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    Default First experience tonight!

    My wife and I started talking about doing this a few weeks ago. After a ton of research, and some advice from the fine folks in this forum, we decided to set up a couple of online profiles. We considered a club, but we're not really club people. We received several messages within the first 24 hours and began chatting with a few of them. Over the past 4 days, we've really been jiving with one couple in particular, and are meeting them tonight! We're starting with a vanilla dinner, but the build up to this point suggests it may lead to more. We've been flirting...a lot! Neither of us are nervous, and the other couple is excited too! Details to follow!


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    Good luck and have fun!

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    Have fun! It is exciting!

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    Tell us what happened.

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    Enjoy yourselves.
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    Take your time and enjoy! We had our first experience last week and we are still on a high. The only regret was that the husband was too anxious and kept wanting to try new positions and activities. We wish we would have just slowed him down and took our time with each position. My wife and I wanted to try all the positions and activities anyhow. It was amazing!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TandBB81 View Post
    My wife and I started talking about doing this a few weeks ago. After a ton of research, and some advice from the fine folks in this forum, we decided to set up a couple of online profiles. We considered a club, but we're not really club people. We received several messages within the first 24 hours and began chatting with a few of them. Over the past 4 days, we've really been jiving with one couple in particular, and are meeting them tonight! We're starting with a vanilla dinner, but the build up to this point suggests it may lead to more. We've been flirting...a lot! Neither of us are nervous, and the other couple is excited too! Details to follow!
    So last night was amazing! We met for dinner and got to know each other a little more. It went well, so they invited us over to their campsite afterward (They had pulled their RV to the next town over attending an event, we grabbed a room). We got back to the campsite and did a shot, and talked for a while. As it turned out, myself and the other couple, all went to the same high school together! He and I, actually hung out once or twice among mutual friends! Anyway, we begin a little heavy petting, and things escalated quickly! We ended up doing a full swap under the stars outside their camper! We had a blast! No fears, nerves, or anything. It was certainly not what we were expecting! It seems to have come very natural for us, and we will be getting with them again soon!

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    So this entire weekend has turned into one big first experience! Of course, we had the first experience I posted about, but yesterday we met up 2 other couples we found online. No kids this weekend, what else are we supposed to do! The first couple we met for lunch. They are a little younger than us, and also have no experience. They were super nervous, awkward, but a really sweet couple. For my wife and I, we didn't really feel a click with them. The second Saturday couple, was much different. They have a rule, no playing on the first date. Which we were ok with, and may institute ourselves. It made everything very relaxed. We met them for drinks, and chatted with them on the bars patio, because it was a gorgeous August evening, and it was nice and quiet, at least until the dj showed up. We left, and decided to walk the streets for a while and chat some more. All in all, spent about 5 hours with them, and my wife and I really felt a connection with them! We have yet to speak to them since last night, but we think they felt the same way! We were hoping to dip our toes in and test the waters this weekend, but ended up jumping in head first with zero regrets!

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    Way to jump into the deep end! Glad that everything went well and that you enjoyed yourselves. Good luck as you continue forward.
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson


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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post


    Way to jump into the deep end! Glad that everything went well and that you enjoyed yourselves. Good luck as you continue forward.
    Thanks! Really looking forward to meeting that couple from Saturday night again. Cute couple, she was super cute!

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    Report back when it does happen...
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

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    Will do!

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    Looking forward to reading what happens next

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    I hope everything continues to build into a long lasting enjoyment for all of you!

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    We're planning to get together over labor day weekend! We've been chatting with them via Kik, and they seem like a ton of fun. The holiday weekend can't come soon enough

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    Quote Originally Posted by TandBB81 View Post
    We're planning to get together over labor day weekend! We've been chatting with them via Kik, and they seem like a ton of fun. The holiday weekend can't come soon enough
    We had a good time with them Saturday, and we will see this couple on a regular basis! I took things a little too fast with her. It turns out she is super sensitive, and I got her off too many times, too fast. So she and I, never actually got to intercourse, but a great time nonetheless, and a learning experience for me for the next time. My wife is not so sensitive, so I can play with her for hours and never get her off. As a couple who has been together as long as we have, it's all I know! He took my wife to the bedroom, and it went well. She told me they had multiple positions. She can be vocal, so I know he was pleasing her! This lifestyle has not only reignited our sex life, but has almost given us a new lease on life in general. So far, it's been very positive, and refreshing. We are looking forward to continuing our journey! Thanks again to all for the advice we've received from you folks in this forum. It's not a decision we took lightly, and as you already know, once we pulled the trigger, we dove straight in!

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    This would make a great full-length story. It is great to read about how real-life situations begin and progress. Just a suggestion.


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