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  1. 1. width vs length

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    • don't care, just gimmie it
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Width! Anything longer than 6 inches hits bottom and HURTS! But, to be stretched and filled by a thick one. Ahhh!

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I can pass along the opinion of my wife who has been out spoken on this subject for all of the time we have been swinging: THICK is better.

 

As somebody above said, anything longer than about 6 inches hits bottom and is uncomfortable. On the other hand, she has never been overstretched width-wise. It just feels good.

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Our lady votes GIRTH... she has deflated the ego of many guys overly-impressed with their 3rd legs by pointing out that she likes her uterus exactly where it is! :lol:

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Girthy, please! I'm with a lot of the other ladies so far...too much length = pain...and by too much I mean really anything over 6-7".

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I love watching a lady enjoy a large one, and give her a thick one if you have to choose between length or thickness.

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I voted width but length with width is very nice although I do know that there is a limited to the length each woman can take :blush:

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Ideally long and thick! Since we have to choose.....girth. You might not hit the bottom but it sure feels good to rub the hell out of the sides.

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interested-05 said:
so how thick is thick?

 

According to the average size penis, which is 4.9" in circumference, anything more than that is "thicker than average".

 

I'll take a stab at your question just to see if I can lull some women into complementing, but I'd say that anything over 5.5" in circumference could be considered thick.

 

If not, 6" + in cirucumference should certainly be considered thick. 6.28" in circumference equates to 2" in diameter.

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I've measured the depth of a few women's vaginas with a fairly rigid vibrator, and most of them were really 6.5". One was a little shallower near 6", and at the other end, one appeared to be just below 7" deep.

 

Still, a bit of penis length is lost "between" the bodies so to speak. So if a woman enjoys the feeling of her lover "bottoming out", 6" generally doesn't do it.

 

Width is still the king when polling groups.

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I guess at 6 3/4" long and 5" girth I must be a pretty decent size. Only thing I am sure of, is a standard size condom is too tight, and bumping a cervix is reallly hot.

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LOL... this post is attracting some bizarre replies!

 

Wife says width (which I knew, but asked anyway to ensure accuracy)

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You see, there's nothing wrong with a lady saying that a thicker than average penis is a treat.

 

I wish that people could accept that point of view while still understanding that women don't choose a life-partner based on the size of his penis.

 

All too often the one-sided opinion that size doesn't matter is expected to cover all situations.

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GoNatural said:
You see, there's nothing wrong with a lady saying that a thicker than average penis is a treat.

 

I wish that people could accept that point of view while still understanding that women don't choose a life-partner based on the size of his penis.

 

All too often the one-sided opinion that size doesn't matter is expected to cover all situations.

 

This is a great point. Size clearly matters within certain ranges (differing by woman), but none of that means that a guy needs to feel threatened that the minute she finds a "bigger" guy she's gone. LOL. Women, like men, can be satisfied and completely fulfilled by lots of different things.

 

Guys do need to give women more credit in this area, but this is one of the MANY areas where its hard for a guy to be rationale :)

 

Maybe this is why LS guys are more secure in this area (I think they seem to be on avg)? Because its been tested. Like, "she's had bigger, but she's still here"

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