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The past few months I have been thinking about this.

 

We have been to house parties and other things over the years. At some of these parties the people are playing with multiple partners either in private/public/both.

 

So here is the question. If she had someone cum (bareback) in her earlier in the party and you start playing with her:

 

Do you know if she played earlier?

 

Would you ask her if she went bareback before you do oral?

 

Should she tell you before you go down on her?

 

What if she doesn't tell and you find out?

 

What would be required before you go down on her if she did have someone cum in her?

 

I am not personally interested in creampies, but this question I thought was interesting.

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The past few months I have been thinking about this.

 

We have been to house parties and other things over the years. At some of these parties the people are playing with multiple partners either in private/public/both.

 

So here is the question. If she had someone cum (bareback) in her earlier in the party and you start playing with her:

 

Do you know if she played earlier?

I would imagine so if she had cum in her. :) Who she played with would be the question. And are you talking about another woman or my wife?

 

Would you ask her if she went bareback before you do oral?
Never have asked that of someone.

 

Should she tell you before you go down on her?
I would hope she would if she had played bareback, just out of respect for me.

 

What if she doesn't tell and you find out?
I'd probably joke it off, put on a condom and have sex with her anyway. :lol:

 

What would be required before you go down on her if she did have someone cum in her?
I wouldn't if it wasn't someone I knew, meaning my wife and a guy we trusted. We have played bareback on two occasions with couples we know really, really well and trust explicitly. I have never had any qualms about going down on Mrs. WS after I've cum in her, so I was not turned-off on going down on Mrs. WS or screwing her after the other husband had cum in her. It really doesn't bother me. What would is if it was like you said, at a party, with someone who isn't my partner, and it was just some guy that came in her.

 

Mr. WS

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What would be required before you go down on her if she did have someone cum in her?

 

A shower...

 

We have two rules - one is unbreakable, the other flexes some.

 

The unbreakable rule is that we always finish the night off together.

 

The flexible rule is condoms. We have RARELY played without, but with some friends who we feel especially good about, we have. The first time this happened - I didn't exactly "do the math", so our playmate finished inside.

 

Of course, I had to have her shower after they left since I just couldn't "go there".

 

Ever since, if we play without, we just simply request "pulling out". So - even bareback, this hasn't been an issue for us.

 

Spoomonkey

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We have been swinging or "group sex" as I like to call with the same couples/friends for a long time. One couple for almost 20 years and two other couples between 10 and 5 years. So yes we each know everybody pretty well so the cream pie issue is not a factor. The guys all go bare back and the cum does end up in various locations facelick

 

However, a few years ago when my husband and I and another married couple went to HEDO 3, guys wore condoms and we showered afterwards before our husbands went "down" on us again.

 

Guess for us is how well we know the other couple :rolleyes:

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In our Swing club here in rapid City we have a rule that says no cumming in the ladys. With out a condom.

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We have a couple that we have played with bareback and it is pull out all the way. Mr. Indy will also pull out if we are expecting more play later on. We also have the rule of finishing together.

 

I am not sure if it would bother the man, but it would bother me to know that I wasn't 'fresh'.

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Couples that we know and get tested it's No condoms.

We all talked about this before hand so nothing would be upsetting.

especially when the night is over with and the excess wetness from semen is not something that our husbands or boyfriends would mind.

Condoms do get messy and thrown around the 3 rooms so the next day is sort of a game...where is the condom? We all decided to Nix the sheath and enjoy each other naturally. So far its so nice to be like this.

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Hubby, David, will go down on me even if I come home messy. My lover, Red, doesn't like that so I always make sure I'm cleaned up before I see him. That's about as complicated as my life gets.

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This really isn't an issue for us. Typically, we wait until we get home before having sex with each other, so any evidence of any creampies is long washed away by then. When we go to an on-premise club or a house party, we go there to exclusively to fuck other people.

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Do you know if she played earlier?
I think sometimes people know and other times they don't.

Would you ask her if she went bareback before you do oral?

If it matters to them, they better ask!

Should she tell you before you go down on her?

I think many people will answer yes, but how does one talk with cock in mouth?:facelick: We have been in group scenes where telling before doesn't happen cuz of how the orgy is going. If it's possible to tell, I just say "there is cum in there!" Or my hubby says it.

What if she doesn't tell and you find out?

Never had anyone care cuz those who do, ask or are more cautious about jumping in to play.

What would be required before you go down on her if she did have someone cum in her?

I find the answer 'a shower' to be funny...no shower ever sprayed up inside my vaginal area...so even a shower leaves a fine residue up out of sight. :EG:

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The past few months I have been thinking about this.

 

We have been to house parties and other things over the years. At some of these parties the people are playing with multiple partners either in private/public/both.

 

So here is the question. If she had someone cum (bareback) in her earlier in the party and you start playing with her:

 

Do you know if she played earlier?

 

Well... I rarely assume anyone I've been with at a party is going to be totally untouched or virginal. Odds are SOMEONE has been there before!

 

Would you ask her if she went bareback before you do oral?

 

I'm assuming you mean, do I stop & ask before eating her out (not stop her & ask before she gives me a blowjob)... in either case, I've never stopped to ask.

 

Should she tell you before you go down on her?

 

If I stopped to ask, I would expect her to give me an honest answer... but since I've never stopped to ask, it would be a moot point.

 

I have had a gal stop me while I was on the way down & tell me "no" because she'd been playing bareback & didn't feel comfortable sharing that with me.

 

What if she doesn't tell and you find out?

 

(*shrug*) ... it's happened before & I honestly didn't care.

 

What would be required before you go down on her if she did have someone cum in her?

 

Nothing much... it's not something I'm squeamish about. But a bit of early warning might be polite if she thought there might be some chance I didn't know about it.

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The closest I have come to this situation was with a good friend who gave her husband a blow job while I was eating her pussy. After she finished him off, he left the room so the two of us could be together. She insisted on brushing her teeth and using mouthwash before she would let us continue. I didn't care; it wouldn't have bothered me to kiss her after her hubby came in her mouth, so long as she swallowed it before we started kissing.

 

On a related issue, my wife seldom can cum when another guy eats her pussy. He gets her hot, and I have to finish her off. I wipe her off as best I can, but there is inevitably a bit of saliva from the other guy when I go down on her. I don't really like it, but it's not so bad I won't do it.

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I've licked my wife's pussy several times after someone had cum in her.

 

Most of the times she had been out and I knew what she was doing and I licked her after she got home, so it was probably at least 30 minutes after they had last cum in her. I could still taste the cum and I'm sure I would know if she had been fucked even if it had been a couple of hours before.

 

Same with sex after she's been fucked by another. I've been with my wife as well as some other women and somehow it seems to feel different when it's another guy's cum rather than your own and I think I'd know it. I've played with her pussy up to about an hour and a half after she's been cummed in and she's still always had that silky slipperiness.

 

So yes, I'd know and until we talked about it recently she hadn't even gave it any thought when I had gone down on her after other men had had her. I think the other answered are implied from what I've written so far. she wouldn't need to tell me and I'd know as soon as I went there, if I hadn't already known what was happening... which i usually do.

 

Women that are freshly fucked have a look about them that is unmistakable and the smell and taste different, even when they have used a condom you can tell by the smell and taste of their skin and I love that "cat that ate the canary" look that tells you she did something very dirty, and enjoyed it.

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In my opinion, a freshly-fucked pussy tastes much more sexually pungent, whether or not it's been freshly filled.

 

Alura

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I’m kinda weird about saliva. I would much rather go down on a girl after either a guy or myself came in her than to follow immediately after he ate her.

 

Besides, I like the taste of cum mixed with her juices.:blush:

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Let's see if I can answer these questions without listing them.

 

My dearest bride does go bareback with friends of our's. I do NOT go down on her after she has had sex with anyone (including myself), sorry but as has been said before, I don't swing that way. However, she LOVES to be eaten after she is filled with cum. There are friends of our's (male and female) who love a good cream pie and will eagerly do so. She always lets people know, FIRST, that she has "played" already.

 

As a few have already said, we always finish the night together and I have no qualms about having sex with her after she already has had someone finish inside her. It feels so nice and slick! Good description wsfl48.

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I'm one who feels that orgasms are wonderful, and that includes the taste. Female, male, and combined. Combined is the best, especially those combined within my love. So delicious, so hot, so filled with sexual energy that you can taste, feel, and experience directly. Nothing gets my love hotter or moves her quicker to a wonderful orgasm than going down on her after she's been fucked and filled, whether it's me or another who did the filling and usually me doing the tasting.

 

I must confess that I don't understand those squeamish about sharing that level of intimacy with the one you love. Sure we're all raised to be squeamish about such sexual things, but swingers had to get past the junk judgments against sharing sex...you'd think they would also go past the junk squeamishness about cum in order to share something so intimate, so pleasureable, so tasty and so full of sexual energy.

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My married gf used to sometimes get her husband to fuck her before she saw me.

 

Early on I was suspicious but didnt say anything, and was very turned on by the idea.

 

Later when she realised I loved it she made a point of trying to keep as wet as possible and seeme as fast as possible. She would be wearing a thong (Panties) while he fucked her and then just move them across when he'd finished. That avoided any spillage and meant she was soaking when I saw her. She never said she had been fucked but the smell of come was really strong, sometimes even before we undressed.

 

I absolutetly loved it, the taste, smell and feel was out of this world.

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In a group scene I have always (maybe wrongly) assumed that who ever wars going down on me knew that there was cum inside as they had just watch someone fuck me. On the other hand, the times I have had multiple playmates on the same night but not part of a group scene I try to clean up between rounds. Wet wipes are part of our play bag. If someone asked I would answer honestly but no one ever has.

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I've licked my wife's pussy several times after someone had cum in her.

Women that are freshly fucked have a look about them that is unmistakable and the smell and taste different, even when they have used a condom you can tell by the smell and taste of their skin and I love that "cat that ate the canary" look that tells you she did something very dirty, and enjoyed it.

 

My husband LOVES going down on me after another guy has cum inside me. It's absolutely great for me too!

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Since we always use condoms, it's pretty much a non-issue. That said, there have been times I've kissed my hubby or someone else after swallowing another guy. But since I usually end up chugging water afterwards, even that doesn't present a problem.

 

IF, however, I were to play bareback with anyone, my hubby (or whomever was next in line) would be given a warning beforehand.

 

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My married gf used to sometimes get her husband to fuck her before she saw me.

 

Early on I was suspicious but didnt say anything, and was very turned on by the idea.

 

Later when she realised I loved it she made a point of trying to keep as wet as possible and seeme as fast as possible. She would be wearing a thong (Panties) while he fucked her and then just move them across when he'd finished. That avoided any spillage and meant she was soaking when I saw her. She never said she had been fucked but the smell of come was really strong, sometimes even before we undressed.

 

I absolutetly loved it, the taste, smell and feel was out of this world.

 

a long time ago my married gf used to fuck two other men (neither was her husband) and come to me to get eaten out and fucked (in that order). It made me really horny and excited her too. she did like to use her sex to bolster her self esteem, which led to other problems, but this multiple partner fucking and unexpected creampie was pretty sexy in a raunchy and raw kind of way. Fucking her after her other partners had had her was very sexy! None of us used condoms, there was a lot of cum-mixing in her pussy!

She'd tell me after we fucked what she had done, or sometimes even as we fucked. We'd talk to each other while fucking.

 

Now 25 years later I fantasize about my wife getting laid by several guys and eating her out. I have no trouble eating my own cum out of her, I would like to eat her out after she's fucked be a few or several other guys! My wife fantasizes about the same sort of thing, though she's more into double penetration or all her holes being filled simultaneously, or continuous gangbanging. For me the attraction is her filled pussy!!!

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I’m kinda weird about saliva. I would much rather go down on a girl after either a guy or myself came in her than to follow immediately after he ate her.

 

Besides, I like the taste of cum mixed with her juices.:blush:

me too, I'd be happy licking fucked pussy right afterwards, but hesitant about eating her right after another guy ate her. I'd be happier if she got fucked and filled in-between. Probably she'd be happier that way too, getting licked, filled, and eaten again - more sex for her ;)

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My husband LOVES going down on me after another guy has cum inside me. It's absolutely great for me too!

 

I did just that to my wife this past weekend and she had one of her quickest ever orgasms!!!! It was amazing!

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Yes it has happened, the husband was fucking his wife for a while but I did not think he had cum in her. We swapped and he put a condom on and fucked my wife while I condomized and played with his. She was very wet and had a mildly sex smell. I have eaten my own seed from my wife and do not have a problem with that. But had never eaten another guys. I think I was very excited about what was going when I went down on her so did not give it much thought. Until later when I had finished another round with my wife and after cumming in her I went down on her. It then rang a bell. She smelt the same, tasted the same and was super slippery. So I realized that I had been eating the other guys sperm earlier. I think he must have had an earlier fuck with his wife and came in her. I think that he or she should have mentioned it, but the did not and she seemed to really enjoy me licking her...no wonder. As I have said, I do find it extremely erotic. But in this day an age I am a bit concerned about infections or stds. After all we had all agreed to condomize so the good manners should be to be honest about your prior activities and let the other couple decide if they still want to play or lick sperm. Anyway, it is still food for thought and fantasy...

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I had an experience where we had a swap but the other couple had "warm up sex" before they joined us. I started to lick her pussy when I realized that he had cum in her.

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I'd love to eat a fresh creampie regardless of whether I was expecting it. We both love cum, so licking her after she gets filled would be more than o.k.

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We only bareback with our closest friends.

I love the warm feeling of my play-partner cumming inside me, but I prefer doing it only at the end of the party because of the mess

If is early and I want to have sex with someone else I usually warn my play-partner before and ask him to hold it and cum inside my mouth or on a easy place to clean like my boobs or back-butt (not on my hair)

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:)

 

 

I usually do the same , but once in a party two of the man cum inside me one after the other cause they liked it

 

 

We only bareback with our closest friends.

I love the warm feeling of my play-partner cumming inside me, but I prefer doing it only at the end of the party because of the mess

If is early and I want to have sex with someone else I usually warn my play-partner before and ask him to hold it and cum inside my mouth or on a easy place to clean like my boobs or back-butt (not on my hair)

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...and I love that "cat that ate the canary" look that tells you she did something very dirty, and enjoyed it.

 

I love your metaphor! I haven't always found it to be true with the women I've been with--that is, they all haven't always had that sexy "I've just been naughty" (in a good way) look--but it's a sexy image.

 

And the women I've been with who have had that look? Well, it is so darn erotic!

 

On a side note, my ex once took a photo of me still in bed after she and I had just had sex (she was up and moving around the bedroom, while I was still in post-orgasmic bliss). I had that "just been fucked look." ::P:

 

(Replying to a very old thread.)

 

Geo

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I’m kinda weird about saliva. I would much rather go down on a girl after either a guy or myself came in her than to follow immediately after he ate her...

 

I just found this thread and I know it's very old.

 

 

And adding to Lawrence's quote, willoats said earlier: "...but there is inevitably a bit of saliva from the other guy when I go down on her. I don't really like it, but it's not so bad I won't do it."

 

I initially had a slight hang-up about this, before realizing that if a woman I'm with has passionately kissed another man, his saliva will be on her lips and inside her mouth.

 

Not even speaking about giving oral sex to a woman who had recently had another man go down on her, if the woman and man did some natural foreplay, his saliva would likely be on her neck, throat, and elsewhere--especially her breasts. I know In college I kissed women who had recently kissed another man. No big deal.

 

Once I realized that after a woman I might be playing with likely had had oral foreplay with another man and that I'd be touching, licking, and sucking her breasts that had the another man's saliva on them, I had to think a little bit. But not for long--LOL. It ended up not being a problem.

 

But each to his own, and I'm not judging. :-)

 

As I said in another thread, I've given oral sex to a woman after coming inside her. But I would not do that with another man's semen in her. I know some men who'd like that.

 

Giving a woman I'm with oral sex after another man just gave her oral sex? No problem. We're all different.

 

I had an affair with a hotwife once. Could her husband have come in her mouth or pussy on a day she and I spent together? She said they hadn't. If they did, I could not tell. Maybe she cleaned well before meeting me, but I have a feeling she was honest about the issue. My best guess is that her husband waited for her to come home before doing anything. I'll never know for sure, and all worked out well.

 

If some men don't mind sharing another man's saliva that's on a woman he's playing with and other men do mind, well...vive la difference!

 

Geo

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Mrs Doc sucks my dick without reservation after I've fucked another woman. If she indicates that she wants me to go down on her in a group situation to finish her off, I absolutely will. Couples who are confident in their relationship and secure in sexual situations tend to just get into the moment and please their partner with next to no limitations. If she's REAL sloppy, I'll tell her not to move and I'll get a warm wet wash cloth to clean her up a bit. The first time I did that, she started to cum as soon as I applied the cloth to her pussy. I think she sometimes makes her partners cum in her just so I'll clean her up like that. She says she loves the warmth and gentleness after a good boink. The best part is that clean up often starts her off on the next boink.

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Mrs Doc sucks my dick without reservation after I've fucked another woman...
Hi, Petra here adding my endorsement. It makes me feel wonderful both to suck a dick or eat a pussy after the two of them have made love. An exquisite mixture.
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Several of the couples I see encourage me to 'make a mess', as the husband enjoys the extra sloppy seconds, or thirds that a massive creampie(s) gives, and I am always pleased to give it.

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I try to make sure that I'm clean from cum when I sleep with either of my guys. Both want it that way. When it is inevitable that I have to play with my partner after having sex with my bf or vice-versa, I inform them. The only exception was when we had our mmfm experience. Everyone made a mess all over. ;-)

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On 10/11/2010 at 11:38 AM, joaninla said:

 

My husband LOVES going down on me after another guy has cum inside me. It's absolutely great for me too!

I love to do that too

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Safety  is what comes to mind first. We’ve never attended a party with random people we don’t know. I think one is playing with fire if they take the risk with that. Personally I’ve never thought about it as a condom would be worn if it’s me. 
 

Most of our activity has been in relatively small groups with people we know or one on with a couple. My wife’s gone bareback with two other guys, both guys were part of a couple we knew just as much as ourselves. I’m envisioning this question to pertain to a large setting as I’ve never played and not known when another guy came as it’s pretty obvious. 
 

I think the bigger question here, and maybe part of what you’re getting at, is is there an aversion to being in contact with another man’s cum? For me in the moment I have none. I’ve followed both the guys I mentioned after they came in my wife. Personally there’s not much better of a physical or emotional feeling. 
 

Kinda off topic but since I went there. My first true test with this was on my wife’s birthday this past year. It was us, another couple, and three male friends of our group. My wife got her period just hours before everyone showed. Wanting to be a part of the festivities she put her bj skills to work being it was 5 guys and just one other woman. My wife laid back on the couch and the others finished on her face. Not wanting to cum so I could enjoy I caressed her as each did their thing. When everyone else was wrapped up I took a few lovely pictures of her and she began to give me a bj, intermittently cleaning her face with my dick. Before cumming I honored her request by making out with which was incredibly sensual. I regretted it a bit after I came but I shook it off and would be willing to give her oral after another guy would finish in her.
 

 

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I had a coworker and we both worked midnight shift, after he got off work he went to his girlfriend's house,  both are vanilla. He took a shower and hopped in bed and started foreplay. When he started oral he found out she had been used and left immediately and broke up with her. Needless to say that he wasn't into sloppy seconds!

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On 2/14/2024 at 7:05 AM, let's do it again said:

When he started oral he found out she had been used and left immediately and broke up with her.

What a missed opportunity with a real woman!  How many men here would give their left nut for a wife like that?

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She could have denied it and tried, "I am just so excited to see you!"

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