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MrkLin said:
"Single men we will find U....that includes IM's...If U do not respect that U will be visited by the castration fairy in the middle of the night! We all know that masturbation does not cause hairy palms but apparently it does cause illiteracy!"

 

As a single man, I KNOW that the possibly interested posters would NOT contact me even if they could find me.

 

C'mon, let's be real. You saw my profile and considered me for a millisecond, and then you put me on the reject pile, too.

 

No harm. It's happened lots of times.

 

But...PLEASE...if the single males have NO chance...just block 'em.

 

Be kind and most everyone can get back to lookin' for sex-partners...including the snobby couples looking for well-endowed, moneyed, handsome single guys...or anything else I'm not...:D

 

Good luck!

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Thrax,

 

Generally, I look at the couples profiles because quite honestly, that is what we are normally looking for. As a couple, we have single males blocked on SLS because there are so many idiots out there.

 

However, having said that, because of the post above I went and looked at your profile. Quite honestly, you sound like an interesting guy and have a well written profile. I also appreciate that you didn’t include a dick bomb in your pics. Wouldn’t mind meeting you for a drink some time and laughing over the stuff we here at the sites. And if my wife liked you too, you might get lucky! :D

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We are one of those couples that are not interested in playing with single guys, but we don't block them. The reason for this is because while we don't play with single guys there are a couple (ok, one really) that we know and enjoy the company of. We invite him to our dinner m&gs, as we know that other couples typically enjoy his company as well. If we blocked single males not only can they not see us but we can't see or communicate with them - at all. So for the sake of being able to keep in contact with this ONE guy we don't block any. Kinda backwards from the usual scenario where one guy screws it up for everyone.

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Thrax said:
As a single man, I KNOW that the possibly interested posters would NOT contact me even if they could find me.

 

C'mon, let's be real. You saw my profile and considered me for a millisecond, and then you put me on the reject pile, too.

 

No harm. It's happened lots of times.

 

But...PLEASE...if the single males have NO chance...just block 'em.

 

Be kind and most everyone can get back to lookin' for sex-partners...including the snobby couples looking for well-endowed, moneyed, handsome single guys...or anything else I'm not...:D

 

Good luck!

 

Well, I guess you took my post completely out of context. I thought the line about hairy palms and illiteracy was funny, and obviously you did not. Sorry you took it that way.

 

As for the topic itself, if we want to find a single guy, we'll look for one. We've done it in the past, and we'll probably do it in the future.

 

It gets back to one or two guys ruining it for the rest of you. We mention single guys not contacting us twice on our profile, because it appears once wasn't enough. Hell, twice isn't enough - we still get contacted. The reason we don't block them is because Lin occasionally likes to look and see if there's anyone she might be interested in - you can't do that if you have them blocked.

 

If folks really want to be kind, as you put it, they'll read the entire profile - not just perv on the pics, then e-mail us asking for more.

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Thrax, I understand what you are saying.... I think.

 

But as you can see from this topic on rare occasions we do get the Bad Apple. We are big swingers now and can handle, as we know, most situations. Sure its just to be blown off but still. I think this merits a witty response. It says clearly in our profile on SZC (same name, mrmrsfun) how we would respond to such a mail.

 

The thing is, its rare to see the bad apple appear now. But when they do it's taken lightly. And its usually a doozey.

 

I would like to think over the last few years single men have caught on. Either by being banned, with people reporting them to the website moderation/owners or, the simple fact they are unsuccessful. Then do as their good big brothers (like you, or some of the good men we have met) have shown how to be more acceptable, clean, and well behaved. We do understand people getting upset as we have been there ourselves. Now its not so aggravating. Like I say, they are few and far between.

 

I have to wonder now though, as its been a very long time since our last occurrence. I don't think we have single males blocked as a whole (for obvious reasons). Just the ones we have received the harassing mail from.

 

Can you as a single, log in and see our profile on either site?

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Well, after looking at Thrax's profile last night, and taking into consideration that the reason we were probably bombarded with e-mail from single guys was because we were showing up as "fresh meat," I decided to give it a shot and unlocked single guys from viewing our profile. If our e-mail box fills up with BS, then I will lock it down again. The idiots from that group don't seem to be able to read.

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MrkLin said:
Well, I guess you took my post completely out of context. I thought the line about hairy palms and illiteracy was funny, and obviously you did not. Sorry you took it that way.

 

As for the topic itself, if we want to find a single guy, we'll look for one. We've done it in the past, and we'll probably do it in the future.

 

It gets back to one or two guys ruining it for the rest of you. We mention single guys not contacting us twice on our profile, because it appears once wasn't enough. Hell, twice isn't enough - we still get contacted. The reason we don't block them is because Lin occasionally likes to look and see if there's anyone she might be interested in - you can't do that if you have them blocked.

 

If folks really want to be kind, as you put it, they'll read the entire profile - not just perv on the pics, then e-mail us asking for more.

Whoops! Sorry, MrkLin, I went off on a tangent and didn't warn anybody.

 

I did understand the context of your post, and I actually thought the quote you supplied was humorous, but it got me thinking about an issue and my ranting mode switch flipped to ON.

 

I should have done what Julie did, and started a new thread rather than highjack the other one.

 

My apologies to all!

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Best thing for the single guys out there???

 

Go out and find a single gal and bring her into the LS...

 

Rather than spending all your time contacting couples.

 

 

:rolleyes:

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Thrax said:

 

But...PLEASE...if the single males have NO chance...just block 'em.

 

Be kind and most everyone can get back to lookin' for sex-partners...including the snobby couples looking for well-endowed, moneyed, handsome single guys...or anything else I'm not...:D

 

Good luck!

 

I understand that this was probably a reaction out of frustration but here is something to think about. Why should WE have to take any extra action and effort to prevent YOU from running into a dead end when we already have the "no single males" box checked and our profile clearly states "NO SINGLE MALES"

 

Why should we have to take an extra step to make life easier and more efficient for you when you have the obligation to read our profile before writing to us and an obligation not to bother us when when we clearly define no SMs on our profiles.

 

There are profiles out there that say they aren't interested in couples. Guess what, we don't write to them and offer them our big dicks that last all night. We don't tell them that they should block all couples if they don't want couples, we just don't waste the time and energy writing to them.

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We've been on SDC for about a month with no block on SM's. Now either, we're (meaning me) not that appealing or they actually read our profile and saw the part that says, "No single men... should this change in the future we will contact you." Because we haven't received one email from a single man. The thing is that we aren't completely discounting them, we would just prefer to meet them at a M&G and get a better impression than just a profile.

 

I agree with Thrax about being kind, should be a universal rule. That being said Thrax should write his own column on what a couple might want to see in a SM profile because his has got it going on!

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arvcpl said:
I understand that this was probably a reaction out of frustration but here is something to think about. Why should WE have to take any extra action and effort to prevent YOU from running into a dead end when we already have the "no single males" box checked and our profile clearly states "NO SINGLE MALES"

 

Why should we have to take an extra step to make life easier and more efficient for you when you have the obligation to read our profile before writing to us and an obligation not to bother us when when we clearly define no SMs on our profiles.

 

 

I don't think it's necessarily making life easier for single men by blocking them...to me, it would be a way to ease those couples frustration level, who aren't looking for single men.

 

Not everyone reads a profile (yes, I know they should but they don't) and that includes couples and singles. We've been contacted by as many couples who don't read our profile as we have by singles.

 

If a couple blocks single men then they're not bothered by them....instead, couples don't block them and then constantly complain because they're being contacted by "yet another single man who can't read"... A couple has the power to block but doesn't use it and still complains when they're contacted.

 

I just don't understand what the big deal is...If you don't want to be contacted by single men, block them. If you're not going to block them, than ignore the mail you get from them...you don't have to open it, you can just delete. It's not that hard.

 

Those single men who are worth their salt will read a profile before contacting a couple. The ones that don't read the profile, usually don't understand swinging to begin with.

 

Teresa

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We don't block them, I'm not even sure our profile outright has the usual "NO SINGLE MALE" statement. We don't have any interest in single males checked on our profile. That said, we rarely get contacted by single guys... maybe one ever couple of months and when we do we either delete the message or if they were nice and polite we write back that thanks but we aren't interested.

 

Most of what we get are chat requests from single guys. We probably get 2 of those for every one from a couple... and all we do there is hit the "decline" button. It's not that hard really. I have to wonder what is different in the profiles of these couples who are getting so overwhelmed by messages from single guys? Is it because we don't post naked pics as the main pics on our profile? (or at all for that matter)? If I could figure out what we are doing right, I'd pass it along.

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Thrax said:
As a single man, I KNOW that the possibly interested posters would NOT contact me even if they could find me.

 

C'mon, let's be real. You saw my profile and considered me for a millisecond, and then you put me on the reject pile, too.

 

No harm. It's happened lots of times.

 

But...PLEASE...if the single males have NO chance...just block 'em.

 

Be kind and most everyone can get back to lookin' for sex-partners...including the snobby couples looking for well-endowed, moneyed, handsome single guys...or anything else I'm not...:D

 

Thrax,

 

I just ran across a profile that is a perfect example of what not to do.

 

In bold red at the top they have the "single males don't contact us, if we want you we will find you" type statement.

 

Then down a couple of paragraphs there is this:

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Single guys - if you can not construct and introductory email that is more than 2 or 3 words, don't bother....

 

Um, if you don't want mail from single males in the first place then why are you giving them instructions on HOW to contact you?

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I have to wonder what is different in the profiles of these couples who are getting so overwhelmed by messages from single guys? Is it because we don't post naked pics as the main pics on our profile? (or at all for that matter)? If I could figure out what we are doing right, I'd pass it along.

 

This might be worth exploring. We don't have any nudes either, although we do have some suggestive photos of the two of us together.

 

I'd also like to know what makes some profiles magnets and others not.

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Thrax said:
Whoops! Sorry, MrkLin, I went off on a tangent and didn't warn anybody.

 

I did understand the context of your post, and I actually thought the quote you supplied was humorous, but it got me thinking about an issue and my ranting mode switch flipped to ON.

 

I should have done what Julie did, and started a new thread rather than highjack the other one.

 

My apologies to all!

 

No worries, mate. A slight misunderstanding - that's all. Please know that I meant nothing by the single guy quote - I really did post it because I thought it was worded funny.

 

As a side note, we took a look at your profile today, and if we didn't live half a continent away, Lin would be contacting you (as I said, she does look and we contact guys that interest her.) This is just my opinion, but if more single guys wrote profiles like yours, a lot more would be getting invited to parties and such (and yes, we invite 2 single guys to our parties - everyone likes both of them, and there's never been even a hint of an issue.)

 

If there are any other single guys out there reading this, take a look at Thrax' SLS profile. Now THAT'S the way a profile should be!

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I just ran across a profile that is a perfect example of what not to do.

 

In bold red at the top they have the "single males don't contact us, if we want you we will find you" type statement.

 

Then down a couple of paragraphs there is this:

Single guys - if you can not construct and introductory email that is more than 2 or 3 words, don't bother....

 

Um, if you don't want mail from single males in the first place then why are you giving them instructions on HOW to contact you?

 

You see, it's couples like this that give the rest of us couples a bad name.

-Just sayin'

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-- snip --

 

It gets back to one or two guys ruining it for the rest of you. We mention single guys not contacting us twice on our profile, because it appears once wasn't enough. Hell, twice isn't enough - we still get contacted. The reason we don't block them is because Lin occasionally likes to look and see if there's anyone she might be interested in - you can't do that if you have them blocked.

 

--snip--

If Lin occasionally likes to look, and the rest of the time you don't want to be contacted, then I suggest you block single males until those occasions when she wants to look. That way they can only see you when you want to see them. The procedure is simple and not much trouble... checking and unchecking a box seems like a lot less trouble than sifting through unwanted emails on a constant basis.

 

We have single males blocked, because it's just not what we are looking for. We don't have any of the yelling about "NO SINGLE MALES" on our profile. We've only been contacted by a single male once or twice in the almost two years we've been on SLS. Those only happened because they had a couples' profile they shouldn't have had. We reported them.

 

We don't have nudes in our public pictures, but we do have bathing suit pictures.

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We don't have nudes in our public pictures, but we do have bathing suit pictures.

 

You don't have nudes, Julie doesn't, and we don't. All of us aren't being deluged by unwanted solicitations. Makes you wonder!

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Interesting thread...Being a single guy that CAN read, I don't contact couples that don't want to be contacted by single men. Interestingly, I have been contacted by couples that specify that they are totally uninterested in single males. And yes, I have a dick photo or two in my profile, added because I got tired of being asked for one! Now, here's the kicker: as I am bi, and list myself as such, I had to block single males! Yes, that's right, I was absolutely inundated with messages from "straight" males even though I had the caveat that I was not looking for single males in my profile at that time. So I know where the couples are coming from where this situation is concerned.

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We do have a line saying "we're not looking for single men right now" on our profile but we don't block single males because I (Mrs. Ivory) like to look at the men.

 

If the guys send a "Hey wanna hook up" profile, they get a quick reply and a delete. But there have been a few (2) men who have been witty and sexy and made clear that they read our profile and are happy to just put out a feeler for a possible later meeting.

 

These are guys I wouldn't mind meeting at a party, or contacting if we decide to do a MFM threesome!

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Thrax and Cntrysngr, I am a single female, which may not qualify me to reply but I did want to say....with profiles as well thought out and written as yours you support the reason why I remind myself to keep an open mind when it comes to single males. Even though my SLS profile is not geared to single men. As one who reads profiles I say thank you for the time and thought you put into yours. Gives hope! :facelick:

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If Lin occasionally likes to look, and the rest of the time you don't want to be contacted, then I suggest you block single males until those occasions when she wants to look. That way they can only see you when you want to see them. The procedure is simple and not much trouble... checking and unchecking a box seems like a lot less trouble than sifting through unwanted emails on a constant basis.

 

I'm not trying to be argumentative here, just explain a couple of things. Lin also has a couple of single male playmates (who became playmates long before we even knew SLS existed) who now also have SLS profiles. By blocking all single males, we also block them. That's not something she wants to do. We also don't sift through a lot of unwanted e-mails on a constant basis - here lately the number of singles contacting us has dropped off considerably, so we have nothing to complain about.

 

I don't know why, but it seems like e-mails from singles come in floods once or twice a year. We'll go for 6 or 7 months without an e-mail, then whoosh - we get a dozen or more over the course of a month, then they stop again. Right now is one of those lulls in the storm - haven't had any since about the end of August. Hmmmm - isn't that about the time school started back up? Just wondering out loud...

 

Overall, mentioning that we're not looking for singles (twice) cuts down on the number of obnoxious e-mails (we had one in July that consisted of 2 sentences: "Great pics. Does she take it up the ass?") and married guys out looking for a little on the side (maybe it's a regional thing, but there seem to be quite a few of those around here,) so for now, we're going to keep it up there.

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Just to add my experience- I don't post nude or even bathing suit pics, being the shy type in an online environment- and we get hardly any single guy responses, without having anything in our profile telling them not to bother. A few when we first join a new site, and then nothing, which is ok, because it's not really what we're interested in as a couple. (although Thrax does have a very appealing profile!)

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Thrax said:
Be kind and most everyone can get back to lookin' for sex-partners...including the snobby couples looking for well-endowed, moneyed, handsome single guys...or anything else I'm not...

First, for all of you who are not aware, the avatar that Thrax has with his Swingersboard profile is not cut-and-pasted from the Internet -- it an actual picture of him. He is just too modest when he a makes statement like the one above.

 

Second, I have cut-and-pasted some of the more humorous and outrageous messages that we have received at our SLS address (unedited and unabridged). We would never block single men: 1) we know more than one who is worthwhile 2) receiving e-mail like the following is just too rich a source of humor.

 

let me cum taste u

 

I also love sex and fat girls

 

I am looking for wild fun times and love to eat juice jelly rolls but I have no time for that since I take care of my mother and I can not get out until 10:00 or so.

 

ru to good 2b true?

 

how are you!

 

I love sucking and licking your clit. Please write.

 

hi there I think ur gorgeous lets fuck

 

30m i love sex

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SW PA those are fabulous!

 

There was a profile on AFF for a single male who said essentially "I love getting BJs. I don't have time for a relationship so I'm looking for a woman who can deep throat me and then leave." Um, I think you have to pay for that!

 

What I wonder is...do these EVER work? We've contacted a very few single males who were not only attractive but also articulate and funny (in a good way) as well as non-pushy. We really just want to meet the couple who responded to "Totally sexxxy and want 2 fuk her" with an enthusiastic "Hell yes, let's IM right away!" (and X-ray their heads to find out what's missing).

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IvoryTowers said:
What I wonder is...do these EVER work?

Messages like these always seem to key on JoAnn. Once, just once, I would like to have a message from some single woman, "You're gorgeous. I want you to come right over and f**k me now!" I would even be happy if I got one that said, "You're an awkward-looking nerd. I want you to come right over and f**k me now!"

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Michael, you are an adorable looking nerd and I want you to come over and f**k me right now!

 

Okay, the second part of that isn't true, but I went to your profile and the first half absolutely is!

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SW_PA_Couple said:
Messages like these always seem to key on JoAnn. Once, just once, I would like to have a message from some single woman, "You're gorgeous. I want you to come right over and f**k me now!" I would even be happy if I got one that said, "You're an awkward-looking nerd. I want you to come right over and f**k me now!"

 

Hahaha!

 

Yeah, when we first got on SLS we were flooded by stupid e-mails. So I blocked single males. A couple of months ago I removed the block and haven't been hit on since. I guess they target the newbies on a site. But your right, I've never been approached either.

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IvoryTowers said:
Michael, you are an adorable looking nerd and I want you to come over and f**k me right now!

OMG! :eek:. I'm right now checking Expedia.com for flights to Philly. Don't move. I'll be right there.

 

Thanks for the kind words. :D

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ncmd_couple said:
But your right, I've never been approached either.

It is our gender's fate. But I have not lost hope completely. As you can see here, I just came close.

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{edited for brevity}

 

let me cum taste u

 

I also love sex and fat girls

 

I am looking for wild fun times and love to eat juice jelly rolls but I have no time for that since I take care of my mother and I can not get out until 10:00 or so.

 

ru to good 2b true?

 

how are you!

 

I love sucking and licking your clit. Please write.

 

hi there I think ur gorgeous lets fuck

 

30m i love sex

 

*frantically cuts and pastes comments into Word document*

 

These are pure gold! And to think that I've been using my big boy words for years...:lol:

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This is why single guys have a bad reputation. I got an IM request this evening, and this is what his profile said:

 

We are looking for:

LOOKING FOR WOMAN OR COUPLE over55 years old FOR FUN AND SEX FOR LONG TIME.YOU CAN GET ME AT….

 

Description:

LIFE IS TOO SHORT SO I AM LOOKING TO HAVE FUN IN EVERY SEC OF THIS LIFE … I AM SINGLE MAN … KIND,FUNNY AND LOVE PEOPLE …. BRN SKIN AND EYES .. BLK HAIR LOVE TO READ AND TRAVEL … I LOVE OLD MUSIC.

 

Our fantasies and/or real experiences:

I LOKE TO MAKE LOVE TO THE WOMAND AND HER MAN WATCH US OR HE CAN CLEAN HER PUSSY AFTER I CUM INSIDE HER ….. I LOVE TO EAT THE WOMAN PUSSY AND IN SAME TIME HER MAN SUCK OR PLAY WITH MY DICK … I NEVER Fuck ANY MAN BEFORE.

 

What else we’d like to say, do, see, hear about and/or learn:

SEX IS GOOD ….. LET US HAVE FUN.

 

He is over 100 miles away, and wow, I found his profile so inviting!!!!! Note, capitalization etc. is exactly as it read.

 

S

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I've asked guys that try to IM me who are 200 miles away, why they do that as well. I think they are the cyber hunters, not interested in real sex.

 

Except for his punctuation and grammar, I don't really have a problem with what his profile says....he's being honest and there are some of us out here who don't want a long-term relationship with a single man.

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On Club Nexxus I have seen a few couples post that they are specifically looking for single males in our forum... not only that... I started in the lifestyle as a single male... so I know there is room for single males. (just do a search on this board for MMF or FMM or MFM and you will probably find alot of posts from people who interested in that... even newbies.

 

That said... I think the top messages I get from single males are:

 

"Hi... I want to lick your wifes kitty"...

"your wife has a great ass"...

"I do wanna lick your wifes belly button"

"can I suck sharon's toes??"

 

These are copy and pasted... and this is almost always the first message we get.

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2plu2fun,

 

I agree with you, there is definitely a place for single guys in swinging, and we have met some great guys. It is just the losers. In fact, just a couple of days ago a single guy IM'ed me. Seems like a nice guy, might even think about meeting him after we move.

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I just saw this paste from ncmd:

 

We are looking for:

"LOOKING FOR WOMAN OR COUPLE over55 years old FOR FUN AND SEX FOR LONG TIME.YOU CAN GET ME AT….

 

Description:

LIFE IS TOO SHORT SO I AM LOOKING TO HAVE FUN IN EVERY SEC OF THIS LIFE … I AM SINGLE MAN … KIND,FUNNY AND LOVE PEOPLE …. BRN SKIN AND EYES .. BLK HAIR LOVE TO READ AND TRAVEL … I LOVE OLD MUSIC.

 

Our fantasies and/or real experiences:

I LOKE TO MAKE LOVE TO THE WOMAND AND HER MAN WATCH US OR HE CAN CLEAN HER PUSSY AFTER I CUM INSIDE HER ….. I LOVE TO EAT THE WOMAN PUSSY AND IN SAME TIME HER MAN SUCK OR PLAY WITH MY DICK … I NEVER Fuck ANY MAN BEFORE.do, see, hear about and/or learn:

SEX IS GOOD ….. LET US HAVE FUN."

* * * * * * * *

 

That just makes me feel better...with regard to spelling, grammar, and just about everything else!

 

I hope he gets that CAPS LOCK key fixed.

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