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This is kind of a take-off from alabamafuntonight's latest question on wearing worn out undies.

 

So what kind of undies do you prefer? On you? On your play partners?

 

Personally I find briefs to be a bit of a turn-off and would much rather see a guy in boxers. If I'm meeting up with a couple and we know ahead of time that things might go in a certain direction I'll be wearing thongs and hoping the female is too. If I don't have a feeling things might be going a certain direction I'd still be wearing nice panties (be they briefs or thongs).

 

So what do you prefer?

 

Boxers or Briefs?

Thongs, French cut, granny panties, etc?

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Sorry Julie, but this guy prefers briefs over boxers. I just like the secure feeling that everything is well supported. Plus, wearing boxers makes me feel like I'm wearing pants over my shorts. Not comfortable to me, but I do suppose you get used to that.

 

Now, the Boy? He's a boxer man all the way. Go figure... :)

 

-B

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Commando for Mr Fun. If we are going to an on premise club he will bring some gym shorts for the "between times".

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I personally like thongs on women or nothing under that nice short dress and on the guys either briefs or if he is well built a nice thong. I love seeing some nice ass on a athletic guy, what a nice turn-on!!!

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I have to agree with Julie I prefer boxers on the man and I wear thongs almost all the time.

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I prefer a man in briefs or a thong if they a built nice, Mr. h prefers to go commando. He is more comfortable, works for me. Myself, I prefer thongs and French cut mostly. When I want to feel real sexy, I wear my lace boy legs.

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I hedge my bets, and wear boxer-style briefs. For those that aren't familiar, they are the nice stretchy cotton that fits tightly and provides some support like briefs, but they are made in a boxer style.

 

Mrs 519Couple, happily for me, prefers thongs. :)

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Hubby wears boxers on those special occasions and briefs during the work week. I wear thongs a lot but when working and I want to feel comfortable I wear briefs. I like boxers on men. They make nice tents when they get excited. lol

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Most of my life I've worn briefs of one sort or another. I went through a period some years back when I wore boxers. Didn't care for them. For the last several years I've worn bikini briefs. Not only do I get the fit and support I like, but every woman who has seen me in them was quite pleased, thank you very much...:fun:

 

Therefore I go with what works...:)

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Most of the time it's thongs for me and ALWAYS boxers for Fraser. I hate thongs or tiny briefs on guys, especially when they are not the slimmest or fittest!

 

One couple we met a while back, actually we still see them and they are a nice couple, the husband is about Fraser's age (mid 40's) and when he took his kit off he was wearing the most awful leather posing pouch underneath his trousers!! I nearly burst out laughing there and then, Fraser looked and then looked at me and just raised an eyebrow - how I didn't choke trying not to laugh I'll never know!

 

We know them quite well now and I sometimes tease him about his posing pouch, he takes it very well! LOL

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I kind of like those silky boxers for men. Briefs are OK as long as they aren't all stretched out and baggy looking, but generally, they are. And not boring white Fruit-of-the-Loom's, please.

 

Thongs are not my favorite. I don't really find them very comfortable, although I occasionally wear them under certain things when I don't want the "panty line." I really hate panty lines when I'm dressed in nice slacks, etc. Most often, I can be found in the french cut panties.

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I (Mr B) prefer to split the difference and wear boxer-style underwear made from the same material as briefs (i.e. some form of elasticated cotton). They provide the support of regular briefs, and a more flattering appearance.

 

Mrs B's choice in underwear are determined by the environment: fuller-cut panties for work/shopping, thongs for clothes that would otherwise reveal a panty line. When it comes to play time, she wears whatever she's in the mood for!

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my hubby wears a style called sport trunks or cycle trunks...

 

getting increasingly hard to find lately... I've just ordered some online... and am waiting to see if they are the right style...

 

I think they are what Brit Pair is describing... about the length of a boxer... without all that flopping around. :lol:

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Originally posted by naughty A

my hubby wears a style called sport trunks or cycle trunks...I think they are what Brit Pair is describing...

Those are the very things!
Originally posted by naughty A

about the length of a boxer... without all that flopping around. :lol:

Nicely put!

 

:lol:

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Mr Pink wears the ever sexy boxer brief. Yummy......makes it all look real nice. Hugs in all the right places and are not too confining. On occasion, like if we are going out to play, he will go commando.

 

I wear thongs. Have some in a jersey cotton fabric and have some that are all lace. Love them. Make me feel very womanly and sexy. Sometimes I go commando. Depends on the outfit and how exhibitionist I am feeling. Will do it with a short skirt.

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I wear briefs most of the time because they are more comfortable than boxers. My wife likes me to wear boxers, she almost changed her mind though when she got me a pair of red silk boxers that she said looked real sexy on me, but when she washed them they turned the whole wash load pink and she promptly threw them out. My wife is commando all they way and that works for me.

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Boxer briefs for him; I got him some for xmas last year to replace the tighty whities, and they look sooo nice, and he finds them really comfortable. He never did like boxers- too bunchy under pants, esp tighter jeans. I have to remind him to go commando on playdates.

 

I hate wearing thongs. Just hate 'em. I wear cute little briefs from American Eagle, and nobody complains... but if we're going out on a playdate I might wear a thong, secure in the knowledge that it won't be staying on for long. ;)

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Mr. Leo prefers "euro trunk" style boxer briefs.. pretty snug. He also likes regular bikini briefs, but not so much since finding the euros...

regular boxers are fine on work days!

 

Mrs. Leo loves the thongs!

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I am a commando type person on most occasions...I love to see my potential partners in thongs and short skirts. :D

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I've never understood the term 'Commando' when referring to a man going without underwear. Some people have told me that it refers to the Scotsmen in kilts. As a kilt-wearin' Scot, I can tell you that the term used isn't 'commando,' but rather 'regimental.' The Highland Regiments forbade the wearing of undergarments beneath the kilt in the belief that things got a bit hot and sweaty under that much wool, and to prevent crotch rot, for lack of a better term, things should be left to 'air out,' as it were...

 

With that history lesson behind us, I'll say loud and proud that I'm always regimental. The only exception being our annual Post-Valentine's Day Pajama Party. That's the day we invite all of our lifestyle friends over, and the ladies get to show off the sexy or romantic lingerie their mates got them for Valentine's Day. I wear boxers at that party. I prefer my ladies to go regimental as well, although a pretty pair of lacy panties of any style makes unwrapping the 'present' that much more fun...

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I (Mr) stopped wearing briefs a long time ago and either go with boxers or nothing at all. As for the Mrs I prefer G's, thongs, or nothing at all which is the sexiest :facelick:.

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MrkLin said:
I've never understood the term 'Commando' when referring to a man going without underwear. Some people have told me that it refers to the Scotsmen in kilts. As a kilt-wearin' Scot, I can tell you that the term used isn't 'commando,' but rather 'regimental.' The Highland Regiments forbade the wearing of undergarments beneath the kilt in the belief that things got a bit hot and sweaty under that much wool, and to prevent crotch rot, for lack of a better term, things should be left to 'air out,' as it were...

 

You're mostly right. I'm pretty sure it comes from the Vietnam era vets for the reason stated above, to avoid crotch rot in the hot humid jungle. I knew when I'm doing dismount type patrols or road marches, especially in 130 degree weather going commando keeps the chafing to a minimum. It is 100 times more comfortable.

 

Now back to your regularly scheduled thread :lol:. When I'm not working I prefer boxer briefs. All the comfort of briefs with a more attractive look IMO. On my wife I love G-strings.

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Brian wears briefs for everyday use. When we are meeting playmates he wears thongs or nothing at all underneath his pants. I just love the bulge in his briefs or thongs - lol.

 

Jo wears bikini panties every day. Like Brian, when we are going to play she wears thongs or nothing at all underneath her dress.

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Well, I personally prefer wearing either Boxer-Briefs, but more Briefs because of the support, but then again, I do like going Commando for the freedom feel... haha

And if i can ignore the lack in support, a thong can be fun...

 

As for the her I'd prefer her to wear whatever from thongs, to her normal panties or even Commando too, either way she's sexy!

 

As for her I think she would prefer me to just wear her thongs.

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I wear thongs if we are going out to play but at home usually none at all.

 

Hubby wears the bikini briefs. Wish he would wear boxers. I think boxers are sexy as hell.

 

Melody

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While I can't say as what I wear on play dates (have yet to pop that cherry), I tend to wear just about anything.

 

Got some boxer briefs, originally bought them to wear around the house during the summer, started wearing them normally since then. Also wear men's string-side bikini briefs (very low cut in front, tight. I'll also wear thongs or g-strings, sort of depends on what I'm thinking in the morning.

 

Commando is OK, although it can get a bit chilly here.

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On most days boxers. If more sporting behavior is anticipated, in the words of Kramer, "My boys need a house", so boxer briefs.

 

If a lady is nicely proportioned, fit and trim, a thong is wildly sexy.

 

If more generously proportioned, it does not matter.

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I go commando most of the time, just more comfortable. But: If I am wearing tight jeans I will sometimes wear bikini briefs, nothing worse than the fellas working down while I am driving, go to move and crushing something. That could cause an accident. Mrs. Almost always wears bikini briefs, and most of them have either a picture or cute little saying on it.

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We both wear none at all usually. I quit wearing underwear in Panama because of the heat and jock itch. When we go out to meet couples she will wear lacy underwear and me some boxers. We still think commando is the way. Keep your pubes trimmed and all will go well.

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DEPENDS!

 

Sorry! I cant believe no one else said that yet!

Oh, boxer-style briefs for me, thong for Mrs. CXXC.

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Mr. Ivory wears boxer briefs for play, as that's what we both find most sexy

 

Mrs. Ivory has a whole collection of undies for play--thongs, boy shorts, and Victoria's Secret "cheeky" panties. In vanilla life, she prefers bikini panties in cotton.

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I'm such an underwear fetishist. I have, and wear the following:

 

• Backless "thong" pouches. Basically, these are G-strings without a string between your cheeks. I love them, but they can be unreliable if you get an erection or if you have to do any light jogging. One of mine has a strap that goes around my balls and cock, to keep it in place. The strap is invisible once the pouch is on. The other two have a loop that attaches to a butyl rubber cockring; again, to keep it in place.

 

• I have only one pair of King Style Balls-in-One Erector Briefs. These are great, especially the mesh ball pouch. Again, these aren't the best to handle an erection, because your penis is held in an erect position, and it will pop out of your pants if you are a "grower." I've heard these are great for uncut guys, because the foreskin area stays aired out. They can also be hard to get out of if you have to pee.

 

• I have a drawer full of cotton thongs. Looking at them, you'd think the bulky fabric would be uncomfortable as butt floss, but they're actually very comfy. I'm wearing a leopard print pair right now.

 

• I have several pairs of boxer-briefs. These are the boxer-shaped tight undies that make your package look particularly delectable, and your hiney look scrumptious. The lack of a fly is the only drawback.

 

• I also own a leather thong, with Velcro on the hips. One tug, and it's "Free Willy!" The suede surface is warm and comfortable against my penis, but I don't wear this very often. Leather is hard to clean, especially when it's got DNA evidence on it.

 

• I've got several Calvin Klein thongs. They're some of the most comfortable, but they're hard to find. They have a wider waist, and a very deep pocket. If I know I'm going to be having several erection cycles before I can get undressed, I wear these. They have plenty of stretch. They're also great under formal wear.

 

• I've got a pair of silk see-through long-johns. They are very warm, for something you could basically sneeze through.

 

• Last, but not least, I have several pairs of cotton boxers. These are just comfortable old stand-by's, in case I don't feel like the butt floss, or I just feel like a little freedom.

 

No tighty-whities (too old fashioned) and no silk boxers (they don't last).

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I love panties! I typically wear thongs/g-strings, but like boy shorts, too.

 

On the guys, I prefer boxers or boxer briefs, which is what Mr. Sweet usually wears.

 

=)

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