Our first time, somewhat unexpected!

We went to a local on premise club. We’ve been 2 times before, and ended up having sex the first time with the bedroom door cracked open. It was great! Second time, Nothing happened. We went back this past Friday.

Hung out for a few hours, talked to a few couples, then went to the dungeon and the Mrs. was feeling frisky enough to try the Sybian. LOTS of people stopped to watch, and she was a bit too uncomfortable to orgasm with so many watching. Then we went down to a bedroom to fuck with the door wide open this time. Just as things heated up, an African American guy walked into our room. I was flummoxed big time. Lost my erection from nerves. Then a gay guy who works there comes in and watches. Next thing I know, they’re both jerkin themselves off. Not knowing if the gay guy would let my wife blow him, and wanting to finally take some sort of leap, I asked my wife if she’d blow the African American guy. She asked if I was sure. I hesitated, then took the plunge. I said yes. She got up, asked him if she could, and I was fully rock hard at this point. The gay guy asks me if he can blow me, I say yep. He starts blowing me while I jerk him off. Wife keeps looking back, checking in to see if I’m ok, and is surprised to see me getting my cock sucked by a guy. I signal I’m good and roll my eyes to ask her back to me. She obliges. We fuck, and as were fucking, I’m jerking this guy off. It’s hot. He’s grabbing my cock as I penetrate my wife. We fuck for a few mins, she comes, then I cum. We lay there for a bit, not sure what to do. The guys are still there. Gay guy knew I’d never done anything with a guy, so I think he was cool we didn’t finish him. African American guy seemed a bit out off. I can understand. We will rectify these situations in the future, but explained it was our first tombs with this stuff.

Other than taking care of the guys to completion, anyone see any mistakes here? I was so happy I felt COMPLETELY COMFORTABLE. I was floored actually. We had a BLAST!

I(Mr.) could never have gotten here without this forum and all I e read. We had a blast, and we just wanted to say thanks for your wisdom about jealousy, and loads of other info.

Thanks for reading!

I first went back and read all of your posts before responding to this one. And, btw, welcome to the best swingers website on the Internet.

I don't think you two have done anything wrong at all in this exploration. In fact, your posts are probably going to help a lot of folks who are curious and considering but haven't yet joined or jumped in.

The two guys not finishing? Hey, they sure had their fun too and I'm guessing there were plenty of other opportunities to finish with others. For now, just be concerned that you and your wife are being pleased. That reminds me of an old joke;

A guy and a gal were undressing for their very first encounter. When he drops his undies, she looks over and sees his small tool and, sarcastically asks, "just who are you planning on pleasing with that?" The guy just smiles back and confidently replies, "me"!

And one piece of advice, if you haven't already found out, when you look at ads of other couples, don't let the fact the ad says that the female is bi-curious or bi and the husband is straight make you automatically eliminate them. If everything else looks good, send them a note. If your ad says that you're bi-curious or bi, they'll see it. You'll be amazed at how many couples don't admit the husband is bi in their ads.

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Thanks for the kind words! We just wanted to share a success story, and hopefully inspire others. Also wanted to make sure, etiquette wise, we were doing what’s expected.

Thanks again to all!