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    Sorry haven't posted in a while....Weve talked about it for 3 years now and tonights the night we check it all out. Weve discussed boundaries...taking it slow...relaxing...ect my nerves are all over the place rignt now but in a good way!! Weve agreed that we want to be voyeurs then exhibitionist . my lady's bi curious so she is open to that but not ready for another male in thr picture just yet... Any advice I can give her or y'all can give me lmao? What should I expect? Thanks everyone!!!


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    Good luck 👍. Get back to us with good news

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    Quote Originally Posted by doc_oso View Post
    Sorry haven't posted in a while....Weve talked about it for 3 years now and tonights the night we check it all out. Weve discussed boundaries...taking it slow...relaxing...ect my nerves are all over the place rignt now but in a good way!! Weve agreed that we want to be voyeurs then exhibitionist . my lady's bi curious so she is open to that but not ready for another male in thr picture just yet... Any advice I can give her or y'all can give me lmao? What should I expect? Thanks everyone!!!
    Advice... each person is different. She will feel uncomfortable the first "times" but for you expect if watching her being pleasured to also feel this way as she will change from your partner (once you cross the line) to a real sexual animal whereas her focus will be solely on the guy she is with and what I noticed the last seconds before he is about to cum (either in her or on her) she will be a different person, her body takes over and pulls him in. I found this very trying for erotic. Once it is over it goes somewhat back to normal.

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    It's a little late now but obey and follow your rules and limits, go with no preconceived expectations other than having a great night out with your SO, and have fun. The hardest part is walking thru the door and it gets easier from there. Now, how about an update?
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

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    We really enjoyed it we watched but we didn't play however we really wanted to play the only issue is that the club we went to was less than clean and that is a huge turnoff for us as we are fairly clean people and don't want to be in contact with any bodily fluids that we haven't already agreed on after we left we went home and had the best sex that we've had in a long time which was great I also learned that I am not attracted to anyone type I am very attracted to sexy confidence. We saw every body shape size color and tone there were big fat skinny Gym Rats you name it it was there and we really like that moving forward we decided that back particular Club probably is not our style and we most likely won't be going back we really think that a more personal party or maybe a meet-and-greet where we meet a nice couple would be a better fit for us but we are very excited to move a little deeper into The Swinging Waters any tips or ideas on how to find a meeting greet or another couple would be greatly appreciated thanks guys keep you updated

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    We don't blame you: if the location isn't clean then we aren't staying long (this is true about ANY location...restaurant, hotel, store, any place). Still, glad that you saw it as a positive experience.

    As for finding meet and greets or other couples: Top of page is a button labeled Find Swingers. Find a website that has more people by you (SLS has more people in our area than the others, but Swingtown or another may better serve your area). Most have a free member option, but once you find the one you like, it really is best to join (lots of members won't even look at free profiles thinking they are trolls or just not serious). It doesn't cost much and will help with your responses. You can then search for other couples or find the calendar and find local meet and greets. We wish you great luck and ask to keep us up to date on how things progress.
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

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    Would like to chat

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