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    Question Why wear stockings to a club?

    Husband and I finally made it to a hotel swingers session and I have several questions. The first is why do so many women wear stockings - stay ups or with a garter belt? Is it to look sexy to the men or is it to feel more sexy themselves? And they DO WEAR THEM while having sex.


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    Yep, pretty common site. Stockings/holdups are seen as sexy by most men, myself included. I can't attest to women's opinions, as I am not a woman. However, I do know there was a study done some years back which showed that women who wore sexy underwear were more confident, self assured, and assertive in business settings. I.e., their underwear wasn't showing, but still made a distinct difference in their outlook. Maybe that tracks with the swinging world too.

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    I sometimes where thigh highs, not really into the garter belts but hubby likes the look and I find that other men do too. One night, he even had me where over the knee boots and keep them on while we fucked. And yes, they did attract a lot of attention.

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    It is sexy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bbarnsworth View Post
    I do know there was a study done some years back which showed that women who wore sexy underwear were more confident, self assured, and assertive in business settings. I.e., their underwear wasn't showing, but still made a distinct difference in their outlook. Maybe that tracks with the swinging world too.
    Not to be a hater, but what study?? A study by Victoria Secret to sell more underwear? Not exactly feeling that one.
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    Women use stockings to even out skin color and tone . We're not all Diane Lane. Also, in a group setting, where the room temperature varies, it helps keep us a little warmer. I'll wear couture stockings which feel amazing and have depth and texture to them. They look amazing and attract men and women in any setting, to me.

    I once wore argyle styled stockings with a catholic school girl uniform to a house party. Alex said if I wore it, I couldn't turn anyone down. We knew everyone, but it still was the most men (and women) I had experienced in one night. So, yes, the guys and gals, love stockings.

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    One other perspective I will add to this discussion. Women have four options for what to wear on their legs.

    1. They can wear pants or jeans which generally speaking are not as sexy or hot as visible legs.

    2. They can wear pantyhose which while great for vanilla type activities where the clothes aren't going to come off, in a swinging environment where there is a good chance of getting naked, pantyhose just provides an obstacle to the fun. Also, it is another piece of clothing to try to keep up with and locate in the dark after the fun is over. Also the pantyhose, if they are control top type can help to hold the tummy in if that is an issue.

    3. They can go with bare legs and while some ladies have very attractive legs, for many women who might be self-conscious of their legs due to lack of a tan or what have you this is not the best option.

    4. Finally they can wear stockings. They have the good appearance of the "tanned legs" plus there is no obstacles to get in the way of the "play." Sure can't speak for all women, but I am pretty sure that most women will keep the stockings on. Again, less clothing items to keep up with.

    As a man I am certainly no expert on the clothing habits of women, but based upon observations and my experience of 26 years of marriage I believe this might be a fairly accurate assessment of the choice of stockings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kikonkrome View Post
    Not to be a hater, but what study?? A study by Victoria Secret to sell more underwear? Not exactly feeling that one.
    It's been years since I saw the article. By study, I meant a scientific one, not an online poll or something sponsored by a manufacturer. Those do not carry weight with me.

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    I wear them sometimes. I like thigh highs with a garter belt. You can wear underwear on top. They are convenient in the ladies room and for having sex. They look and feel sexy. They cover varicose veins. Some people really like the look and it gets them turned on. I really like the way they feel.
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    Quote Originally Posted by funcoupledayton View Post
    I wear them sometimes. I like thigh highs with a garter belt. . .
    You're getting me all hot and bothered.
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    Quote Originally Posted by funcoupledayton View Post
    I wear them sometimes. I like thigh highs with a garter belt.
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    me too!!
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