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Forum: Discretion and Swinging

Discretion is important to swingers. How to be in the swinging lifestyle and still maintain a level of discretion for yourself and others.

  1. Exclamation [A] Ever been surprised running into people you know?

    by ALilOEverything, 08-24-2004 03:14 PM
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    discretion, someone you know
    • Replies: 53
    • Views: 14,084
    09-12-2012, 08:12 PM Go to last post
  2. Discretion & You

    by JustAskJulie, 06-01-2006 10:52 AM
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    discretion, personal information, photos, screennames, swinger profiles
    • Replies: 63
    • Views: 9,990
    12-02-2008, 03:46 AM Go to last post
  3. Potential of Blackmail and Swinging

    by nvrgesus2, 08-10-2005 08:21 PM
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    being outted, blackmail, discretion, drama, negatives of swinging
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 9,778
    08-20-2005, 12:23 PM Go to last post
  4. Require the ultimate in discretion

    by disturbed, 07-25-2006 09:50 PM
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    discretion
    • Replies: 57
    • Views: 8,437
    11-12-2006, 09:20 PM Go to last post
  5. Question How Discreet Are You

    by JustAskJulie, 08-14-2001 07:46 PM
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    discretion
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 8,102
    01-15-2003, 02:09 AM Go to last post
  6. Being Outed

    by rtb111, 04-17-2008 12:06 PM
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    being outted, discretion, outted
    • Replies: 41
    • Views: 7,738
    07-17-2008, 05:14 PM Go to last post
  7. Should we tell our doctor?

    by NandTfromCA, 02-24-2006 11:53 AM
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    doctor, honesty, viagra
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 7,729
    02-23-2007, 09:32 AM Go to last post
  8. Outed before we started

    by AdamInEve, 11-01-2007 10:15 AM
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    divorce, drama, friendship and swinging, outted
    • Replies: 38
    • Views: 7,284
    11-11-2007, 02:41 PM Go to last post
  9. Is your hobby really worth the risks?

    by VegasLee, 02-14-2008 01:00 PM
    risks
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 6,839
    05-19-2009, 09:34 AM Go to last post
  10. Telling people about the lifestyle.

    by couplefromma, 08-09-2004 11:27 AM
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    communication, discretion, friendship and swinging
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 6,718
    12-13-2005, 04:44 PM Go to last post
  11. Out of the closet?

    by BradAndJanet, 09-18-2003 05:39 PM
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    discretion, outted
    • Replies: 42
    • Views: 6,547
    01-02-2004, 10:44 PM Go to last post
  12. Ever met anyone you know?

    by grabbyzz, 10-15-2009 06:52 PM
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    discretion, people from the past
    • Replies: 33
    • Views: 6,151
    03-08-2011, 12:53 PM Go to last post
  13. The neighbors are Swingers! Help!

    by northindycpl, 01-29-2005 08:36 AM
    neighbors
    • Replies: 17
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    02-07-2005, 02:31 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 5,805
    04-29-2003, 10:21 AM Go to last post
  14. Sharing Pictures

    by OhioCouple, 08-22-2003 09:54 AM
    discretion, photos
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 5,648
    08-24-2003, 01:20 PM Go to last post
  15. Listening to vanillas diss those crazy swingers

    by ohash01, 01-01-2007 01:23 PM
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    vanilla
    • Replies: 43
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    11-03-2008, 02:29 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 5,519
    01-29-2004, 04:55 PM Go to last post
  16. Question Would you stop swinging if discovered?

    by ALilOEverything, 12-05-2004 08:23 PM
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    discretion, outted
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 5,343
    08-23-2009, 05:25 AM Go to last post
  17. Rumor mill - we're in it....

    by Trace Ekies, 05-29-2010 08:40 AM
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    being outted
    • Replies: 28
    • Views: 5,289
    06-06-2010, 06:45 PM Go to last post
  18. Pathological Discretion

    by Spoomonkey, 11-14-2005 08:21 PM
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    discretion, good experience
    • Replies: 31
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    11-16-2005, 09:23 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 5,092
    04-03-2005, 05:28 PM Go to last post
  19. Question Protecting Your Identity

    by OhioCouple, 11-05-2002 07:36 AM
    discretion, fake names, honesty, personal information
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 4,974
    06-13-2005, 03:06 PM Go to last post
  20. I heard they are swingers....

    by JustAskJulie, 02-01-2007 12:05 AM
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    discretion
    • Replies: 31
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    11-14-2008, 08:21 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 4,894
    11-18-2007, 10:13 PM Go to last post
  21. Swingers at straight parties

    by JustAskJulie, 01-02-2006 12:26 PM
    discretion, mixing friends, vanilla
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 4,889
    01-09-2006, 09:41 PM Go to last post
  22. A little too open....

    by JustAskJulie, 09-25-2003 10:06 PM
    discretion
    • Replies: 21
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    05-22-2004, 11:18 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 4,775
    09-15-2008, 09:18 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 4,739
    02-23-2010, 10:05 AM Go to last post
  23. Posting Pictures..... NO!

    by BiCoupleTN69, 07-15-2003 04:24 PM
    blackmail, discretion, posting pictures
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 4,692
    07-27-2003, 12:37 PM Go to last post
  24. Question How "out" are you?

    by SagaCapt, 02-22-2002 07:37 PM
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    discretion
    • Replies: 30
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    03-12-2004, 05:20 PM Go to last post
  25. Do you keep a list of who you've played with?

    by JustAskJulie, 11-15-2005 06:38 PM
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    address book, discretion, journal, past experiences
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 4,657
    11-17-2005, 06:04 PM Go to last post
  26. Reputations

    by screaminggood, 02-09-2009 10:55 AM
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    discretion
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    02-16-2009, 05:43 PM Go to last post
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    04-17-2003, 05:05 PM Go to last post
  27. Would you say anything?

    by TNT, 10-01-2008 11:00 AM
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    discretion
    • Replies: 42
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    10-11-2008, 01:06 PM Go to last post
  28. Always CLOSE Your E-mail

    by sweetgirlknows, 10-10-2012 08:46 PM
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    discretion, privacy
    • Replies: 29
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    11-15-2012, 03:48 PM Go to last post
  29. People You SHOULD NEVER Swing With

    by JustAskJulie, 05-07-2012 06:19 PM
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    friendship and swinging, people from the past, people to avoid, swing partners
    • Replies: 41
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    05-15-2012, 07:40 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 4,460
    11-07-2004, 08:08 AM Go to last post
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    • Views: 4,436
    04-11-2010, 04:00 AM Go to last post
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    01-27-2005, 07:31 PM Go to last post
  30. Learning too much about your swinging playmates

    by JustAskJulie, 09-19-2005 07:57 PM
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    discretion, history
    • Replies: 29
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    09-26-2005, 05:02 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
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    01-25-2012, 01:34 AM Go to last post
  31. Men and Fake Sexuality vs Swinging

    by cplnuswing, 12-17-2009 11:43 PM
    discretion
    • Replies: 22
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    05-24-2010, 01:09 AM Go to last post
  32. Discretion

    by OhioCouple, 08-22-2003 09:25 AM
    discretion, expectations
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 4,135
    08-24-2003, 11:53 AM Go to last post
  33. [A] Swinging With Cameras Present

    by MrkLin, 03-11-2009 03:44 PM
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    cameras, photos, pictures during play
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 4,131
    03-23-2009, 07:33 AM Go to last post
  34. Privacy issues at Clubs

    by zztx1, 02-23-2004 03:42 AM
    discretion, personal information, privacy, swinger clubs
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 4,067
    01-03-2007, 06:46 PM Go to last post
  35. Do you exchange last names? If so, when?

    by The Fuse, 07-27-2006 04:34 PM
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    discretion, personal information
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    05-31-2008, 11:21 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,891
    07-23-2011, 04:08 AM Go to last post
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    02-07-2003, 03:02 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,828
    02-26-2013, 01:25 PM Go to last post
  36. The Power of Disappointment

    by Spoomonkey, 06-19-2004 01:59 PM
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    discretion, finding others online, respect, single males
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 3,775
    09-03-2004, 02:51 PM Go to last post

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