How do I get started?

I am new to this. I love sex and would love to get into this lifestyle. I enjoy pleasing my partners.

Get a girlfriend.

I am new to this. . .

I’ll give you the same advice that I give to most people who are new to swing. Go out to see and to be seen. Dates and locations of meet-and-greet events and club parties can be found at Web sites like SLS and SZC. Some clubs allow single men. Due diligence reading the forums here at Swingersboard will also provide clues.

Thank you for sharing, hope my wife is ready for a party

Get a girlfriend.

@Eyelike2pleaseu, if you think your social connections are vanillas, try getting a gf or buddy for swinging on Swingers' sites, like SLS or Aff. Same advice for single F. When I tried it first time and didnt want my friends to know abt it, I looked for a single M in a site and found a FWB which became my swing buddy. For single F, it is safer to have a swing buddy (if u cant find a bf open to it) if you want to explore more. If single M, it can jumpstart your lifestyle experience than being solo. My 2 cents.

Read this forum and also what padoc said.

Join some of the swing sites, like Swing Life Style or Swinger Date Club, put up an enticing profile with some good photos showing your body and cock, and seek out swing friends in your area, single women (very few available) and couples who want an MFM. Send them well written messages and include a face photo. Answer any message replies and work, gently , toward meeting them. Suggest a first meeting in a restaurant with the proviso that if you have chemistry, go to a nearby hotel and have sex. Pay for the meal and the hotel room. After all, you are getting the prize, sex with the gal. There many couples who like to have a well build male with a nice cock join them for several hours of sex. Good luck!

Get out of the house and enjoy a club, house parties, circulate, make friends etc.

Join some of the swing sites, like Swing Life Style or Swinger Date Club, put up an enticing profile with some good photos showing your body and cock, and seek out swing friends in your area, single women (very few available) and couples who want an MFM. Send them well written messages and include a face photo. Answer any message replies and work, gently , toward meeting them. Suggest a first meeting in a restaurant with the proviso that if you have chemistry, go to a nearby hotel and have sex. Pay for the meal and the hotel room. After all, you are getting the prize, sex with the gal. There many couples who like to have a well build male with a nice cock join them for several hours of sex. Good luck!

Great advice. We are SLS lifetime members. Although we rarely meet single men, we have three minimum requirements 1)public pictures 2) paid profile 3) certification by other member(s) SLS seems to have increased the number of single men over the last few years so you really need something besides a dick pic and a profile that has “I wanna fuck,” under every heading.

If given the opportunity to meet a couple of single lady, be confident, articulate without being over complimentary or arrogant. We enjoy meeting regular guys who are funny and can carry on a conversation more than a hard body who is socially awkward or treats us as if we are getting the prize.

We also like the advice of local “munches,” off premesis parties, or social meet and greets to get you feet wet without pressure.

Great advice