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I have a real nudity/exhibitionism fixation (perhaps a fetish), and I encourage my wife to dress as bare/sexy as she dares. I've really gotten her to push the envelope a couple of times. My lovely has gone to dinner on a cruise in a backless minidress that was bare down past the top of her ass. She rode on the back of my motorcycle down Sea Wall in Galveston in a lace crop top and a thong bikini panty.

 

Our most recent bare outing was memorial day weekend. We were working in the yard, and my wife was wearing nothing but a pair of short-legged bib overalls (This in itself is pretty typical. We could be considered "family nudists" at home, and my wife goes topless in the summer a lot. She's fairly flat-chested, and really doesn't need a bra or top for support.) But we ran short on planting mix, and she asked me to go the local garden center. I suggested she go with me, dressed the way she was. She was reluctant, but agreed. I convinced her to unbutton the buttons down the sides of her overalls at her thighs, so a careful glance would make it known that she didn't have panties on, either. On the way over, she insisted she'd stay in the truck. But once I'd gone in and paid, we pulled around back to get the bags of dirt loaded in the truck bed. She got out and stood around casually while two teen lot boys loaded them in. Their eyes just about came out of their heads. It turned me on so much I was hard all the way home.

 

So, ladies, does your man like you to show off in public? Do you do it? Do you do it for him or for yourself?

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As a truck driver, I can see down into the cars as they pass me. WOW what I can and have seen! But IF any of you ladies want/need to drive around with your tops off/down, don't let me stop you. The truckers out here love to see a sexy lady / bare breast / long legs... all I will say is KEEP IT UP!

 

Thanks for the little peek... truckerbuddy

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mrs tada here tonight

 

Let me expand on this one. I can't say that I get turned on by strutting myself in risque clothes. but I can't do the sultry striptease or booty dancing that guys like. It just looks silly and awkward. But standing around with a nipple showing, casual like, that I can do. It gets my honey very eager to please me, which makes it worthwhile. I would be more than happy to indulge my husband's desire to see me strut my stuff more often, but my hesitation about wearing risque outfits is four things:

 

1. I'm not all that sexy. I'm thin and firm enough, but I have a bad complexion especially the parts that don't get enough sun. That is why I try to tan topless a lot in the summer time. I also don't have big tits.

 

2. I don't want to get arrested. Not that I'd care, but my employer might.

 

3. I don't want to run into anybody I know, like one of my daughter's friend's parents. There are some truly small-minded people around my town and I don't want that to have a negative impact on my daughter.

 

4. I don't want guys to think that I am open game or a whore.

 

Like I said, it's not a sexual turn-on for me, but in the right environment, I love to wear something that will shock everybody in a nuclear blast radius just purely for the fun of the shock value and the ego stroke of being able to steal all the other women's husbands' attention.

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At our house parties groups, I will get into the pool topless, but I always have to have my lace bottoms on.

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I feel there's a level of bare that's appropriate to each situation. I wouldn't wear a micromini to a wedding. I wouldn't wear a long dress to a hot tub party. On "pasties night" at Entre Nous in DC, I wore pasties. On a boat in the Bahamas with three other lifestyle couples, I was nude much of the time.

 

But in public, vanilla situations, showing much boob or too much leg or even torso gives people the idea that you are loose and want sexual attention from anyone. So I tend to cover up, though my clothes are sometimes form-fitting.

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I'm with The Fuse on this one. I try to dress appropriately for the situation. If I'm going to a Meet & Greet, yeah, I'll wear a skirt that barely covers my arse and a lowcut/see through top. No biggie.

 

If I'm going out on the town, I might wear a low-cut blouse and tight jeans or a mini skirt, but I'll be covered. (Well, mostly) ;)

 

For work, I have to be fairly conservative, so I often wear camis under the same tops I'd wear "out on the town".

 

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I tend to be with the Fuse and Sweet_tna. Pet and I even had a discussion about this recently. There's what I'm comfortable in in a lifestyle environment, then there's what I'm comfortable in in general. If we are out of town, I'm more likely to dress a little more provocative. If we are at a social, club, swinger party (or vanilla party at the home of open-minded people) I am willing to bare more.

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I agree with The Fuse as well.

 

While I do fantasize a lot about me and my girlfriend going to, like, a nudist beach, or at a family cabin naked on the beach, I wouldn't want her to be like such in public, because I don't want her to look... ya know lol.

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In public, I tend to go with, what would make my mother (the ultimate vanilla innocent) uncomfortable? That is, not what she wouldn't want her daughter to be wearing, but what would make her uncomfortable to see in general? I don't think that I have the right to impose personal fetishes for public exposure on an unsuspecting public. (actually I don't have said fetishes, possibly because of above thought process. My husband does to a certain extent, but he wouldn't try to get me to oblige, because he knows how I feel)) Now at the club... underwear? We don't need no underwear!!

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I too agree with The Fuse... and let's add age appropriateness too??? I think that is what PB&J was getting at...yes? And clubwear? I wear as little as possible... I don't want to keep putting things on and taking them off again!!!! Things that tie are good!! :lol:

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I'm with everyone else here, you have to dress according to the situation and where you are going. There are always times when the bare necessities are more desirable.

 

Generally the wife will cover herself pretty good. If we go to the beach or something she will wear a skimpy bikini, but not too skimpy (it's family oriented), but if we go to a club or something that is adult-only she will wear e a short dress or short skirt, and often times does not wear any underwear or bra depending on the top and/or bottoms.

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I'm all for this kinda stuff, as I actually push my wife to dress and risque and as freaky as she can... I actually buy most of her outfits for her ;)

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Just to clarify after rereading the responses, my dear hubby was not really after what you would be willing to wear to a lifestyle event or private club, but out in public, where the general public could see you. I am torn...my mind doesn't go there much on my own, but when he talks me into showing off, it always ends up being a turn-on.

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In almost any city in the US, public nudity is frowned upon. But in San Francisco, there's guys and girls that regularly go to parks or even cafes in certain areas (think The Castro) who bare it all. If I lived there, would I join them? Very possibly.

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We live in Florida so by most standards its always late spring or summer. When we go out to dinner Mrs Doc often wears JUST a sundress and heels. She wears a bra and panties to work. Socializing, she dresses tastefully but generally goes sans undergarments. I Love it!

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This was taken just before we went out with friends on a Saturday night in November.

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Really depends on the season and location!

 

Rather cold most times of the year where we are, but during summer it's great (as brief as it is!)

 

Below is what you could say would be the absolute minimum during summer (only!) depending on location :)

 

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Oh and nude beach, as per profile pic :)

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I have taken the opposite approach to blatant displays. My husband has never asked me to be an exhibitionist and I have found that subtle peeks have more affect on men in any setting. Unless I am out recreating, camping, at the beach, etc., I always dress to be available. I even do the same on dates and parties. I do the same at family gatherings...no difference. How do I do it? I wear clothing that I can adjust to give a little peek or clothing that is classy, yet transparent. I have a collection of beautiful semi-transparent blouses that with a fancy bra underneath, are completely appropriate, yet innocently suggestive. If I want to tease or attract a man, I give them a peek and enjoy their reactions and sometimes erections. I have practiced and have become an expert at allowing my skirt to ride up a little high, a dress to open on my thighs, or allow a nipple to peek out. I know how to swivel around in a bar stool or get up from a lounge chair and give a hint. I can do it without shame and behave as though nothing has happened. At work I have a little bit of fun teasing the men. I have a glass windowed office front and if I sit and allow my skirt to ride up a little high, it won't be long before a parade of men will pass by and think they are all clever. They must be instant messaging each other! lol

 

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Sometimes, sure :D usually it’s something very low cut, thin and clingy. Lots of times if we’re in a hotel or on a cruise he or I will pull my shirt up in the window or on the balcony and he’ll squeeze and jiggle and play with my tits or make me suck them...:blush: Huge turn on for both of us!

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Right there with you - I’m all about the teasing and “accidental” slips when we are out in public. I enjoy flashing my pussy or a nipple as much as I know the boys like seeing it. The next level is at the nude beach where most of the women are at least topless. I do tend to go a bit further and stand while I undress. Many women will sit and slide off their bottoms. I’m also not shy while sitting - if I know some gawkers are around, I’ll open my legs and give them what they came for. Many times I’ll go up to them and ask for a drink and sit with them. In the club - forget about it. I am all about being slutty as hell and leave nothing behind - I am a hopeless exhibitionist!

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I’ve always been a bit of an exhibitionist and have become more so as I mature. And now my hubby, my 2nd hubby, is extremely good at getting me to exploit my condition. Certainly it has to be place appropriate. What I wear to a mall is not the same as what I would wear to a bar at night. Someone mentioned age appropriateness and my feathers ruffled, I would say be more concerned about body appropriateness and I’m sure in this day and age I am ruffling the feathers of others who are perhaps far younger than I. Sometimes its braless, sometimes it’s a bra that helps me show an abundance of cleavage. I’ve stocked-up on thong underwear as the style seems to be moving back to 50’s stuff. I preseve that stock pile by stretching the commando trend. I have never enjoyed panty hose, it’s thigh highs or none most of the time. I believe they put those lacey tops on thigh highs so a girl can show them when sitting on a bar stool. I’m short enough that I have to cliimb on and off barstools and when I do, guys get a clear understanding of my fashion choices and enjoy that I smile during their discovery.

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I've often wondered why I enjoy a peek at a breast when a gal bends over or a glance at an inner leg high on a thigh is so much sexier than girls at the beach with thong bikinis that show their entire butts. But it's true, at least for me.

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I've often wondered why I enjoy a peek at a breast when a gal bends over or a glance at an inner leg high on a thigh is so much sexier than girls at the beach with thong bikinis that show their entire butts. But it's true, at least for me.

 

For me, it's the unexpectedness of it. I remember one time I was at some friends house with my wife, and the other wife went into the bedroom to change before we went someplace. She walked past the slightly ajar door, I got a glimpse of her in her bra, instant erection!

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I've often wondered why I enjoy a peek at a breast when a gal bends over or a glance at an inner leg high on a thigh is so much sexier than girls at the beach with thong bikinis that show their entire butts. But it's true, at least for me.

 

When I was an undergraduate in the late 1960s one of my roommates and I were walking down a street adjacent to the campus when a couple approached us from the opposite direction. The woman had a loose-fitting dress with big cutouts at the arm and no bra. We got a full view of her side-breast, including nipple. And my roommate walked directly into a parking meter... :lol:

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Now most of you are probably not old enough to remember a TV ad from the 60's for girdles. Heck, do they even still sell girdles? But the ad had a line in it that was something like, "this girdle is killing me".

 

Well, I was at a party and a gal who bartended the NCO club stag bar was there. And, I might ad, she was darn cute. Well, she had been sitting in a position that showed her legs up to her girdle. After a few drinks I smiled and said, "Iris, your girdle is killing me". Everyone laughed and Iris simply grinned and showed more.

 

And, the best part is that I got to help her get out of that girdle later that night.

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We women in our poly family dress on the conservative side in public. I do, however, love going naked in spas that I occasionally visit when in Europe. It's not a sexual thing, there are old people and kids there, and that's why I like it - unabashed nudity among people who enjoy such a thing.

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Went shopping yesterday and went to several clothing stores. She intentionally left the curtain open just enough so people could see her changing. I stayed back so I could watch reactions. Fun time!

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For us, latex bikini. Total turn on knowing she’s basically walking around naked but not obvious to the world. Enjoyed watching her interact with people and watching their eyes. Ton of fun!! Highly recommended to all.

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I'm with you on this subject. My boyfriend encourages me to exploit situations, like bars and beaches. My micro spandex dresses barely cover standing, so a bar stool...getting on and off, or even sitting on it without crossing my legs bares quite enough for the men.

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I do love doing that. We were out this weekend and I had my pussy on full display several times. It’s also an incredible rush for me when I undress at the nude beach. It’s a mix of true nudists, swingers and total voyeurs. It’s pretty easy to discern who is who, so we always hang close to the voyeurs. They are usually single guys. Just love baring all for them and pretending to ignore them watching me. If he’s hot, i’ll go out of my way to make sure he gets a full view of what he came for. Hubby loves doing the same for the gay men or swinger wives.

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I have one micro dress with a barely there halter top. When I really need an ego boost, I'll wear it to a bar or a dance club with Scott. He whispers encouraging words in my ear during the first dance or two while pulling on my dress subtly. I ignore this innocently going back to our table. When other guys invite me to dance, I get up and go with them as is and they work me toward a dark corner. That's when their hands explore aggressively and I act shocked at their boldness. :-)))

I gently tell them to act like a gentleman and they usually do a slow retreat with wet fingers. Then, I continue to dance with them, and they tell me what they want to do with me. I always excuse their boldness for having too much alcohol.

After an evening of this with several guys I'm ready for a lot of action. with Scott.

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I love to show off, but now it doesn't seem to be suck a big thing. I have seen young women at the stores wearing leggings and other attire that is more than nude. it is like their clothes are painted on. I don't have the figure for that or I would do it also.

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Whenever we’re in Ft Lauderdale, I go to this out of the way bathing suit shop. The last time we went in there, it was early in the day and the woman that runs it wasn’t there but her husband came in from the attached tattoo place next door and waited on me. I left the curtain open so my husband could see and went I sent him to get a larger size, he surprised me by handing it to the tatoo guy to bring back to me. When I heard his voice and turned, I was totally nude so he saw me so at that point, even walked over to the racks myself, still nude. As we left, my husband was nice enough to point out the video cameras around the store and the fact that there were 5 guys in the tattoo parlor probably watching the entire episode. I was happy that I could hold their interest.

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I love to show off, but now it doesn't seem to be suck a big thing. I have seen young women at the stores wearing leggings and other attire that is more than nude. it is like their clothes are painted on. I don't have the figure for that or I would do it also.

 

 

Have you ever gotten body painted and then walked the beach? I did once in Oregon on a topless/nude beach for adults only. With a tiny painted on thong and tiny flower-like images around my nipples, I slowly walked the length from one end to the other.

 

I was invited to play beach volleyball with some college guys and gals, and did. What a rush. :)

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To me, a lot of it depends on where I am going. I’m more likely to be more bare far from home, somewhat so on weekends away, way more so if in FL or Vegas or such. Even at home, I will go out with way less on if we are going to a casino, for example, then a local bar. At a casino for example, nipples can show, and skirt so short that the guy on the bar stool next to us and or the bartender can see my name pubs or more. Afterall, we’re all adult there, and nothing requires that they look except their own interest.

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If we go to a club (swinger club, strip club, or just a regular dance club or bar) my GF will usually dress very provocatively. After a few drinks she'll strip down even more. She has gone topless at a strip club before, which isn't such a big deal given the environment. But she has been at a dance club where she was essentially stripped down into a bra and thong dancing with a bunch of guys and that was much hotter to me.

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We have gotten to where we enjoy going to casinos rather than just bars. They are all adults so I feel that I can dress more sexy there, very short dresses and skirts, some so much so I notice my girl parts are peaking out when I’m on the bar stools and I’m ok with that because it is all adult. Here in the midwest, it works out nicely in the winter; you can go up to your hotel room, dress sexy, wear sexy shoes and walk down to the casino part without boots, coats etc. And then, the real plus, you have the room incase you make new friends.

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In public and in the mood to tease or attract a man, I'll just wear very feminine clothing...stockings, heels, and a skirt or dress with a hemline that I can use in a clever way. I have become very good at giving men a subtle peek up my skirt.

 

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Last time I went to a club I wore this!  The high slit makes it clear I'm not sporting any panties.  

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