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How old were you on your first couples swing experience? 1 2
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20 hours ago, Billygoat said:Even the best of relationships has a great amount of difficulty “baring their soul” conversation with their SO/lover/best friend/soulmate.
For David and me, it was pretty simple. He said, didn't ask, "You're still sleeping with Red." I thought this was our breakup. Then he said, "I want you to know that I'm ok with it." Not long after, David said we should marry. We did and Red came along for the ride.
Our relationships weren't planned in advance, but worked out. That's why I believe it's better to go into a relationship as ENM, not trying to pry open a monogamous one.
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Just found this topic and it's very helpful. This happens often with my husband, and I've never quite understood it. He'll have a full body orgasm, shaking, moaning, etc... but if he's cumming inside of me I certainly can't feel it, or sometimes he pulls out and nothing cums out. He goes limp for a little bit, but then can get hard again and keep going as though nothing happened. I am very interested in cum play, so for the longest time this left me confused and unsatisfied (and what led us to the lifestyle) to the point where I'd be masturbating after sex because I just needed "more." But we've talked at length about it over the past year or so, and it's nice to see men having a similar issue.
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A small update. Thanks to the prevailing opinion that it's not a big deal, I went with it. We exchanged panties (and bras too, which I thought was a little odd since she is smaller than me) But I wore the panties out to a benefit dinner in San Francisco on Tuesday night. I'll be honest - I really, really thought it was weird, and didn't feel very comfortable with the idea. But....the night ended with me standing in front of our hotel room window, curtains open, masturbating with her panties on. Blame it on the vodka sodas, the giving spirit of the fundraiser, or whatever you like, I ended up enjoying it, and plan on returning them...unwashed.
Thanks all for allowing me to share. When I think about my life one year ago compared to now, wow, what a crazy transition!
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David Lovell 142
On 2/27/2024 at 2:22 PM, David Lovell said:I was 41 and my SO was 39 (now 48 and 46). My first partner was 32 and her SO 34. Almost eight years once still swing with them.
Recently we have started swinging with a couple quite a bit younger than we are. Clare is 33 and Pete 35.
Soon we will be left with just our first swinging partners, Ken and Lesley, they are a bout ten years younger than we are. Our friends Claire and Pete also younger thanwe are,, are moving back to Wisconsin.
We have old friends 500 miles away and we ocassionally swing together. Tbdy are the same age as we are.
My wife Amy enjoys sex with Ken , possibly because he has more energy than I have.
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Billygoat 379
Way back when……we used to sell adult toys of all kinds. We literally had an over night/weekend travel case that had at the least….3 - 4 dozen various dildos all sizes length, thickness, shape, material, color, smooth, veined, realistic and “what the hell is that”. For our party/club friends to try before buy.
it can be a bit pricey but having a variety, length and girth, you can try under playful and stimulated conditions and use a cloth/garment measuring tape. Base your selection of what you know you already enjoy, toy or lover and progress from there. There used to be a pump up that was really interesting sold at the fetish Flea. Once inserted and comfortable being used you can hand pump the bulb allowing it to grow upwards of a 1” - 1.5” length (6” - 8” +/-) and from 5.5” to 7” in circumference. It was made from similar material to an inner tube but thicker. Highly important to cover well with condom for use, never raw.
with women it is contingent on timing, not being tense, level of excitement and willingness to participate are just a few issues that would effect the outcome.
in our own experiments, unscientifically, in our group a range of up to seven inches long and under six inches circumference was enjoyed by all. Note: used after several minutes of oral then gradually introduced until fully penetrated while giving oral. Orgasms were usually more intense.
This came about from regular play sessions then those ladies that desired multiple males but didn’t want someone two big. So it made sense to experiment.
There were a few ladies that could/did handle more. Up to ten inches with lots of play/oral but mostly more girth/diameter (6” - 7” around) less length was preferred.
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483 To Swallow or Not to Swallow (when swapping)?
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1. To Swallow or Not to Swallow (when swapping)?
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Swallow
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1563 What acts are reserved for "intimate" partners?
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1. What acts are reserved for "intimate" partners?
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