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Not that I am nosy, but did you play?

 

BTW, if I go to the men’s room and leave my wife at a bar, lifestyle or vanilla, she will get hit on within 60 seconds.

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Not that I am nosy, but did you play?

 

BTW, if I go to the men’s room and leave my wife at a bar, lifestyle or vanilla, she will get hit on within 60 seconds.

 

We did not. We decided beforehand that we would go and observe the first time.

 

She will get the same treatment at the LS club too but the difference is the level of respect here vs a normal club scene. Everyone knows why you're here and that she's not alone. That's taken into account I'd think vs some random trying to scheme on her at a dance club when I'm not looking. So the way I think you'd get approached here is different? Maybe I'm naive since we are new.

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Not that I am nosy, but did you play?

 

BTW, if I go to the men’s room and leave my wife at a bar, lifestyle or vanilla, she will get hit on within 60 seconds.

 

I live the same life... if turn my back, use the bathroom and in seconds she is surrounded by guys. A luxury problem I guess. It makes finding other couples a bit easier...

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I live the same life... if turn my back, use the bathroom and in seconds she is surrounded by guys. A luxury problem I guess. It makes finding other couples a bit easier...

 

Funny vanilla story from yesterday: My wife goes to meet the principal at the school about one of our kids. He walked out into the lobby looking around and then when he saw her he was stunned. Couldn't find words for a second or two. :D She wasn't dressed up or anything.. I just think he was expecting a bitchy old crone from their phone conversation and instead ran into a beautiful milf. lol

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She wasn't dressed up or anything.. I just think he was expecting a bitchy old crone from their phone conversation and instead ran into a beautiful milf. lol

 

There is a deeper truth here. It takes courage for a woman to dip her toe into the lifestyle, maybe moreso than a man. Once in, she is often shown more respect than she gets in the vanilla world. There is a gain in independence. That will change how women view themselves, carry themselves, present themselves.

 

Take a moment to observe how your wife interacts with women who are part of vanilla couples compared to the interactions with women who are part of LS couples. There are changes in the level of reserve, and in the authenticity of the interactions.

 

The LS is, in part, about embracing vulnerability. That embrace leads, perhaps paradoxically, to greater confidence in many aspects of life, vanilla and LS.

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