First Time Soft Swing

My girlfriend and I are having a getaway weekend with her friend and boyfriend and the girls discovered how freaky they both are. So were are going to play a sex game and get into watching each other fuck and play around. Also, the girls seem interested in touching each other while we watch. Is this ok for soft swapping? Not interested in any type of full swap.

Also, we would like to get into bondage. Can that be done together without other couple involved?

Any suggestion big help

You ask, "Is this ok for . . ."

Swinging is about doing what you and your SO and your partners want to do, and not doing what you don't want to do.

If you're okay with this scenario and they're ok with it, why should you care what anyone in the world thinks.

Now, go have fun.

Swinging is about doing what you and your SO and your partners want to do, and not doing what you don't want to do. If you're okay with this scenario and they're ok with it, why should you care what anyone in the world thinks. Now, go have fun.

Just make sure the fun doesn’t involve children or farm animals!

You asked if bondage can be done without another couple being involved? Heck yes!

Now I don't know if you two are thinking about BDSM or just bondage but, my wife and I used to love taking turns. We'd either toss a coin or use some other way to decide who would be blindfolded and tied to the bedposts naked. Most couples have such a natural tendency to reciprocate during sex that it distracts from simply receiving pleasure. Being bound and blind allows the receiver to focus completely on the pleasure.

And, if later you want to include your friends, we did that once too. We played a fun adult game and the winner was the other wife. The three of us blind folded her and tied her hands and feet to the bedposts and we all three attended to her. I just wish we'd done that three more times.

I think it is great...have fun. Personally, I am not a soft swapper. It's too frustrating for me. When I get aroused, I get nasty ideas. The closest we have ever come to soft swapping is when we rent a house in Marathon every year and share it with friends. We have become so familiar that we all have given up on trying to be quiet in bed. So, usually at night, we can all hear the beds banging and moaning kind of thing, as well as some nasty talk. It takes a lot of self-discipline for me. I have come very close to interrupting and just asking if they want to swap.

You set the rules and boundaries, just make sure that you tell the other couple. At the same time, while there are others that don't have a problem with swinging with friends, we warn strongly against it. Not only are you taking the chance of something going wrong and loosing your friends, you are also taking the chance that they will tell everyone you know if that happens, including family. We recommend that you find another swinger couple and become friends with them instead of finding out that the friends you turned into swingers wasn't in a place where they could handle the emotions and requirements of swinging.