First time went well... We guess...???

My wife and I are married over 25 years (M53 & F50) with a solid relationship and have talked about jumping into the lifestyle for a couple of years. We have been on numerous vacations and have witnessed a lot but have only gone as far as kissing and shots off the girls breast.... This last vacation it changed with us jumping into a soft swap...

We met this couple (same ages as us) and connected right away with common interests. They are a full swap couple and asked us our limits and interests up front. We said we are comfortable at first with kissing, oral but no intercourse. The first experience was with his wife who came to the room and it turned into a soft swap threesome with us. It went well but her oral skills are not that well, with me only enjoying when my wife took over. For her, she was not that aggressive and my wife said it was a good turn on. After she left my wife and I had an incredible finish.

Later on, all four of us returned to the room for drinks and some play time. It started off with both of us going down on each others wives and fingering until they came. The girl was incredibly turned on and splashed within a minute of me fingering her. When I was finished, I kneeled over my wife who gave me a blowjob while he finished fingering her. At the same time she was kissing my wife tits and alternating make out with us...

After the girls were finished they went down on both opposite partners. He obviously had a viagra cock, with my wife commenting it had girth and was hard but I had the length. My wife pleased him well, as I previously said his was wife was not that good and did not go that far down with me feeling her teeth off and on.

This went on for about 5 minutes with us swapping, double blow jobs and until we starting having sex with our wives. As we were having sex with our wives, the other girl would lick his balls or her clit to get us further stimulated. This was an incredible turn on and all my wife and I wanted was each other.

As we were in the heat of sex with our wives, the other couple stopped gasping for air and wanted water. My wife and I, who were in the processes of having incredible sex, stopped only because they stopped. They made comments saying no way this could be your first time and you two are very sexually active. They then left the room, with us assuming to go finish alone and my wife and I had an unbelievable time finishing up.

It was a great experience for us and has brought us closer together than we have ever been, we will definitely be looking to play again with the right couple. This couple was a good connection, not pushy or suggestive and helped us break the ice with no glitches. Only thing was it was kind of weird that they conked out after a short time but we realized a big misconception on our part that all full swap swingers go the mile.

For two newbies, we think it went well....... Not knowing how it was suppose to go....

Thanks for sharing. Just sitting here from afar, yes, it sounds like it went very well for your first experience. Nearly all experiences have some little bend in the road somewhere, like the other couple's somewhat abrupt finish, but you just take those things in stride. The real proof is that you both enjoyed yourselves, you felt a close connection afterwards with no unpleasant feelings, and are ready to do it again in the right situation. Those all spell success!!

Congratulations and welcome to the club!

First, let me say hello, Wnyf, and welcome to SwingersBoard!

Your first experience sounds like a pretty good one in most respects! Have you been in contact with the other couple since your last encounter with them? If they were happy with things as well, then I'd call it a win all around! As far as them leaving early is concerned, it could have been any of a number of things. They might have been tired, maybe this was not their first round of the day! If the guy was performing with the aid of pharmaceuticals, it might be that his sexual endurance was longer than his physical endurance, and he just had to take a break. Or maybe they'd got a notion in their minds that you guys, being new, might want to finish alone? A follow up conversation would not be out of line.

The other woman's oral skills sound like they did not quite do the trick for you. Are you a lot more girthy than her husband? Perhaps she is not that experienced, or not used to someone with your particular physical attributes. But when people play more than once, things often are better the second time! Also, if she is amenable to talking things over, maybe you can guide her a little on how to work you just right. By the way, she does not need to go deep on you- with the addition of a hand to help with stroking, she can stimulate you from stem to stern!

I hope this was the first of many hot and adventurous experiences for you two!

We have done SRS but not yet a soft swap, hard to get a couple with the right mindset who you can trust.. hope we get there soon..