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    Talking Was your first swinging encounter with a couple or a single?

    So my wife and I are now looking to find our first experience. This week we began to activlely look for our first couple or single to invite over. We have contacted a few people and have some potential matches.
    To me, since this will be our first time, it almost seems more comfortable to start with a single woman or man. I am not sure why, but I think that it would be easier. Any one else feel this way or start off like that? It seems that after we have done that once or twice we could go for a couple.
    My wife has no problem with a couple first, and no problems with single males or femals either....
    Maybe it is the audience thing...I don't know.
    Just wondering if anyone else had their first experience with a single first and then moved to couples, or if most just jumped right in to couples.
    So, what did you start with?


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    We started with a couple that we had known for 9 yrs and then moved on to adding a single male or female. It was easier for us because we knew the other couple real well.

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    We started out with a couple, although our primary desire (the opportunity to experience some FF pleasure) could have been achieved through meeting a single person. In our case, we discovered that single bi females are a rare treasure, and that led us to take the couples route. We've no regrets about that. Through playing with a couple from the outset, we've explored and expanded our boundaries far more than we'd anticipated. And we've never once felt pressured to go further than we wanted (although that's probably down to establishing precisely where mutual boundaries lie prior to any meeting).

    As for problems with an audience . . . although others have reportedly encountered such difficulties, we've never experienced them. The excitement of the situation has always swept us through.

    Single or couple? Choose whatever suits the two of you - and your primary desire(s) - the best.
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    Only slightly cracked... BradAndJanet's Avatar
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    When we first started, we were looking for both single guys and couples. Couples seemed harder to find, but single guys were beating down the door, so to speak. Since one of our fantasies (out of many!) was an MFM, we decided to go with a single man for our first encounter, because it did seem to be an easier way to 'break into' swinging. We learned a lesson that 'easier' does not necessarily translate into 'good experience'.

    Since then we have discovered that we really prefer to play with couples and that finding the right match is well worth the wait.

    -B
    "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain :)

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    Originally posted by BradAndJanet
    When we first started, we were looking for both single guys and couples. Couples seemed harder to find, but single guys were beating down the door, so to speak. Since one of our fantasies (out of many!) was an MFM, we decided to go with a single man for our first encounter, because it did seem to be an easier way to 'break into' swinging. We learned a lesson that 'easier' does not necessarily translate into 'good experience'.

    Since then we have discovered that we really prefer to play with couples and that finding the right match is well worth the wait.

    -B
    We can say that almost word for word - except our first experience was AWESOME! and we have had ZERO luck finding a couple that we can agree on...
    Bedmates

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    South of disorder WesternSwing's Avatar
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    Our first experience was with a couple. Mostly because my wife and the F of the couple met at a party and until then my wife had never thought of a bi experience. Then, she wanted this woman really bad. So it was mostly for the FF action that we got in with this couple, but we knew it was going to happen with a full swap, too. And as has been mentioned, the single bi-fem is hard to come by, so if we want some FF action on a frequent basis it is going to be with couples.

    And in a way it's good. We both get some (usually) and neither feels left out, so it eliminates one issue that raises the green eyed monster.

    Mr. WS
    "Sex is something you do, sexuality is something you are." ~ Anna Freud
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    Swingers Board Addict sensuality's Avatar
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    Our first experience was with a single female facelick And, now we're more into couples.However, a single female is something we will never pass up if /when the opportunity presents itself
    To truly see beauty, close your eyes...and see with your heart....mois

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    We just need to find ways to meet people. We want to, we're just very nervous about it all (and timid). There has to be an easy way to get started! We had a single male come to visit her, but we haven't been able to move forward from there...
    Bedmates

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    single male, my best friend. it was great. she loved it . and we still do it.


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    Swingers Board Addict twoplayful2's Avatar
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    We got into this group thing at a club for our first swing. I went outside to the car to get her coat, came back and some couple was hitting on her. Hmm, seems that's almost always how it happens! I'm starting to get a complex about it lol. Well that couple was meeting another couple and they invited us to join them. They were all way easy going and considerate to us as noobs so we had a very good soft-swinging time. Damn, I'm really not that homely, I swear!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MassageCouple69
    So my wife and I are now looking to find our first experience. This week we began to activlely look for our first couple or single to invite over. We have contacted a few people and have some potential matches.
    To me, since this will be our first time, it almost seems more comfortable to start with a single woman or man. I am not sure why, but I think that it would be easier. Any one else feel this way or start off like that? It seems that after we have done that once or twice we could go for a couple.
    My wife has no problem with a couple first, and no problems with single males or femals either....
    Maybe it is the audience thing...I don't know.
    Just wondering if anyone else had their first experience with a single first and then moved to couples, or if most just jumped right in to couples.
    So, what did you start with?
    Just like us! My wife seem interested every times she saw on HBO swing club. I try to talk her into it, and start looking. It looks like you guy very close to us, we live in Hillsboro. We might able to hook up in near future, gain some experience together. We never have any experience too, it could be our first time.

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    Our first experience was with an Indian bull. We had him home for a late dinner, and then retired to the master bedroom. It was an MFM, but my husband mostly just watched as I took my bull's cock inside me. After our first intercourse, I kicked my husband out of the room so that my bull and I could spend the rest of the night alone together.

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    Swingers Board Addict adamgunn's Avatar
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    For the first few months, it was foursome swaps and a couple of bigger groups. A couple of months later, we decided late in the evening at a swing club that she could entertain a marine. (We'd been in a foursome earlier.) A couple of weeks later we had our first MFM threesome. After that, it was whatever was interesting and available.

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    My wife and I married at a young age she was 20 and I was 22 and I always told her that if she wanted to screw someone else that I would let her do it. My wife was a beautiful blue-eyed blonde and the guys always had an eye for her. To my surprise she took me up on the deal taking off on a camping trip with her friends. Not hiding anything when she came home she told me that she shared a tent with one of her grad school buddies fucking him all weekend. She was even making out French kissing him at our door to say goodbye. Truthfully I was quite angry and almost got into a fight. I knew there was nothing I could do other than let her continue her search for cock and I would have to do the same for myself finding another lady. Having no scruples about screwing other guys she continued and we ended up separating. Was wondering how many people out there have gone through the same thing making a promise you couldn’t really can’t keep. I think I would’ve been better off if I would’ve been in a threesome and was at least able to watch her screwing the other guy and maybe joining in. We remain friends but I couldn’t take the fact that she was constantly looking elsewhere is even though we were still having sex together even after we split up.

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    Default Re: Was your first swinging encounter with a couple or a single?

    Well we started "indirectly" via a threesome with a friend of ours (MFM). We had talked about the LS for a while as friends of ours are in it. They never "invited" us in so that was cool as we could just keep it to that conversation, experienced based level.

    That being said we did visit a club for our first experience (worst of all) I would suggest start slow.

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    Swingers Board Addict couplers's Avatar
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    I started with two boyfriends (one of whom I married), screwing both of them separately with the other's knowledge. Then it became MFM threesomes, which we all liked. Now we're part of a poly family.

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    LET'S CHAT! ;) NINER69's Avatar
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    Default Re: Was your first swinging encounter with a couple or a single?

    My best friend also joined me and my GF in a threesome! We all enjoyed it!


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    Since this thread revived: we were expecting to start with MFM, but our first encounter was with two other couples, invited by her long-time friends. We'd talked about playing for a couple of years and it just finally came together.

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    I watched the wife with a single guy the first time. It was awesome!

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    Group. A woman I'd just started dating was a experienced swinger. First date she took me back to her barracks room (we were both Marines) & her roommie was giving some guy a bj. My girl & I got busy as well. Second date she took to a party at a apartment in nearby Oceanside Ca. Eight or nine people were in varying states of undress & sexual activities. She got me involved with another woman then slipped off for a quickie with another man. A bit later she rejoined her friend & I & we had a threesome on the couch. I had limited experience with female on female sex and none with male/male, but saw a lot of both that evening. Eventually we claimed a bed as things settled down and snoozed till near noon.

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    I'm Darrell in dallas and would like to get together and party but I'm not sure what to do are what is expected

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    Default Re: Was your first swinging encounter with a couple or a single?

    Quote Originally Posted by Butchj View Post
    My wife and I married at a young age she was 20 and I was 22 and I always told her that if she wanted to screw someone else that I would let her do it. My wife was a beautiful blue-eyed blonde and the guys always had an eye for her. To my surprise she took me up on the deal taking off on a camping trip with her friends.


    Truthfully I was quite angry and almost got into a fight.


    We remain friends but I couldn’t take the fact that she was constantly looking elsewhere is even though we were still having sex together even after we split up.
    Seems to me that you had the perfect wife, someone who was into an open marriage, and let her get away from you. Lots of guys here are always asking how to get their wife interested in swinging or fucking around and would give their left nut to have it happen. Any regrets?


    My wife and I started out similar, although we were older and had the normal amount of (nonswinging) sexual experience. We used to talk about how it was fucking our exes, it really made our sex intense. I let her know that if she wanted to fuck them it was ok by me (it was more comfortable for both of us to talk about exes, although a new guy would have been ok too). It took about a year, but she finally did it and we fucked like animals afterwards. She kept on occasionally with that guy since he was nearby and another ex from out of town when they got together. Later with my wife's encouragement I started seeing a girl I had never fucked before. Eventually, we did MFMs with the one guy (a first for both of us), and although we never did an FFM with the woman I was seeing, my wife would suck my unwashed dick back up and we fucked afterwards.

    Now we pretty much just play with couples, but we still occasionally play alone with them in threesome or just one on one because of who's available at the moment. Everybody's comfortable with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meanu69fuk View Post
    I'm Darrell in dallas and would like to get together and party but I'm not sure what to do are what is expected
    Read here & look over and read the swinger connection sites advertised here. Decide which one you should try first and read more, about what people are looking for, what they want, and talk to people.

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    Our first sex in the same bed was with a young nudist couple about half our age on a weekend camping trip in our small camper's very small bed. There was no swapping of partners but it was a great turn on for my wife and me. While we were away, we had our best friends care for our two boys. That couple were nudists too and were very turned on by the thought of us going on a camping trip with our young nudist friends, whom they also knew. A couple of years later, that second couple seduced us when they were at our house. It was totally spontaneous and all my wife and I could think and talk about was that we really wanted to do it again. It was a real changing point in our lives.

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    Swingers Board Addict couplers's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by oc1234 View Post
    A couple of years later, that second couple seduced us when they were at our house. It was totally spontaneous and all my wife and I could think and talk about was that we really wanted to do it again.
    After the thinking and talking, did you do it again?


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