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We are going to Freedom Acres on Saturday. The theme is booty shorts and fishnets.

 

I've got my outfit picked for the theme. But, I'm hesitating. How often do the ladies participate in the theme. I realize it depends on the theme. I'm sure 'short skirts and no panties' night is easier to do.

 

Thoughts? Suggestions? Advice?

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We haven't been to that club as it's way out of our area but generally speaking the participation varies. If your worried...rest assured that people will be dressed in theme.

 

Mrs. Diggs and I go to two different socials in our area and there are several on-premise clubs within a few hours and people always dress to theme. Locals more often than people from out of town.

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I've only been to a club once, it was 50's night, and NO ONE dressed to the theme but me and my friend. We got a lot of attention because of it, though, so I am not considering it a bad thing! :)

 

With a theme like booty shorts and fishnets, I would think that a lot of people would participate since it is pretty easy to do and fun. Unless you would be really uncomfortable being the only one dressed like that, I'd do it anyway! Even if you are the ONLY person in booty shorts and fishnets, you'll look great and people will appreciate your enthusiasm. If you would feel totally awkward being the only one dressed to theme, bring your shorts and fishnets so you can change into them if other people are dressed up.

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If you would feel totally awkward being the only one dressed to theme, bring your shorts and fishnets so you can change into them if other people are dressed up.

 

This is my plan. If I was literally the ONLY one then I wouldn't. I do like the attention and so does Mr.Waiting. I'll bring an other outfit, just in case. Thanks!

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it was 50s night

 

Okay, let's qualify my post a little better. If it's a good sexy theme...people should dress it.

 

Flapper outfits are costumes and I do feel that those types of themes will result in less participation.

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Okay, let's qualify my post a little better. If it's a good sexy theme...people should dress it.

 

Flapper outfits are costumes and I do feel that those types of themes will result in less participation.

 

Agreed. And that's what I'm hoping for.

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You can make any theme sexy if you try... You have no idea how many people thought our outfits were awesome, just because we put a little effort into making the traditionally innocent poodle skirt into something appropriate. We got more attention than many other women who (in my opinion) were much more attractive and/or outgoing than we were because of them. :lol: I was glad we'd decided to dress up no matter what. It was fun for us, and it made people notice us.

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You can make any theme sexy if you try... You have no idea how many people thought our outfits were awesome, just because we put a little effort into making the traditionally innocent poodle skirt into something appropriate. We got more attention than many other women who (in my opinion) were much more attractive and/or outgoing than we were because of them. :lol: I was glad we'd decided to dress up no matter what. It was fun for us, and it made people notice us.

 

I'm sure they were awesome and we would have dressed the theme most likely with you ;) because it's what we like to do but you said that you were the only ones.

 

I was just saying that more people will dress themes like...black & white, red hot, little black dress, PJ's and Lingerie over the ones that require more of a costume...school girl always seems to be an exception :lol:

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On average, for both males and females on any given theme…. 50%

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Women are definitely much more likely than the guys to do the theme nights. I'd say overall I usually see close to 50% of the ladies doing the themes or something close to them. Some themes get more participation than others. I say if you've got it, flaunt it.

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We agree. It does seem to be about 50/50 on participation.

 

If she has an outfit that matches the theme then she will sometimes dress up. But we never go out and buy something to match the theme. Bottom line is dress in whatever makes you look and feel sexy. You will fit in and have a great time.

 

FYI- As a side note - Freedom Acres is a BIG place and great party. So if you do dress up a lot of others there will be in theme night. If you do participate, wait for judging and contest. If you don't win you will still get to show off and usually get discount passes. We went to a smaller house party once and the theme was "luau night" I wore a loud Hawaiian print shirt and she wore a nice spring floral dress. We were the only ones in theme and I felt like an ass. She looked great and fit with everyone else.That's a chance you take a smaller parties.

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