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Here's a question that I have for the ladies, have you ever been asked by your husband (boyfriends too..) to use a strap-on with them. Let me tell you a small story, my man uses anal toys either with me or alone. I actually enjoy using them with him, I love to see him moan with delight, and believe me he does with or with out me. Well one day he asked if I would be interested in using a strap-on with him, WOW did that blow me away I was shocked, confused and everything else you can imagine. Thinking to myself is he bi or even gay, I was beside myself. Well to make a long story shorter we talked about it and he convinced me he wasn't gay or bi. I really knew he wasn't but I was taken back for a short time. He explained that when he puts anal toys up his butt it gives him a fantastic feeling, so I listened.

 

I decided that he did things to please me such as letting me play with other guys and fuck around with them. I have also heard of this before but never thought my guy would like it but then again I never thought we would enjoy fucking other people in front of each other. Another thing I let other women kiss me, lick my tits and pussy so I guess I owe it to him.

So moving on, he got a strap-on that he liked, we played with it then I finally put it on and he went into the doggie position, as I slowly inserted it, he let out this enormous groan,"Oh..my...god" he said. This was kinda neat for me to as I was getting horny doing this and watching him. Well,finally he got on top of me the way I like it best and he started riding that dildo like there was no tomorrow, then he started to stroke his cock and moan louder finally,READY, he let go a load of cum that literally shot over my head and hit the headboard as some slowly ran down my stomach.

 

So let me tell you wives, this was awesome for both of us, if he suggests this hey give it a try, we do this now about 2-3 times a month (if he's good). You'll probably never see a grown man moan like that again.

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Personally Ive never had anyone I was in a relationship with ask for this, but Ive had several guys online ask me to do it. I also had an online male friend who was into bondage & discipline & his wife was a Mistress, he got off on her doing this to him. Apparently this is fairly common for some men, it seems to give them stronger ejaculations. Glad it works out for the both of you & you enjoy making him as happy as he makes you.

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I honestly would be afraid to use one lol. If Jay wanted me to I would, but man, he'd be a brave man. I don't know how to use one of those things!

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Here's a question that I have for the ladies, have you ever been asked by your husband (boyfriends too..) to use a strap-on with them. Let me tell you a small story, my man uses anal toys either with me or alone. I actually enjoy using them with him, I love to see him moan with delight, and believe me he does with or with out me. Well one day he asked if I would be interested in using a strap-on with him, WOW did that blow me away I was shocked, confused and everything else you can imagine. Thinking to myself is he bi or even gay, I was beside myself. Well to make a long story shorter we talked about it and he convinced me he wasn't gay or bi. I really knew he wasn't but I was taken back for a short time. He explained that when he puts anal toys up his butt it gives him a fantastic feeling, so I listened.

I decided that he did things to please me such as letting me play with other guys and fuck around with them. I have also heard of this before but never thought my guy would like it but then again I never thought we would enjoy fucking other people in front of each other. Another thing I let other women kiss me, lick my tits and pussy so I guess I owe it to him.

So moving on, he got a strap-on that he liked, we played with it then I finally put it on and he went into the doggie position, as I slowly inserted it, he let out this enormous groan,"Oh..my...god" he said. This was kinda neat for me to as I was getting horny doing this and watching him. Well,finally he got on top of me the way I like it best and he started riding that dildo like there was no tomorrow, then he started to stroke his cock and moan louder finally,READY, he let go a load of cum that literally shot over my head and hit the headboard as some slowly ran down my stomach. So let me tell you wifes, this was awesome for both of us, if he suggests this hey give it a try, we do this now about 2-3 times a month (if he's good). You'll probably never see a grown man moan like that again.

 

 

We have never used a strap on, like my previous post......Jay probably would end up losing his liver or something he may need. But he is into a good prostate exam every now and then. I think that once men allow themselves to relax and enjoy it they are introduced to a whole new level of orgasm. Yeah, he likes it lol.

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I would have to say that using a strap on with MrVan would be out. ;) That is not something that I think he would enjoy. However I have had a lady friend use one with me and it was pretty hot but I do not think I would ever consider getting one to use on MrVan. I think I would be afraid of what I would do to him with it...

 

MrsVan

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I honestly would be afraid to use one lol. If Jay wanted me to I would, but man, he'd be a brave man. I don't know how to use one of those things!

Yep, I wouldn't know how to use one either...but I'd be willing to give it a try.

 

~SS

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well if he likes your tongue in hiss ass, then i dont see why he wouldnt want to experiment with something else.

 

i was once at a friends house, when i took one of the girls to the bathroom (me and one of the guests) we came accross a strap on that was under the sink. i almost freaked out when i saw it, i didnt know how to react. i could see his wife and other partner fucking him. i must say it still confuses me to this day but so did swinging originally.

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If J. asked me, I would. Never used one, is the first try graded on a curve? I'm pretty good with the riding...never had to try the thrusting. I'm not sure my hips work that way. Haha.

 

We have a couple we're friends with. The F has talked about "doing" me with a strap-on. Hey - maybe she'll teach me how to use one. ;)

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If J. asked me, I would. Never used one, is the first try graded on a curve? I'm pretty good with the riding...never had to try the thrusting. I'm not sure my hips work that way. Haha.

 

We have a couple we're friends with. The F has talked about "doing" me with a strap-on. Hey - maybe she'll teach me how to use one. ;)

 

First, I must say that the act of one woman doing another with a strap-on ranks very very high on my must see list! That is my biggest turn-on concerning strap-ons.

 

I've never had a woman do this to me. I really hope that my future long-term partner would do it. I would be dissapointed if she were grossed out by it. So, I'm really happy to hear that most of you ladies would give it a try, and those who would not is just for fear of hurting the man, and not about gay or anal fears.

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"bi","bicurious", "gay", "straight", why waste time trying to label something??? Just enjoy yourselves! women have it so good because they're encouraged to mix it up with both sexes but men are stuck with having to judge and label their fantasies before they're allowed to indulge in them. And the sad thing about it is it's mostly the men who are judging themselves!! Let it go dudes! lol! just enjoy yourselves!

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We do it. The harness we started with uses an O ring so we could use different size toys in it...started with a tiny anal plug and did very little thrusting...just kind of rocked to put pressure on the prostate.

 

Fave position is him on top so he can control the stroke and I can use my hands on his cock.

 

S

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well if he likes your tongue in hiss ass, then i dont see why he wouldnt want to experiment with something else.

 

Tonuge...

 

Dildo...

 

You either live in the land of large tongues or small dildos. Around here - those two things just are not the same size...

 

I enjoy it when Mrs Spoo ventures down there a bit with her tongue, but a finger or (god forbid) a dildo would not be welcome 'round back. But then, I must live in the land of unnaturally large dildos :D

 

Spoomonkey

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Certainly a high degree of trust must be present. Though, scientifically, there are many nerve ending near the scrotum and surrounding area, keep in mind that anal sex is the same for either gender.

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keep in mind that anal sex is the same for either gender.

 

I disagree, based mainly on the absence of a prostate in most females ;)

 

Spoomonkey

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Let me tell you a small story, my man uses anal toys either with me or alone. I actually enjoy using them with him, I love to see him moan with delight, and believe me he does with or with out me.

 

Well one day he asked if I would be interested in using a strap-on with him, WOW did that blow me away I was shocked, confused and everything else you can imagine. Thinking to myself is he bi or even gay, I was beside myself.

 

I don't think having your husband ask you to use a strap on makes him bi or gay or straight and just likes anal play on himself. What does confuse me is why it took the strap on question to make you question his straightness? If you were going to question it at all I think the first time he asked you to do any anal would have made you think :eek:

 

Don't be concerned with his "orientation" if you both are having fun then just go with it.

 

well if he likes your tongue in hiss ass, then i dont see why he wouldnt want to experiment with something else.

 

I can think of lots of reasons why...probably the same reasons I like Spoo's tongue and even his finger in my ass but not a dildo or his penis :eek: Been there...done that...didn't like it! Yes, Spoo and I both live in the land of large... :rolleyes: Ummm, well endowedness. :D

 

 

he let go a load of cum that literally shot over my head and hit the headboard as some slowly ran down my stomach.

 

Spoo has done this quite a few times and I didn't have to have a strap on up his ass. :D

 

Mrs Spoomonkey

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WE DO IT !!!! you do know that the prostate is the male G spot and her with the strap on is hot as hell. I love it when she uses hers. There are some great role playing that can happen with her strap on. The night she walked out of the bathroom with one of my dress shirts on and a strap on and the look on her face WOW.

I can say her attitude is way differant when she has a dick. Guys have you have just wanted to grab your woman and have just a good hard fuck one of those bad mood ones.

Well it is out of this world when she is in that mood and takes your ass just like that

All i can say is TRY IT ASAP LOL

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All i can say is TRY IT ASAP LOL

 

Hey to each his own, if you like it go for it. For us it's not my thing. Spoo is definately not interested and I don't like stap ons. I've had some bi woman talk about them but I don't want to have a dick and if I'm going to get f _ _ ked I want the real thing.

 

Mrs Spoomonkey

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Dog is a no access kind of guy with regards to his rear.

He does however react quite nicely to a little presure on the area between his balls and his anus. That is more then enough to get that shoot over my head kind of ejaculation. :D

The woman has no feeling in the strap on, so my fear, like some of the other ladies is when and were to stop. You can't go by feel now can you. If Dog asked, ya I would go along for the ride and see what came of it. But I would prefer to keep things as they are now, limited to no access.

Your friend,

Prettylady :kissface:

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hi, new guy here, just had to talk about this...

 

I love the strapon very much. once its in i6t's like nothing else.

 

As far as being gay, ha, does liking head make me gay too???

keith

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The woman has no feeling in the strap on, so my fear, like some of the other ladies is when and were to stop. You can't go by feel now can you. ...

 

To take this in a different direction; are there strap ons that stimulate the female adequately? Well enough the reach orgasm as you have at the object of you affection.

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When I met my husband I was quite experienced with everything under the sun. In my early 20s I used to take the train to New York City and work as a hooker sucking and fucking rich guys making lots of money. I always went with my favorite girlfriend where we shared a hotel room and we got “very close“. We were forced to work under a Madame that was a professional dominatrix. Things were very safe with her and she knew who to pay off and what to stay away from. Whenever I got out of line I ended up in her dungeon getting my ass whipped and to my surprise fucked with a strap on. She taught me the art of using a dildo so that I could use it on my clients and make even more money. Our Madame also seduced my girlfriend and I teaching us the joys of oral sex. Now today I’m a raving butch lesbian. I married my husband as a cover so that I could continue taking on clients behind his back and make enough money to fund my expensive lifestyle. I’m sure he thought I was one kinky lady as I experimented with him to see what he was willing and not willing to do. I spent lots of time with him in bed under the sheets teaching him how to eat my pussy and truthfully he was as good as my girlfriend. My husband was always horny begging me for a fuck, little did he know I was getting paid to get fucked all week long. When I was home I needed a break from intercourse so I would just grab him and make him eat my pussy. I was an expert at getting guys off quick and that’s exactly what I did with my husband either using my hand or my mouth to relieve him in just a couple minutes. He was such a straight guy I didn’t even mention doing him with a dildo but it was always on my mind plus I also had several bi and gay guys after his ass but I had to turn them down. He was a gentle man and very sensual especially licking and eating my pussy. Which is why I kept him around. I finally got caught by some friends with another guy it I got back to my husband so without explaining I was forced to leave him quite disappointingly. I was forced to move in with my girlfriend and pursue my lesbian lifestyle.

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WE DO IT !!!! you do know that the prostate is the male G spot and her with the strap on is hot as hell. I love it when she uses hers. There are some great role playing that can happen with her strap on. The night she walked out of the bathroom with one of my dress shirts on and a strap on and the look on her face WOW.

I can say her attitude is way differant when she has a dick. Guys have you have just wanted to grab your woman and have just a good hard fuck one of those bad mood ones.

Well it is out of this world when she is in that mood and takes your ass just like that

All i can say is TRY IT ASAP LOL

 

As a guy who enjoys and is not troubled by anal penetration I would say that it requires an enthusiastic and curious/communicating partner for me to want to share the act.:sex:

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