View Poll Results: What was your first experience in the LS?

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  1. #1

    Default Poll: what kind of first experience did you have? MFM FMF MFMF

    Hey y'all Merry christmas!!

    Just wanted to see how everyone started their swinging career, take the poll and feel free to post some recommendations, regrets or details!!


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    Default Re: Poll: what kind of first experience did you have? MFM FMF MFMF

    We began our lifestyle career looking for a swapping scenario. We have had the occasional threesomes since then, but our play together has been mostly with other couples. In addition, I sometimes play separately from the Mrs, with couples or solo women.

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    We had mostly discussed MFM but ended up doing MFMF with two other couples.

    Although I'd thought it'd be easiest with a situation where the other M was a relative stranger, it turned out that doing it with a couple where Mrs. knew the other F very well relieved most of her anxiety about things. Freaked herself out a little when she grabbed a new cock, but still, we ended up playing two consecutive nights and doing full swap. A little trust between supportive girlfriends and her feeling like she was in the driver's seat went a long way to make it happen.

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    Default Re: Poll: what kind of first experience did you have? MFM FMF MFMF

    I don't know if it falls into this category of swinging but my first intro to this was with two friendly females in Australia.It was the first group session I ever had. But if Im going to be a little technical about it the first swinging experience was mfm with a couple that I mentioned in a previous post.

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    My wife and I had our first experiences in the 80s. The first was with a much younger couple who were also nudists. We were very close to them and I had done a lot of nude photography of the two of them and they even had me take some photographs of them having sex. We went on a weekend camping trip with them in a very small RV. Although we didn't switch partners with them, both couples had sex in the same small camper bed with our bodies touching each other. That whole weekend was very sexually charged. Looking back, that weekend was what turned my wife and me onto the possibility of playing with others.

    A couple of years after that we had our first real swap. We had been getting together with another nudist couple who were very close friends. When we got together at each others homes, the clothes came off immediately. There was a lot of flirting and fondling. Finally one evening, Bill, our male friend, and my wife were on the carpeted floor massaging each other and I was massaging Bill's wife D. D nodded for me to look over at the other couple. They were having intercourse, which seemed totally natural D and me, so we started having sex ourselves.

    The amazing thing is that my wife and I had never discussed it beforehand but were both euphoric when it did. We were hooked big time.

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    Default Re: Poll: what kind of first experience did you have? MFM FMF MFMF

    Our first was a swap. Different rooms. I would answer none of the above.

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    Default Re: Poll: what kind of first experience did you have? MFM FMF MFMF

    Quote Originally Posted by Shore2Please View Post
    Our first was a swap. Different rooms. I would answer none of the above.
    I think that would make your first experience closest to an MFMF!

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    Mine was also unplanned with my college roommate (recently, not when we were in school) and the guy she came to visit me with. I had never been with been with a girl before.

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    First was an MFMF soft swing more than four decades ago with my first wife - and my current wife and her first husband. Both marriages ended within four years, but that unplanned soft swing (switched partners but no intercourse) had nothing to do with the end of either marriage. It was 13 years later that current wife and I got involved. By that time I'd had an MFM with a couple who were good friends and some other experiences. It was only about a dozen years ago that I began to truly get into the lifestyle.


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    Default Re: Poll: what kind of first experience did you have? MFM FMF MFMF

    We were in college and that MMF was the first.

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    Our first and only at this point was a Mfm with a friend of ours. It wasn't really planed our friend was crashing at our house that night and a few night prior my wife had a dream about us having a threesome with him.

    Any ways we where drink a few beers and he had a bit before he showed up. We where our side talking and my wife brought up the dream. ( I did warn her that If she brought it up he would more than Likely be down) and he said he was down. This convo took place at midnight. And after more drinks and talking and laying ground work such as rules and my wife making sure she wanted to do this (I was down as well by the by) we set off first to do some trimming then up the stairs to our room.

    We laid there for a little bit watching tv and the we started messageing her and four play. My wife ask me what she would do and I said I'm going to go down on you why don't you give him a bj. Well tha clothing came off and I was eating her out whille she gave head to our friend. I then percided to penatrat my wife and before long due to the hot situation we where in I came in her. I then pulled out and he moved in to take my place with condom on.

    He looked at me with the can I put it in your wife look and I gave him the ok. He mounted my wife and she gave me a blow Job to bring me back to life which she did. Now our friend had pulled out and taken off his condom which was a hard rule of no for us. ( we are pro condom unless we really know you and trust you. Know that your fixed and std free then we can talk about bareback and cream pies ) he took off the condom then tried to penetrate my wife which I look at him and said you have to have a condom on. Which then he stoped and put one on and remounted my wife. He was having a really hard time keeping it hard so he really couldn't penetrate her very well.

    At which time we switched and I went in doggie style and my wife gave him a blow job. Then I guess he got frustrated with the fact that he had whisky dick and went to the guest room whille I finished off my wife with a great orgasm.

    It was fun but not what we wanted. We wanted to try double penitration and thought it would be more fun. We talked since then and there are some things we still want to do and we did enjoy it but almost wasn't worth it in one since and worth it in others. We are still interested in double pentration and full swap. We've also talked about a gangbang and reverse gangbang. We want to try a fmf and my be a full swap next. We talked a bout doing a swingers Cruz or maybe a hotel take over. Over all our experience was fun. But keep to your rules is all I can say and don't drink to much.

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    MFMF for us

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    My hubby and I both had Lifestyle experiences in our previous relationships, and found that MFMF was a good fit for us.. Started one day at a Nudist resort in California, where we met another couple who commented on our dark all over tans and then invited us to come to an oil orgy they were into, plus some weed got us turned on more.
    Laura and Dave

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    Ours was sort of weird. I'm not sure if it was an MF-MF or a MF-and-soft-swap.

    At our first foray to a swing club, we met a couple, D(male) and J(female). We didn't play that night, but they invited us to their home a few days later. Eventually, they suggested separate rooms, we were okay with that. D took my wife down the hall, and they had a great time. But J told me she didn't want me to go all the way, so we just played around some; I'm not even sure I had an orgasm.

    I was more or less okay with it, it was our introduction, after all. Later I found out that this was typical behavior of that couple, they had a reputation for that at the club.

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    Mfmfmf.
    Our first experience we jumped right in. We had went up stairs to the play area it was packed lucky enough a private booth opened up we, we started to play together and another couple asked to join us we said ok not to long after another couple asked again we said ok. It was a pretty fun night.

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    I broke off the engagement with my ex-fiance, but we were still seeing each other and enjoying sex. I started dating another guy, who became my husband. He knew about the ex and the sex and allowed me to keep my boyfriend. Eventually it became an MFM in one place at the same time.

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    As a Slut Wife and adult nympho (I admit), I still like two guys serving me together, and I love my hubby to see another Big Cock in me, as he gets so hard that a DP is going to happen. Don't get me wrong, group action is our scene, but having a MFM or MMFMM makes me feel like a queen, and I tend to squirt with multiple guys.
    Laura
    Dave and Laura


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    I shared a girlfriend of mine with three other friends (MMMMF). That was so fucking hot & til this day I still jerk off thinking about. That was the kinkiest I ever did with someone I dated (we dated for two years). Her & I also had a several threesomes (3 MMF & 1 FFM). Participated in a gang bang when I was in the NAVY (two women vs eight men). I love a woman that loves getting pleased by multiple men, making her cum all night long..

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    Badsph,
    Thanks for acknowledging us ladies, as we (at least me and my friends) like multiple guys and an occasional gangbang. Dave and I like my other stripper friends I have come to trust engage in our pool and jacuzzi, plus I get my fill of my hubby's gym buddies.
    Laura

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    Mine was a M/F I was working with a lady in the company I worked for. We had been to see clients all day. While working she asked if I wanted to have dinner with her and her husband, and soak in their hot tub. Being on the road with nothing but cafť food of course the meal was welcomed. I told her I didn't have a swim suit though. They don't allow suits in the hot tub. I am a naturist so it didn't bother me. So we had a nice dinner and chatted for a bit then went out to the tub. It started snowing hard so they offered me the couch. Next thing you know her husband asks me if I would like to fuck her. I just stared dumb founded. He said it was ok they were in the lifestyle. From then on when I was in the area they would take me to some of the parties and introduced me to other couples they knew.

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    VegasNudeCouple I'd love too participate some how with your group sounds exactly like the type of fun & expericenes I'm looking for. Anyway I can know more? I'm close too LV, locted in Riverside County.

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    I got Jacked off by the girls, closed my eyes, not sure how many. Wu got Jilled of by one girl and several guys.

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    I first met my hubby Dave on the set of an adult film a long time ago in the San Fernando Valley, we were both in college and I brought a friend of mine who was curious, and ended up in a group scene with Dave, who at the time had one of the massive cocks I had ever seen. She and I shared him with two other gals off camera, then rolled with the film, seeing him with four nude and young girls. I didn't know later that I would be married to him, but that friend/lover of mine showed me the film after I was dating Dave.
    Laura
    Laura and Dave

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    Default Re: Poll: what kind of first experience did you have? MFM FMF MFMF

    My wife had asked me what my fantasy was and I told her a 3 sum with 2 girls, never thought much of it after that, her best friend lived in another city and we always had a good time together when we hung out alittle flirting here and there. When I came back from Iraq on leave it was for my wife's birthday and her friends was the next day, we went out and partied and had a good time, me and the wife rented a hotel room and we all went back to the room after bar close, my wife's sister was with and hung out for awhile and finally left. Out of the blue my wife's friend stood up and said "we should have a threesome" I was in shock and my wife was right on top of it. They started making out and I got right into the mix. No better thing then a white guy with 2 sexy black girls. We had a good time and to this day are still really good friends and she is still my wife's best friend. We have had 1 more 3 sum since then with her and those were our only FMF threesomes. We have done MFM twice the first time was ok we were both a bit to drunk but still had a memorable time. I love FMF but think I prefer MFM.

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    You are a lucky man! Didn't they make a movie about that?
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson


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