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  1. #26
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    Default Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger???

    just had this convo with my wife yesterday. we've never really discussed it but she gave me the impression that a guy wanting that would come across as being gay to her.

    my thoughts is that being homosexual requires you to have some kind of interest/attraction to the same sex and has nothing to do with shoving things in your holes.... i'm open for just about anything but i don't think she'd ever be open to that.

    a little bit on a side note... i have on occasion licked her anus (i prefer to not say "rimjob" so whatever) and she hasn't complained and appears to like it. i think i surprised her with that the first time i did it... but, i must admit, that first time was more of a drunken 69-slip up.

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    Hubby loves it! Once we figured that out we experimented with all sorts of things. When in the right mood, even strapping on a toy and dominating him is something he likes...but that IS a LOT of work for me. I have to hand it to the guys here...those abdominal muscles used so naturally while thrusting...don't come so easily to me. He isn't in to men at all, but the idea of me having that kind of contol and dominance over him coupled with the extremely powerful orgasm that is achieved when your prostate is being pressured...well, worth the sweat : ). Other things that are enjoyable include having just the outside stimulated (or licked), or a good old fashion finger. I have to admit that I'm not that into the finger or licking. Mostly because I have a very sensitive nose and I don't want to stop playing to go wash my hand if there is any odor at all. So I bought a box of gloves. We don't do it that often so I also use them for our first aid kit and ugly household chores! With the licking...I got baby wipes and incorporate it into play as gracefully as possible. He is incredibly clean...this IS just a mental thing for me. I work in healthcare and am probably becoming neurotic about some things. I'm okay with poop being one of them. I like doing things for him that he is totally into even if they aren't my favorites. He does things for me that aren't his favorite either. If it were all one sided, I might feel differently of course. Then there are ALL the things we both like equally. BONUS!
    It's Better to be Looked Over Than Overlooked

  3. #28

    Default Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger???

    For me, I like a finger up the butt, but it is very rare and more an exotic, rather than an erotic, experience.

    I had never had a finger up there until a few years ago. It was out first threesome and the woman we were with did it while she was rubbing my cock with her other hand. It felt very exotic; not necessarily great or stimulating, but exotic. Since my wife hates ass play, it is something I only do when we are with someone else. I think that, because of this, I consider it a little exotic and like it because of that.

  4. #29

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    There was a stretch in my mid-20s when it seemed like a lot of women thought that using a finger during a blow job was a great "sex trick". I don't know if they all read the same article in Cosmo or what, but then they got annoyed when I didn't respond to it.

    Apparently my ass isn't an erogenous zone. It didn't hurt or make me uncomfortable, but it wasn't fun either. It was a lot like if she had stuck her finger in my belly button. Not really a big deal, but it's pretty distracting if you're trying to enjoy yourself.

  5. #30

    Default Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger???

    Funny thing about this thread is that while its not my thing, I don't know why its a "gay/straight" dividing line.

    Another man with his finger up your ass. Gay or doctor.
    A woman with her finger up your ass. Not gay or doctor.

    Or maybe a gay doctor...

  6. #31

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    Agreed Chicup,

    Quote: It's not what you do, it's who you do it with.*

    D

    *Sorry, quote will have to remain unattributed, 'cause I cannot for the life of me remember where I heard it.

  7. #32

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    I had a girlfriend who not only loved putting her finger in my ass but her vibrator also. It felt great! We bought a double ended dildo so one end could be in her ass and one in mine while we masturbated ourselves. Not once did I ever feel "gay". It made her really horny to play with my ass and I was loving her being really horny. Do I miss that? Yes. I wish more women would slide a finger in my ass while they are sucking me.

  8. #33

    Default Ignorance about gay or bi

    It never ceases to amaze me the level of ignorance today about what is gay. People are gay, actions are not. Gay is a sexual preference, not an action. The act of fucking a man in the ass is not gay; it's people who are gay. A woman doing anything to a man's ass is never gay. An act is an act, whether sexual or not. Gay is the person not the act.

    Sad also is the level of fear of being called gay, especially when ignorance suggests an act makes you gay.

    To not have experienced a strap-on in your ass makes a man inexperienced in what it feels like to be penetrated. To understand penetration physically enables a man to be a better lover. Fearing it only makes you fearful.


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    newplaytoys
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    Default Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger???

    mmmmmmm very nice

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    My two favorite ways of doing this; 1. in the bathtub laying back with my legs upon the sides of the tub and the wife sitting between my legs stroking my cock and fingering my ass. The second in the shower, standing bent over, with her behind me on her knees, essentially milking my cock like you would milk a cow and simultaneously finger fucking my ass. Incredible orgasms!

  11. #36

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    Best orgasms I have ever had was when a finger/toy was in m ass. I would suggest all men to try it at least once! Use lots of lube.

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    So many man who refuse to try out thing with argument "thats gay" are just plain afraid that they will become gay. Well... in most cases thats true. That fear (fobia) of becoming gay is not coming from nowhere. Deeply inside they know what they are and what might happen when they let themselves go. Swinging and group play for single guys is only legal way of having sex with or close to other guy without labeled "fag" in they own mind.
    Most of the straight guys who contact us (our profile states - we are both bisexual) focuses totally on guy play - questions of do/donts are all related to male play. Its so funny and sad at the same time. Its like having sex with zombies. So we are not interested in most cases.

  13. #38

    Default Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger???

    I use all kinds of things on the hubby when I am giving him a BJ or a HJ, and his orgasms are always so much more intense and he is 100% straight.

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    I'm into ass play and I also love for mine to be played with. Yes, I love the finger and there is nothing like a finger in the ass while getting a blow job..WOW!!! I have let my wife fuck me with a strap-on before and I loved it, and would do it again anytime! I think if it feels good to you then what's the problem. I don't think it has anything to do with my "manhood"!!! I'm STILL a MAN!!!
    It is, what it is!!!

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    This has nothing to do with "gay or straight" and everything to do with the myriad pleasurable sensations that can be found on, in, and around the anus. Prostate play, and prostate milking is an unbelievably intense way to edge and climax. And for males, the prostate as a part of an ESO (extended sexual orgasm) play date (with self or partner) can result in some of the longest and strongest orgasms imaginable.

    Remember, the male orgasm is TWO "things" that occur as, in most people's minds, one aligned "event": The climax and the ejaculation. But the only fixed part of a male orgasm is the ejaculation part (usually 3-10 seconds, with 3-10 "spurts"). The climax part can last for WAAAAYYYYYYYY longer than the ejaculation. In the case of ESO, well, google it up and get practicing.

    The aside here I'm delving into re: ESO is because prostate stimulation with finger, vibrators, etc. can both be an amazing adjunct to penile stimulation (HJ's, BJ's, sleeves, and pussy), or stand alone (focused prostate milking) with "look ma, no hands or mouth" male orgasms where the penis is not stimulated or touched in any way.

    This is not a "gay" or "straight" issue. This is a male sexual function, pleasure, and health issue. Prostate stimulation is a great way to check for irregular prostate "feel", and feeling a prostate during climax is amazing for one's self or a partner, as that amazing little gland becomes hard like a lightning loaded throbbing walnut and just feels amazing during climax.

    I blew a load up and over my head once during a fingered prostate play O with my wife. When I came out of the Orgasmic clouds we laughed like Hyena's.
    Did you two have Lucky Charms for breakfast? Because you look magically delicious!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Swingularity View Post
    This has nothing to do with "gay or straight" and everything to do with the myriad pleasurable sensations that can be found on, in, and around the anus. Prostate play, and prostate milking is an unbelievably intense way to edge and climax. And for males, the prostate as a part of an ESO (extended sexual orgasm) play date (with self or partner) can result in some of the longest and strongest orgasms imaginable.

    Remember, the male orgasm is TWO "things" that occur as, in most people's minds, one aligned "event": The climax and the ejaculation. But the only fixed part of a male orgasm is the ejaculation part (usually 3-10 seconds, with 3-10 "spurts"). The climax part can last for WAAAAYYYYYYYY longer than the ejaculation. In the case of ESO, well, google it up and get practicing.

    The aside here I'm delving into re: ESO is because prostate stimulation with finger, vibrators, etc. can both be an amazing adjunct to penile stimulation (HJ's, BJ's, sleeves, and pussy), or stand alone (focused prostate milking) with "look ma, no hands or mouth" male orgasms where the penis is not stimulated or touched in any way.

    This is not a "gay" or "straight" issue. This is a male sexual function, pleasure, and health issue. Prostate stimulation is a great way to check for irregular prostate "feel", and feeling a prostate during climax is amazing for one's self or a partner, as that amazing little gland becomes hard like a lightning loaded throbbing walnut and just feels amazing during climax.

    I blew a load up and over my head once during a fingered prostate play O with my wife. When I came out of the Orgasmic clouds we laughed like Hyena's.
    WOW!!!
    It is, what it is!!!


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    Should add that one of the "issues" here with many people is the "poop" part. The lower colon is rather easily made squeaky clean with a few simple steps. First, a good BM is a great start. Then enemas series (2 or three). Followed with a shower cleanse. We love pure, organic coconut oil for all kinds of sexual uses (best lube ever, in our opinion, if no condoms are involved) and it makes for a yummy "add on" to skin anywhere on a body one would care to lick, rub, or whatever!
    Did you two have Lucky Charms for breakfast? Because you look magically delicious!

  18. #43

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    Gf did it with a bullet while giving a blow job I was cumming kike crazy and she getting off on it too

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    Quote Originally Posted by kneedeepth View Post
    Gf did it with a bullet while giving a blow job I was cumming kike crazy and she getting off on it too
    Oh hell yeah!!!!
    It is, what it is!!!

  20. #45

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    Been there, done that and loved it. My wife makes a point of rimming my ass with her fingertips occasionally and also uses my vibrator (especially bought for that purpose), add a blowjob and I'm in heaven.
    Seriously guys, you have to try it to believe it!

    A shower before playing is always highly recommended.

  21. #46

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    I have had a woman's finger up there, but it is very rare, and I think because it is rare, I enjoy it.

    The first time for me was during our first threesome, the other woman stuck a finger up there. Initially she just touched my ass and asked if it was OK. I said sure, and it felt good -- I would not say amazing but it was different and seemed kind go wild, so I decided I liked it.

    Because my wife is not at all into any sort of ass play, it is something that only happens very occasionally she we are with another woman. I have no desire to do it more, but it feels pretty good on those rare occasions.

  22. #47

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    Its really good and gives you so much pleasure



    Quote Originally Posted by BryanKleist View Post
    The most I've taken is my wife's pinky finger. It wasn't unpleasant, but it did absolutely nothing for me sexually. As a male it was interesting to experience what it feels like to be penetrated. To be truthful, it felt more like an examination than sex-play!

  23. #48

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    Personally, I love it!!!
    It is, what it is!!!

  24. #49

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    Quote Originally Posted by ktimephoenix View Post
    I have had vibrators etc put on my balls. some feel good, others slightly sickening. i don't know if it's due to the different intensities, or whether i was just more open to the idea sometimes rather than others. i do know that there are times i can't stand them being played with during head, and others i love it, so it's possible. we have a vibrating massage glove, and that has always felt good.

    I occasionally enjoy a finger penetrating my arse during head.

    It took me a LONG time to get comfortable with it tho. i enjoyed the feeling physically but afterwards, i felt used, and very sexually confused. that was with another ex. with mrs P, I don't feel confused or "gay". both because of the bond we share, and because i have come a long way with my sexual confidence.


    I was the same.. If it pleases my wife and partner I like it.. not all the time but if the timing is right why not..


  25. #50

    Default Re: How many straight guys have taken a finger???

    A male friend of ours once said, "Whatever it is, if a lady is doing it to you, it's not gay."

    Although my hubby is very open and believes we own our bodies and do what we please with them, he has zero interest. I have to agree that I'm not sure how a woman using her finger on a guy is gay.

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