is often compared to the female g-spot. It has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual preferences so please do not make a big deal out of that area either.

 

For a long time one of my fantasies was some combination of pegging and having sex at the same time, and that may very well be coming true within a relatively short amount of time.

 

For more resources, check out Kidder Kaper, Cooper Becket, and Dan Savage.

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This has been a fantasy of mine also. I have gotten my wife to use a vibrating dildo in my ass while giving me a blow job and it feels terrific. The anal stimulation really intensifies the orgasm. But, I have not been able to get her to use the strap on. I guess she doesn't have the fantasy of fucking like a man. My fantasy has been to be fucked in the ass while either getting oral, or while doing another woman from behind. Hasn't happened yet.

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This has been a fantasy of mine also. I have gotten my wife to use a vibrating dildo in my ass while giving me a blow job and it feels terrific. The anal stimulation really intensifies the orgasm. But, I have not been able to get her to use the strap on. I guess she doesn't have the fantasy of fucking like a man. My fantasy has been to be fucked in the ass while either getting oral, or while doing another woman from behind. Hasn't happened yet.

 

Thank you for the endorsement. Nice to know someone is getting close. I like what you have experienced. Good luck!

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No, not at all. It's most common term is "pegging" and there are a variety of communities and resources that talk about it. It is also commonly reffered to as "bend over boyfriend". The prostate is an amazing thing that is often compared to the female g-spot. It has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual preferences so please do not make a big deal out of that area either.

 

For a long time one of my fantasies was some combination of pegging and having sex at the same time, and that may very well be coming true within a relatively short amount of time.

 

For more resources, check out Kidder Kaper, Cooper Becket, and Dan Savage.

 

Thank you so much for the wonderful information I will put it to good use.

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I just bought a strap-on because so many male partners have asked me about pegging. I've done it before, but only shortly.

 

I'm excited to get to use it ;)

 

I got myself a feeldoe slim for all the boys in my life. I'll post once I get a few experiences.

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It has been my fantasy for many years. But I have never been close to having it happen. I have gotten the other half to realize that alot of men do like Anal stimulation but alittle finger play it all she has been willing to try.

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Thanks for the response. Like many other men,we have all experienced a finger from the the other half (and the Dr.). I have heard from men who have said the wife or girl friend have gone as far as putting on the strap-on and they loved seeing themselves i the mirror and seeing the dong hanging between their legs. But again that's as far as they went. I sometimes think some of these men experienced the strap-on but never admit to it.

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This was one of Brian's fantasies for many years. For some time now he enjoyed Jo licking and fingering his asshole. As others have said that can give a man a fantastic orgasm. Jo also uses a vibrator on Brian which he enjoys a lot. A few years ago we bought a strap-on and now Jo will often use it on Brian. It is a very enjoyable experience for both of us. The best for Brian is when we are with another couple so the other female can lick and suck his cock while Jo is fucking him. The orgasm that produces is very, very intense.

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This was one of Brian's fantasies for many years. For some time now he enjoyed Jo licking and fingering his asshole. As others have said that can give a man a fantastic orgasm. Jo also uses a vibrator on Brian which he enjoys a lot. A few years ago we bought a strap-on and now Jo will often use it on Brian. It is a very enjoyable experience for both of us. The best for Brian is when we are with another couple so the other female can lick and suck his cock while Jo is fucking him. The orgasm that produces is very, very intense.

 

Try to do sex with woman and receive strap-on in the same time.

 

Someone said about male orgasm:

 

You can have sex with 10 girls at the same time, orgasm will be the same...

You can go to heaven during your ass.

 

Male G-spot is in ass, not on penis head.

So from there are the most intense orgasm.

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My biggest fantasy has always been having a woman using a strapon on me. Am I the only male who wants this?

 

Hummmmm...Not on my list of things to try or do...I hope you enjoyed it...Cheers

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My wife thoroughly enjoys using a strap-on, whether on me or on another male. I think it's a very important tool to allow a male to feel what it's like to have something in your ass. If you enjoy being the giver in anal sex with your wife, it's nice to actually experience what it is to be the receiver.

 

The only caveat is a strap-on is only an approximation of the real thing.

 

For me the ass does not give orgasms and my prostate is not the equivalent of the g spot. There is no one pleasure fits all.

 

Also an orgasm with every woman I've had that pleasure with is different, often very different. For that matter each orgasm with my wife is different, sometimes very different.

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My wife and I have been to anal play for awhile now. She loves to be simulated anally and can orgasm from it. She has used a strapon on me several times and we have worked our way up in size also. In the beginning I think I was tighter than she was. Now I can take quite a large dildo as well has her whole hand. I have had what I describe as an orgasm but without ejaculation from this anal play. The most intense orgasms come from when she is useing a dildo in my ass and she strokes my cock. The last time we did something like this she was fisting me while giving me oral, THAT WAS AWESOME.

 

I'm always amazed at the number of guys who want anal sex from thier wives, but won't let there wife anywhere near thier ass. It's doesn't "make" you gay just to let someone play with your ass. Try it you might like it.

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We have done this and enjoyed. For me (him) definately uncomfortable at first but the sight of her between my legs (missionary) pounding away wither tits bouncing whille pulling on my cock, too much to handle. Hot!

 

On the flip side, I have watched her share a double dilo and get a strap on used on her. I tried to get in the back door while he was in her mouth but mechanics of DP in that case was a little too awkward to work out. But definately enjoyable for all.

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I enjoy this also.. my gf and i went browsing at the adult store and i hovered around this strapon kit.. she got the idea and asked if i would like this and i said sure if you want. next thing i know im being bent over, lubed up and she is going deep and pumping her hips.. she gets off as much as i do if not more.

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I've always had a thing for ass-play, unfortunately very few women over the years were open to it. I've even had a few tell me "it was queer". Fortunately for me, my wife does not feel the same. She is far more open-minded. We bought a strap-on kit that came with 2 different sizes. The first time we used the small one and I rode her "cowboy" while she massaged me. Good orgasm, but frankly the dildo was too small. We tried again with the larger one with me on my back my butt on a Liberator wedge. She was very careful getting it in, but picked up her rhythm nicely, all the time stroking me. The orgasm was fantastic and she got to feel the control of the thrust so many men love. Ours even has a vibrating bullet for stimulating her, but we haven't used it yet. Overall an extremely pleasurable experience and one we will repeat.

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I've always had a thing for ass-play, unfortunately very few women over the years were open to it. I've even had a few tell me "it was queer". Fortunately for me, my wife does not feel the same. She is far more open-minded. We bought a strap-on kit that came with 2 different sizes. The first time we used the small one and I rode her "cowboy" while she massaged me. Good orgasm, but frankly the dildo was too small. We tried again with the larger one with me on my back my butt on a Liberator wedge. She was very careful getting it in, but picked up her rhythm nicely, all the time stroking me. The orgasm was fantastic and she got to feel the control of the thrust so many men love. Ours even has a vibrating bullet for stimulating her, but we haven't used it yet. Overall an extremely pleasurable experience and one we will repeat.

 

YES! I love using either the wedge or ramp in that position! FYI: The more your wife pegs you the better she will get with rhythm and thrusting. Practice makes perfect :D

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I very much want it, but my wife says no.

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I got my wife a jenna jameson strap-on, one that is internal as well as external. I love it, but she feels a little odd with it. Says it just doesn't "fit" her.

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Big Nikki here.

eraserxx7 said:
My biggest fantasy has always been having a woman using a strap-on on me. Am I the only male who wants this?

 

My John loves to have me (or just about any playmate) put on a strap-on and give it to him.

 

But he was gay before he got bi-curious and then married me. Boy did I turn him into a pussy lover! He still does plenty with the boys and he still loves getting butt-fucked by a girl. So he's not exactly your typical guy.

 

PS: sometimes I play Girl's Revenge with him, grinding my pussy into his face until he can hardly breath.

 

When we're playing cruelty games, I peg him with an extra big dildo and then grind my pussy into his face. Of course he squirts like crazy. But he can never get it by asking for it; he gets it only when I'm mad at him.

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softswingpei said:
I very much want it, but my wife says no.

 

Geez, I hope that only means NO with her. I hope she sets you free to swing that way. Otherwise it's cruel (and I don't mean erotic cruel).

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WhatisTruth said:
YES! I love using the wedge

 

The wedge is god's gift to pussies and asses.

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One more note here.

 

While I love live anal from a guy (preferably always-anal-giving husband John) and while girls are my main thing, strap-on anal from a girl does nothing for me, nothing at all.

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My husband has always liked me playing with his asshole when I give him a BJ and hinted about me using a strap-on to fuck him. The idea did intrigue me so I surprised him one night with one I just bought. Since it was his and my first time using it I only put a 7in dildo that we own on it. We did some fore play and then I lubed it up good and slowly stuck it in him doggie style. He said it hurt at first but once it was in and he relaxed he said he had no problem. I must say when he stuck his ass up and I watched the dildo slide in and out while I held his hips and moved his ass back and forth on it, I realized why he likes doggie style! The sense of power and control I felt was the greatest I ever felt during sex! He moaned and asked me to reach under and play with his dick until he came which I gladly did. Needless to say we have added this activity to our list of fun things to do for sex!

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No, not at all. It's most common term is "pegging" and there are a variety of communities and resources that talk about it. It is also commonly reffered to as "bend over boyfriend". The prostate is an amazing thing that is often compared to the female g-spot. It has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual preferences so please do not make a big deal out of that area either.

 

For a long time one of my fantasies was some combination of pegging and having sex at the same time, and that may very well be coming true within a relatively short amount of time.

 

For more resources, check out Kidder Kaper, Cooper Becket, and Dan Savage.

 

Damn straight. Ha, I think I'm the only straight on on that list but the point is, anal enjoyment has NOTHING to do with sexual orientation or gender preference.

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Damn straight. Ha, I think I'm the only straight on on that list but the point is, anal enjoyment has NOTHING to do with sexual orientation or gender preference.

 

No, it really doesn't. Which is why I gave the names of people I respect who are straight, bisexual, and gay. Thought I'd cover all the bases...

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I enjoy this also.. my gf and i went browsing at the adult store and i hovered around this strapon kit.. she got the idea and asked if i would like this and i said sure if you want. next thing i know im being bent over, lubed up and she is going deep and pumping her hips.. she gets off as much as i do if not more.

 

Personally, not my thing.

 

I like to give anal to my lady, not recieve.

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My wife has used a strap on with me many times. She didn't know what to think the first time I brought up anal stimulation on me, but after showing her videos online of men enjoying it she realized that many men like this also. She is setting up our first BiMFM and I am looking forward to it.

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Def not. My wife convinced me to give it a try and I must say it was hot. Her in control and me being penetrated by her was amazing. took me a while to comfortably take her strap on but after I did oh boy.

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I met my ex-husband in the late 70s when vibrators were first coming out. I was five years older than him and he was basically a virgin when I met him. I loved experimenting fingering his anus and even teaching him how to lick each other‘s asses. Even then I fantasize about having my own cock and giving him a good screwing. After we split up in 1980 several years went by and both of us were single and connected up again. He confessed that he lost his anal virginity to a dominant woman and enjoys strap on sex. The day I left him I had given him a hard bare bottom spanking, to my surprise on his request, maybe he felt guilty! He also confessed that he was into female domination and asked if I would continue discipline with him.

 

The first thing I did when I visited his condo was sit in a chair pull him over my lap and blistered his bare ass with my hand. Giving him a spanking something I wanted to do from the very beginning but was afraid to ask and now he was asking me so I let them have it hard. I also found out that he had a harness and dildo I didn’t tell him that I also learned how to use a strap on screwing several boyfriends so I wasn’t a novice at it. So on our next date I took him in the bedroom forcibly pushed him over the side of the bed bottoms up and gave him a good reaming. He had two sizes so I used the smaller one first and then the bigger one. I couldn’t believe that my ex-husband had become so submissive he just laid there and let me screw his ass nonstop. From then on I had my own personal slave!

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Naughtyvanessa said:
I think it is hot - I have couple of strap-on toys and I love it to use them on a guy!

 

A guy, or several? I'm kinda curious about the difference in then men who enjoy this with you.

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I get excited by Tranny play but Wu doesn't and has no interest in strap on sex. If we were at a party with an enthusiastic girl I would be happy to bend over!

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Butch slave;

After watching the movie Misty Beethoven my dominant wife wanted my ass. It didn’t take long and we found a dildo and harness in an adult store and we couldn’t get it home fast enough and she took my virginity. My tall strong dominant wife was already in the physical discipline and strap on sex was an perfect addition. We found a life like dildo that was 8 inches long and an inch and 3/8 in diameter. This was the right size and perfect for screwing my ass repeatedly without damaging it. She actually learned how to be a great cockswoman and took me to bed at least three times a week. To get me in the mood for a good screwing I always got strapped to the point of tears first. She didn’t like intercourse herself and preferred me eating her pussy afterwords giving her multiple orgasms because whipping and fucking me was such a turn on. I consider myself her male lesbian bottom and she was definitely the butch lesbian top. She totally ignored my cock during anal intercourse preferring me to enjoy getting fucked only and didn’t care if I came or not. If I did she would continue screwing me anyway. To her strap on sex and anal intercourse with not about me shooting my wad. She actually would reward me for not coming after anal sex with a hot suck feeding my come in a French kiss afterwards.

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In 1983 my wife and We rented the video,  “The Opening of Misty Beethoven” Misty screws a hot guy with a strap-on on screen and my wife wanted her own strap-on. A week later I was on all fours losing my anal virginity to my wife. Strap-on play became part of our sex life.

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