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  1. #1
    I'm sure there are plenty of people who discussed this, but I couldn't find anything much on a quick search, so apologies in advance.

    We went to our first (really second, but first time we went, we left very shortly after).
    The experience this time was great, but the biggest issue was how excited I got once a couple walked in on us and watched us go at it.
    We didn't swing that night but just the whole atmosphere and exhibition was such a huge turn on, I finished way too quickly.
    Luckily, the wife got hers twice beforehand, but as soon as the other couple walked in, I had about a minute before finishing up lol.

    I really feel like it's natural for something so new, but feel like maybe other people's stories or discussion might help.

    We were able to take it slowly afterward and get me back up, but still wish my performance matched up with what we normally have at home.

    Any words from you all?


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    Yes, part of the appeal of swinging or group sex is the openess and the satisfaction of ones exibitionist streak. The sharing component even where there is no actual swapping or contact.

  3. #3
    You WERE sharing by allowing others to watch. It's a variation of same room sex (the softest of all swinging, but swinging none the less). The rules and limits that you have are yours to set, but you've taken that first step down this path. Welcome to the club. Watching and being watched is WAY BETTER than the best porn.
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

  4. #4
    Thanks!

    We have both been thinking about it non-stop and can't wait to go back.

    Anybody else have the issue of the first time being too quick from all the new excitement of it? Or did I just fail miserably lol.
    Glad I at least stuck around for a round 2.

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    Two, I have two questions: a) Did you enjoy it? b) Did your SO enjoy it?

    If the answer is yes you certainly didn't 'fail miserably.' Sure, you'll get better at it.

  6. #6
    When you put it that way it was definitely a major success.

    Just more curious if other guys here can relate to the first time being an accidental quickie lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GMOFLEISURE View Post
    Yes, part of the appeal of swinging or group sex is the openess and the satisfaction of ones exibitionist streak. The sharing component even where there is no actual swapping or contact.
    This makes complete sense! In the US, the vast majority of us are raised to believe our sexuality is something private (and something even bad) and we don't display or talk about it. That mindset is so toxic and results in a LOT of sexual/relational struggles...but I digress. So once we have a safe/sane/consensual environment to watch and display our sexuality, it can be incredibly intense and erotic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TwoCuriousOnes View Post
    When you put it that way it was definitely a major success.

    Just more curious if other guys here can relate to the first time being an accidental quickie lol.
    When you are in a more private/home setting, how long do you normally last and what do you do to prolong the fun if/when you feel your ejaculation building up but not necessarily past that point of no return?

    While I can't YET speak from experience in the LS, I might be able to help you last longer in the LS setting.

  9. #9
    We had even had a few MFM before going to our first couples club and still, we ended up watching and being watched. I think its fairly common for first visits, a nice way of not jumping into the deep end on your first visit.


  10. #10
    Our first time at a house party was similar to what you experienced. There were naked people engaged in various sexual acts. It was incredibly sexually exciting. A gal approached me and led me to a couch and as she was about to give me oral, I blew all over her face. I was so embarrassed. I later was able to recover and had intercourse with a very sexy older lady and I was able to last long enough that she had an orgasm.

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