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I am new to the site but have posted several questions so far and have received great advice. It is making the LS decisions easier.

 

So my question is clothing. I was a corporate housewife for many years. Very conservative in my appearance. Now that I am divorced and in a relationship again I am beginning to feel sexy again. If you are on SLS you can look us up to see what we look like. I am tall and thin. I have no boobs because of zero body fat. I am in great shape. I have fantastic shoulders and abs. I can say that but believe it only when I see pictures. As a woman, we always see our flaws.

 

I guess since I live in Maryland, close to DC and Baltimore, where are places to shop for sexy clothing but not slutty. I want a corset or bustier but because of being challenged in the chest department. I'm not sure if that is the way to go. I want to be sexy for my partner and any playmates. My partner never offers opinions. Silly man!!!! :lol::D

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Don't know about DC / Baltimore, but if you lived near southwestern Pennsylvania, I'd recommend Sassy Sensations. You'd receive personal attention.

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This could just be me but when we first started swinging, we looked at sexy "swinger" type clothes. The kind that could only be worn at a swinger club because there are large gaps in the dress/clothing on the bust or bottom area. We bought a few and wore them a couple of times. However, I realized that I could buy less expensive dresses that were still sexy but could be worn "out on the town" as well, meaning I could walk out of the house without a covering and it would be suitable as just a date night with Mr. Sun as well. I am sure that you can get away with very short dresses with plunging necklines that might be more stylish than the "slutty" wear that can be found online. I also spice it up and don't wear panties when we go out so there's that added hidden "sex appeal" that ups the ante for those who know that detail.

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"slutty" wear that can be found online.

 

We kinda like the slutty wear, but then again, it fits in well in South Florida. ;-)

 

From Mrs. SoFla: Try Venus online as well. We have found Hustler has super slutty and stuff you can wear to vanilla venues. Plunging necklines good for smaller chested for sure!

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We kinda like the slutty wear, but then again, it fits in well in South Florida. ;-)

 

From Mrs. SoFla: Try Venus online as well. We have found Hustler has super slutty and stuff you can wear to vanilla venues. Plunging necklines good for smaller chested for sure!

 

Oh, don't get me wrong, slutty wear is fun but for me I look at the prices of some of them, I could either buy 1 slutty wear outfit or I could buy 2-4 sexy vanilla dresses for the same price. The cheap greedy part of me gravitated to the more-for-your-buck option. Lol

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Well, if you want to wear a corset. Wear a corset. You'll be fine. As with all clothing, wear what you'd like as long as it fits well. As far as being modest in the breast area, just google 'padme corset' and you'll realize you'll be fine.

 

Now, I've worn everything from ready-to-fall off me clothes to really amazing dresses to a Club or House Party. Both are great and choice varies on my mood and sexual goals for that night. Yet, I have to say, being sensually unzipped out of a great dress is a thrill all its own. At least for me.

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Thanks. I am more for your buck too. I have outfits that can go either way.

I do like that pink dress. Way out if my comfort zone, but what the hell, I'd try it. One size fits most?!?!? Is that in real sizes or vanity sizes????

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That's one reason why I also don't buy clothes online...you can't try them on. If you have a fantastically fit body you probably don't have as much problems with ordering online but you just never know how it looks on your body. It looks stunning on the model but it might not sit right on your body.

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I've taken to buying short, tight dresses and wearing them sans bra and panties at lifestyle events. I too prefer to buy things that can double for a vanilla night out, and also my boobs are small so slut wear often looks great on me from the waist down but sort of sad from the waist up LOL

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We shop on Yandy almost exclusively. Good return policy and the person on the other end of the phone never judges us for the slutty stuff we buy :)

 

Rarely do we find things we like in a store, it's sad actually.

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Bring the attention to your legs and butt. I was like you and pretty repressed. My hubby kept telling me how great my legs are and my dresses got progressively shorter. I'm known as "legs" at our regular club. My belly is a little larger from bloating so I wear low cut tops that are blousy and loose with tight short skirts. I'm suggesting you bring out your best assets! Have fun and stay sexy!!!!

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