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We had been talking about having a MFM experience for quite some time in some away from home city, perhaps abroad. Our goal is for my wife to have her ultimate sexual experience as you know things "dry up" after more than a decade of same person sex (routine).

 

We actually came upon an old friend recently divorced and someone we were both very comfortable with.

 

Our staged MFM actually started over several glasses of merlot and a good meal followed by a visit to a handful of local pubs. We headed back to his place joking the entire way about all things sex. Our guards were all down and I asked my wife if she would consider a MFM with our friend. At first she nodded no... but as the conversation grew warmer she did not say no but "yeah that could be fun"...

 

Fast forward as we were massaging her and slowly taking off her skirt to give her a massage our hands began cover her body. We stopped up and asked is this ok for each of us and we all smiled. I wanted to see where things went without me so I stepped out to get some water. As I returned he was kissing her thighs as he massaged her. I sat and watched until she asked me to join in again. I did and finally I started pushing the effort by removing her bra and pulling down on her panties while slowly glancing her pussy. She moaned as we took turns touch her pussy, rubbing and feeling the juices build up.

 

I started kissing her breasts and our friend began licking her pussy finding her clitoris immediately sending her into ecstacy. She kissed me hard, almost as it was me giving her the experience myself. Her legs spread apart and I told her I wanted our friend to start and if that was ok. She said.. "Yes"... he positioned himself between her legs pulled down his pants, she leaned up and pulled down his underpants exposing his cock. He gently rubbed her pussy with his cock teasing her all the way.

 

I slowly backed off sitting on her side... I joked about him taking the "bull" role. He smiled as he is smaller than me. I noticed immediately he took his role seriously, he was in heat as he probably had not had another woman since his break up. She looked to me and I smiled and watched, blew her a kiss and I told him to give her a great experience... he slowly began inserting his cock into her and she rolled her eyes and moaned. We never discussed protection as we knew each other so well.

 

He began grabbing her ass and hips, squeezing and then grabbing her breasts super hard. I told him and her to speak dirty and loudly. Express themselves... both uncomfortable with the request it took a second then he started asking her how she liked it... he then started asking me if I liked seeing this... He asked her all were in agreement.

 

He asked her "do you like my cock..?" "do you like it better than his" he asked? Tell me... he demanded an answer. She said..."yes I like cock"... "no do you like mine better than his?" as he pumped slowly but deeply. She "responded... yes... yes... I like the feel...". "what do you want...?" he asked her, she responded "to fuck me, fuck me, a fuck a baby in me..." My heart dropped as he pushed harder and harder. They then stopped as she clawed at the bed. I started to join back in and she pushed me away...saying her nipples were sore... he turned her over and rammed his cock into her again driving deeper and deeper.. he looks to me.."how do you like seeing me fuck her, I want to cum inside her" as he slapped her ass, She groaned... "more more.." as he fucked away. I stood like a zombie at their side. He summoned me over to look at his cock going into her back and forth... It was very erotic.

 

She could not even see me anymore as he fucked her. He then slowed down and told me..."i am going to fuck in her in the ass..." something she would not agree to with me. I said.."is it ok"... he told me to shut up and he was in control... she looked at him and said.. "put it in..." and he started pushing into her ass. He pumped a few times going deeper each time, slapping her ass.

 

OMG she said... and fell to her stomach where he prounced on her back his cock now in her pussy again. Fucking her like an animal in heat. She pushed me away as he grabbed her arms driving his cock into her. "you like this..." "yes"... she responded... breathing heavily... He asked her again..." is my cock great... what do you want from my cock that he cannot .." she moaned. "I will fuck you like a slut , a professional prostitute... I have never done that but can imagine how hard I would fuck them.." "yes" she said.."fuck me, fuck me harder, I would love to have your sperm in me, your seed..." Yeah you want a little "name withheld" to grow in you.." "yeah".. as he fucked her.

 

She rolled over again and he took her legs and put them over his shoulders driving deeply again... he looks at me..."I am good at this... she really wants my cock.." do you want his? he asked her... She said no..."I only want yours please fill me with your seed, I love the feeling of cum in me..." He slaps her hips and then slows down... unleashing his cock in her. He slowly comes out, his cum pouring out of her, he then tells her.."aw come up here and suck my cock"... she does and licks as she cannot get enough of him in her.

 

I sit there ... he heads to the bathroom, she covers up... keeping me a safe distance. He returns, and says "wow"...

 

She smiles, heads to the bathroom looking a bit ill and worse for the wear. I wanted to talk about it but they were too exhausted.

 

As we slept I was awaken by their conversation... she said.."I have never been treated like that before..." he said he had never done that before... and she said...he was like an animal in heat... his cock was so hard and felt so great and she has never ever felt so much cum in her before...I pretended to sleep when I felt the blanket move. He was moaning as she sucked on his cock again under the sheets. She hates blowjobs normally... as she jerked on his cock he pulls her up along side of him and slowly inserted his cock in her probably cumming again.

 

Needless to say... the next morning was very very odd. We all kept a distance from each other.

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Yikes...that's not something I would enjoy seeing my wife do, but I suppose people are into it.

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Be careful what you wish for!
Looking back.. not that bad. After the initial "wow" phase I was and am OK with it.
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You're better than I am right now. I don't know how I'd respond but I know I wouldn't be too thrilled about someone doing all that.

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So you set this up and played out the cuck old role play / fantasy right? - i'm not sure .

 

If so then it went well - yes?

 

if not then you both are in need of some real talking to each other.

There are so many red flags here the list would take all night. - if this was not staged or what you wanted that is.

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Kind of. We are all comfortable with each other so no big deal.

 

Was very erotic though...

 

So you set this up and played out the cuck old role play / fantasy right? - i'm not sure .

 

If so then it went well - yes?

 

if not then you both are in need of some real talking to each other.

There are so many red flags here the list would take all night. - if this was not staged or what you wanted that is.

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WOW, shit, I do not know how I would have responded. How is their relationship now, are they interacting normally? have you talked with your wife about this? For me the second round would have been breach of trust, but glad you came out of it okay, if you still are :) Would you do it again? would she?

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WOW, shit, I do not know how I would have responded. How is their relationship now, are they interacting normally? have you talked with your wife about this? For me the second round would have been breach of trust, but glad you came out of it okay, if you still are :) Would you do it again? would she?

 

Doing well thanks. TBH at first I kind of kept distance from him. Not due to jealousy but the fact that it was well just odd.

 

WOuld it do it again? Well it was not a traditional cuckold thing but a threesome. I would if she was happy to do so. For me it is about her being sexually satisfied and breaking down those borders.It was very erotic!

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Well it was not a traditional cuckold thing but a threesome. I would if she was happy to do so. For me it is about her being sexually satisfied and breaking down those borders.It was very erotic!

 

Uhhhhh.......that was not a threesome. That was a "cuckold thing". In a threesome, one is not verbally degraded, nor is one pushed away by his partner while she verbalizes her preference for the other male.

 

If that's what you're into, great! But let's not characterize this as a typical threesome.....

 

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Uhhhhh.......that was not a threesome. That was a "cuckold thing". In a threesome, one is not verbally degraded, nor is one pushed away by his partner while she verbalizes her preference for the other male.

 

If that's what you're into, great! But let's not characterize this as a typical threesome.....

 

T

Yeah you are right it was not. We since have tried it again and all involved were very satisfied.

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In my 30+ years in and out of the LS, I've met many couples that started swapping with couples but eventually chose the hotwife or cuckold lifestyle.

Not one of those couples survived. I was close to a few of the husbands who confided in me and was able to observe the dynamics and witness the slow self-destruction of those relationships. Just like a drug addict in a dysfunctional relationship will say he/she absolutely loves their spouse, those couples, particularly the cuckold couples, are convinced that they have love for each other when in reality, even though their emotions feel exactly like love, they have nothing to do with it.

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I disagree - there are many couples out there that have a successful hotwife lifestyle. Go to ourhotwives (dot) org to explore their stories.

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A lot of relationships break down for various reasons, and hotwife/cuckold relationships aren't any different.

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I didn't really understand what was bad in the story either. If you're all fine with what happened in the end, then what's wrong or bad about it?

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A lot of relationships break down for various reasons, and hotwife/cuckold relationships aren't any different.

 

Really?.....there is nothing constructive in hotwife-cuckold relationships....they are based on sexual objectification and even if at first husband and wife both experience very high levels of sexual gratification, (wife with single male aka bull and husband mostly through masturbation)the fact that their sexual interaction gets more and more limited and lacks the bonding element of the exchange of pleasure and the sensuality found in more traditional sexual encounters(kissing, carresses, foreplay, etc...)follows a path of separation not communion.

Go on Reddit on hotwife and cuck threads and count the number /frequency of posts where the profile has been deleted.

More and more psychiatrists have found that most cuckold husbands they treated were narcissistic perverts.

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I know some of you don;t see any thing bad about this but i think your wrong - and this is why

 

I do not think any of this was planed and so this was way bad after all the put down to the husband he gets this

 

"I sit there ... he heads to the bathroom, she covers up... keeping me a safe distance. He returns, and says "wow"...

 

She smiles, heads to the bathroom looking a bit ill and worse for the wear. I wanted to talk about it but they were too exhausted.

 

As we slept I was awaken by their conversation... she said.."I have never been treated like that before..." he said he had never done that before... and she said...he was like an animal in heat... his cock was so hard and felt so great and she has never ever felt so much cum in her before...I pretended to sleep when I felt the blanket move. He was moaning as she sucked on his cock again under the sheets. She hates blowjobs normally... as she jerked on his cock he pulls her up along side of him and slowly inserted his cock in her probably cumming again.

 

Needless to say... the next morning was very very odd. We all kept a distance from each other. "

 

 

This shows a clear lack of respect for her husband ( and all the things that were said as well ) Remember it was not planed.

 

I think the Op needs to make clear if they had talked about this as a cuckold or not as he does not make it clear and also did she know this before hand.

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Before you and your wife did this both of you should have talked this MFM thing to death. You and your wife probably would have decided this is not for both of you. I know you had read that it turns a husband on to see his wife screw another man but actually this is far from the truth. Hopefully your marriage can survive this episode.

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I didn't really understand what was bad in the story either. If you're all fine with what happened in the end, then what's wrong or bad about it?

I agree too. If he wanted to get cucked, he got it. I'm a bit of a cuck too.

 

The only thing I can see is that the other guy and wife got way into the verbal side and dominance. They may have needed to decide ahead of time how heavy the dominance and humiliation could be.

 

Also, sleeping all night together probably isn't a good idea unless you're okay with things possibly drifting into polyamory zone.

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This is sort of like my wife and the husband of another couple we play with, except the other way around. My wife and he sometimes do a dominance/submission thing (which neither his wife nor I are into) where my wife will verbally and physically abuse him. My wife will insult him every which way, slap his ass, pull his hair, slap him on his face. She'll tell him his dick's no good, which makes him hard, force him on his back and ride him demanding that he cums. He does.

 

She'll also stick things in his ass and tell him not to be a baby boy about it.

 

His wife hates the whole thing, so if they're going to do this thing, we go off alone and have gentle sex, make love.

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This is sort of like my wife and the husband of another couple we play with, except the other way around. My wife and he sometimes do a dominance/submission thing (which neither his wife nor I are into) where my wife will verbally and physically abuse him. My wife will insult him every which way, slap his ass, pull his hair, slap him on his face. She'll tell him his dick's no good, which makes him hard, force him on his back and ride him demanding that he cums. He does.

 

She'll also stick things in his ass and tell him not to be a baby boy about it.

 

His wife hates the whole thing, so if they're going to do this thing, we go off alone and have gentle sex, make love.

 

Nice that in this case everyone’s varied desires are able to be met. This is just one of the advantages of swinging.

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EddieM,

 

Wondering where this is today? I believe this is more of a Dominant/Submissive situation with a Cuck twist. Hope you learned from what happened to better understand your wife. Has her desire for anal or sucking cock with you changed? Have you tried the dominate role with her? Thanks for the great thread.

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Sounds like some sexy fun times. Call it what you’d like as long as you all enjoyed yourselves. My wife preferred to be dominated more when it came to our extra partner. She even hinted to me that she she might want to be in a one on one situation with him just to see if he was holding back on anything and I obliged. Just wanted to make sure she could let loose. I won’t lie I listened in from outside the door and it was super hot listening to her take total control and she became more of the dom. She was so direct I could hear him saying to her that he couldn’t hold out cumming. It was way hot. Unfortunately she’s only been that direct in situations with him and it hasn’t been replicated. Holding out for future circumstances tho.

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The first time she would push me away, it would have been over for the both of us as a couple. That was beyond rude and insensitive of the wife. 

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Sounds like fun to me.  I don't like or dislike the cuckold thing.  I'm indifferent about it but it seems to come up more and more.  I know there are some guys that get off on the fetish of being cucked but from my experience it seems like more guys get off on cucking others.  It's become obvious to me that my best friend gets off on the idea of fucking my GF really really hard in front of me in a "cuck like" situation.  I never really spent much time thinking of it like that because my GF just likes rough sex and the humiliation stuff but there is definitely a sort of cucking fetish related to that I think.  Nothing wrong with it and it can be really hot in certain circumstances like the one you told us.

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On 12/7/2021 at 2:39 PM, Anon321 said:

Sounds like fun to me.  I don't like or dislike the cuckold thing.  I'm indifferent about it but it seems to come up more and more.  I know there are some guys that get off on the fetish of being cucked but from my experience it seems like more guys get off on cucking others.  It's become obvious to me that my best friend gets off on the idea of fucking my GF really really hard in front of me in a "cuck like" situation.  I never really spent much time thinking of it like that because my GF just likes rough sex and the humiliation stuff but there is definitely a sort of cucking fetish related to that I think.  Nothing wrong with it and it can be really hot in certain circumstances like the one you told us.

A live g/f I had started fucking a rival of mine. He became a friend but it was obvious he looked down on me because he was fucking her. He started bragging and soom I was the butt of jokes. And she didn't help at all. It was plain she was an easy piece of ass and I would do nothing about it. Of course soon other guys wanted a taste and she was just the slut to give it to them. He would come by all the time while I was at work, have her call me so he could tell me how he was fucking her. She loved the attention and theres always a "buddy" around to take care of your woman. I pretty much waited my turn and mostly it was used pussy I got.

 

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I'm glad with time you've processed this and things are back on more positive grounds.  This does not sound like anything I would take well and could ruin the dynamics of our relationship.   While I'm a well endowed guy, there is always someone bigger and I fully enjoy watching my wife stretched on the occasion we've been with one.   What I would not fully enjoy was my wife stating her preference for the other guy, stating she does not want me and physically pushing me away from what was supposed to be a shared experience.

 

We also devised a rule (came up last year when we got an airbnb with a total of 13 swingers for a little vacay) that once one of us goes to bed for the night, the play for the other stops.  Catching her sucking and fucking the guy she stated she (*preferred* to me while they think I'm passed out sounds a lot more like cheating than swinging...  To each his own.

 

 

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I'd have to agree, that would totally cause issues in my relationship too, but to each his own. At the same time though I do threesomes and some hotwifing with my ol' lady. Probably helps that both of her guys have been good friends for a long time and had hit on her years before she was comfortable bein' with other men. Once she said no, they backed off on that at the time and remained friends. I have no issue sharing her with them now because of the amount of respect they showed her even though they had the hots for her. Neither of them would try to cuck me either. It's made for a good dynamic for us and honestly made the sex between me and my wife even better. Her havin' two other guys that want her and enjoy her the way she is has really helped with some of her insecurities that I couldn't get knocked down on my own.

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On 7/17/2022 at 3:40 PM, cuckboat said:

I pretty much waited my turn and mostly it was used pussy I got.

A man gets a much better deal with a used pussy than a woman does getting a spent dick.

 

A woman's got to work to get him back up, it's not as stiff, he has trouble getting it off a second time, and not much comes out.  OTOH, a woman is always immediately ready to go another round and orgasm.

 

4 hours ago, clover588 said:

the fact that I'm able to have two of my best friends want me, be able to fuck me, have fun with me, along with knowing it turns my hubby on to hear about everything that happens when he's not there? I feel like the hottest fucking woman in the world

Well said.  Being in the lifestyle, even in my little poly family way, did and does the same for me.

 

 

 

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On 2/21/2018 at 6:40 AM, Eddiem said:

For me it is about her being sexually satisfied

Yes, that is the primary reason to do any of this, to make your spouse happy.

 

On 1/1/2018 at 4:16 AM, Eddiem said:

She kissed me hard, almost as it was me giving her the experience myself.

That is exactly how my wife feels and reinforces that what we are doing is the right thing.  When Daniela has a great sexual experience with someone else, I get the credit for the work he has done.

 

On 1/1/2018 at 4:16 AM, Eddiem said:

do you like mine better than his?" as he pumped slowly but deeply. She "responded... yes

That's why we do what we do, we want the other to have a great experience, better sex even than we have.  I look at it like this, if we go to a restaurant and the chef is a better cook than I am, do I get insulted?  I'm glad that my wife is getting a great meal, better than I cook.  It doesn't make me jealous, it makes me happy.

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11 hours ago, couplers said:

A man gets a much better deal with a used pussy than a woman does getting a spent dick.

 

A woman's got to work to get him back up, it's not as stiff, he has trouble getting it off a second time, and not much comes out.  OTOH, a woman is always immediately ready to go another round and orgasm.

 

It is the reality of things.  My wife has more sex with our play partners than I do, because she can.  My one fear when we started in the lifestyle was that her having sex with others, while I didn't, was that it would displace the sex she has with me.  That never happened.  Her "used" pussy is never satisfied and unreceptive.  I'm never left wanting because she is ready, willing and able to have more sex when I want it.  And that's even before I started playing too.

 

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Once a woman gets truly 'owned' like that by a Bull things do change. She will act with him in ways she does not act with you. She will even do things for him he doesn't usually do for you. This is a normal aspect of the cuckold dynamic, and the cuckoldress/Bull relationship is not something you can really have in a marriage between husband and wife. Marriages (and other long-term commitments) add baggage and complexity, whereas the cuckoldress/Bull dynamic is meant to be simple, sexual and raw.

However, if the mixed feelings can be navigated, it can indeed be a rewarding situation for all involved. It just requires an open mind and a bit of soul searching on your part to determine if cuckoldry can work for you and your lady.

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5 hours ago, hunterdonNJcpl said:

She will act with him in ways she does not act with you. She will even do things for him he doesn't usually do for you. ....

However, if the mixed feelings can be navigated, it can indeed be a rewarding situation for all involved.

It's not just with the cuckolding thing.  It's been my observation that all pairings among men and women in our group are different from that with their spouses, including with Daniela and me.  Things are done that people don't do with their spouses.  Especially since our group is closed things can go much deeper than with the ordinary swinging like we did in the past.  It's all part of and the reason why we do this - variety.

 

As to feelings, my word wouldn't be "navigated," it would rather be "exposed and accepted."  My with is in love with another couple; she exchanges parting kisses and "I love you" 's with both of them.  It makes me happy that they love her, and I know that were anything to happen to me that they would care for her.  Likewise, I've gone on vacations alone with another man's wife to pursue interests that our spouses have no interest in.

 

Swinging makes us all, men and women, cuckolds and our acceptance of it makes us better spouses and people.

 

 

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On 6/4/2023 at 8:34 AM, hunterdonNJcpl said:

Once a woman gets truly 'owned' like that by a Bull things do change. She will act with him in ways she does not act with you. She will even do things for him he doesn't usually do for you. This is a normal aspect of the cuckold dynamic, and the cuckoldress/Bull relationship is not something you can really have in a marriage between husband and wife. Marriages (and other long-term commitments) add baggage and complexity, whereas the cuckoldress/Bull dynamic is meant to be simple, sexual and raw.

However, if the mixed feelings can be navigated, it can indeed be a rewarding situation for all involved. It just requires an open mind and a bit of soul searching on your part to determine if cuckoldry can work for you and your lady.

I think this is true if you take it to that level where it becomes more than just sex but I think it can also be contained to just sex. 

 

My GF is extremely submissive sexually, so if a guy "owns" her and calls her a whore and a cunt while he's fucking her.... it will just turn her on more.  But if he calls her a bitch when she's out shopping, she'll start cursing back.  If he's fucking her and yanks her hair, slaps her across the face and spits on her she'll just get wetter.  But if they aren't fucking she'll punch him in the face.  If he tells her he is going to skullfuck her until she pukes, she'll drop to her knees and let him have his way with her throat.  But if he tells her to make him a sandwich she will tell him to go fuck himself.

 

For us, that "owned" or "bull" or "cuckold" thing is pretty much kept exclusively to sex and doesn't really branch out to much more.

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