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Our unplanned first time

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Hi, we just joined today and I said I would share our first time in the welcome page.

 

Our first time was totally unplanned and looking back it is hard to believe what we did. We were on a cruise in the Caribbean and we met a few couples the first night who all seemed like fun. We met at the pool and though we all had different plans for dinner we said we would meet for drinks later on. Of course we all asked what the others were doing as far as excursions. I guess all these islands are similar but you get off the ship and explore or go to the beach and then head back late afternoon. A few of us joked about the beach in St. Martin. We had heard it was European with a topless section and a nude area.

 

That day we went to Orient beach with two couples. It was not a topless beach but topless women were there. I figured I really didn't know anyone and what the heck. One of the other women followed, one didn't. Then we heard that there was a total nude area a little further down from we were. My husband said he was going to check it out, so I went too and so did the one couple. Now we live in NJ that has a nude beach and we never thought of going there. So we get to that area of the beach and though it's nude it's not sexual and it was more joking than anything else for us but we all did go au natural. We didn't spend much time there and I did feel like pervs were staring at us but maybe it was just us and the alcohol and sun. We got our suits back on and went back to the ship with both couples.

 

That evening after dinner we met our new friends for drinks. Maybe too many drinks. We all had a drink package. It must have 3am when we were saying good night when the other wife takes my husband and says let's change partners. Maybe it was the liquor but it was all of our first time that night.

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Wow! Just like that you jumped in the deep end of the swinging pool? Sounds like you made some amazing friends :)

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Wow, must've been some serious chemistry in the air to make a move like that. :) Kudos to the four of you! And welcome to SB.

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I think I over simplified what happened. Yes we hit it off with them. I really didn't believe we actually changed partners that night. I blame it on the liquor, the balcony, the moon, the sea. His kiss and the quietness. I think I was more nervous about being noisy than being with a guy, not my husband.

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Your first experience was unplanned. And I believe the story is interesting.

 

Are you planning a planning a planned experience?

 

Go easy with the alcohol, y'all hear?

 

~Michael

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Are you planning a planning a planned experience?

 

Go easy with the alcohol, y'all hear?

 

~Michael

 

Rofl, Huh?

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Hello Shore. See you are in NJ too and like me, the female posting here. I know liquor can play into opening up you inhibitions. Did you ever talk about swinging before? I like that both of you went along with someone you just met in separate rooms. Were you scared to go to a room of a new friend and did you wonder what your husband was doing? Part of what we found exciting is being together.

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Hello Shore. See you are in NJ too and like me, the female posting here. Did you ever talk about swinging before?

 

I see there are plenty of Jersey people on here. This forum is like a shrink and nobody knows you and you can say things anonymously. No. We never talked about swinging or anything close to swinging before this trip. I think like many people I may have had thoughts, not so much of swinging but of what it would be like to meet a stranger and be open to anything. Sort of 50 Shades thoughts.

 

What we did talk about is if we ever went to a nude beach would we get undressed and we agreed that as long as we didn't know anyone there we might do it. That conversation came up with our new shipmates. We said we would if they would. Then they brought up have we ever thought of meeting a couple for sex. Of course I said NO. They said they had talked about going to a "sex resort" like Hedonism, which I didn't really know much about.

 

I didn't know whether to believe him or was he just pushing my buttons. He said if we knew nobody and nobody would know, why not. She actually was quiet but she said they did talk about it but chickened out. That was the first time we talked about swinging.

 

When we got to the beach and walked over to the nude beach area, I almost didn't get to do it. I felt everyone was looking at me, which of course they weren't. The nude beach is just that, all shapes and sizes and nobody I knew. I did see a few people from the ship there. We are all in our birthday suites and our new friend asks if we ever had sex on a beach. Now this beach may be nude but no sex was going on. We didn't know them long but I know he again was pushing buttons so I told him I had sex many time on the beach. I actually had sex on the beach in HS after my prom.

 

We all laughed about sex in different places and I kiddingly said they should go to a corner and get it on. He said he would rather I went with him and I laughed and said I need no sand in my whohaa. Then he said we are both going home in a few days and nobody would know except us. Looking back she and my husband were pretty quiet yet laughing. In a joking way I took his hand a said let's go over there and I give you quick blow job. We all laughed.

 

It was after dinner that night that we started talking about sex nobody would ever hear about. Again it started off as a joke. It continued until we realized they were really wanting this. I kept laughing it off. Then I started asking questions, so did my husband. They said they never did this. I sort of believe them. Then the logistics. Rooms on a ship are small and not very soundproof. I told him I could get loud and that might call a mayday. This went on for a few hours with many laughs. Then I looked at my husband and he shrugged and said nobody would know. Then she said let's do it, nobody will know and we will probably never see us again once we dock and go home. Then I said we couldn't because we don't have condoms as an excuse. I am on bc and she said she had her tubes tied. He said they could buy some at the ship store. I asked my husband what he wanted to do and he asked me what I wanted to do and they kept pushing.

 

Yes liquor was involved but my head was clear enough to know what we were doing. We did it.

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This would make a great full-length story!!! Sometimes, the stories about how "ordinary" people become swingers are the most interesting and illuminating. I hope you'll consider a full-length write-up for the story section.

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I don't know how much more I can tell you about that time. It was a year ago. Maybe I said too much already.

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As the male who has a wife that has been doing the posting here, it is ways interesting to read a woman's post. I wonder if your post was written by your husband how it would sound. More likely a bigger description of the act instead of what lead up to it.

Did you talk with your husband after and give him the details? How did the rest of the cruise go?

It's a year later and you just joined this site and I figure that wasn't your only time.

Hope you are enjoying the life. We are Jersey shore people too.

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As the male who has a wife that has been doing the posting here, it is ways interesting to read a woman's post. I wonder if your post was written by your husband how it would sound. More likely a bigger description of the act instead of what lead up to it.

Did you talk with your husband after and give him the details? How did the rest of the cruise go?

It's a year later and you just joined this site and I figure that wasn't your only time.

Hope you are enjoying the life. We are Jersey shore people too.

 

I am sure he could get into the details, I know because I have heard it. Yes we discussed and I told him everything. As you would expect we were with the couple on and off the ship after. I never thought of myself as bi or curious but the husbands wanted to see "their women" do things. At the time I was not comfortable doing much more than kissing her but the guys pushed. Also remember this is a ship cabin, not the largest space and not that soundproof. Yes we did more on the ship. I didn't spend another full night with our new friends, I really wanted to spend my nights with the one I came with, my husband. We don't to get away that often.

A year later and yes we have explored more.

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the husbands wanted to see "their women" do things. At the time I was not comfortable doing much more than kissing her but the guys pushed. Also remember this is a ship cabin, not the largest space and not that soundproof.

A year later and yes we have explored more.

 

I wanted to see my wife with a woman. It was one of the reasons we met our first couple, but both women had experience. We have since met couples where it was the others woman's first. Being this thread is about first experiences, I wonder if you want to share that first experience.

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It's funny that you started because you wanted to watch that. Even though we have all watched porn with that we used to joke about women who we suspected enjoyed other women more than men. I never had thoughts about what it would be like to anything sexual with a woman.

I will try to get my thoughts together and tell you about that first time. Maybe I should in another thread.

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