Age concern

Very new to this.Wife 58,me 64.Are there many older couples on this site?Are we to old to start?

We are both 61, started around 5 years ago. Wish we started earlier, but it is what it is. We play about once a month on average, more on cruises. We could play every week if we wanted to. As long as your stuff works to some degree, even with vitamin V, you are not too old.

What state is Lincoln in?

Assuming you are generally HWP and reasonable looking, you should be able to find playmates, unless you're too picky.

Nebraska? I am a Cornhusker alumnus.

Nebraska? I am a Cornhusker alumnus.

Me too. GBR

OP, we are almost exactly your age. As someone said above, if you're h/w/p, reasonably attractive, reasonably functional, open and playful, it's NOT too late to start. We've found in the last 5 years or so that our opportunities to meet people like we just described are a bit fewer than a decade ago, those we have found are more fun and with less drama than those we met when we started. We have found that the club scene has somewhat lost its allure, although we still try to get to Trapeze a few times a year. We may not be having as much swinger fun than we did in 2003 but we think its better. On top of that, the music in the back round has a tune and isn't turned to max volume and we and our friends don't have to wait till after 2:00 am to get naked. Get on a paid swinger site or two and set your search parameters for plus/minus 5 years of one of your ages. You'll be surprised at the number of couples available.

I am 70 and my friends are both 70. She and I have some curves.

Me too. GBR

Gooooooo BIIIIIIG REDDDDD!!!

GO BIG RED!!!

As a former Okie, I miss the Thanksgiving rivalry between Nebraska and OU. I was at the 1972 game, at the time the game of the century, and also the 2000 game that led to OU's last championship. Scott Frost is a great coach and he'll get Nebraska back where they belong.

Oh, and back to the question of the thread, I live a few miles from The Villages in Florida. Hundreds of swingers over 60 there!

I’m very new to even the idea of swinging but the thought does excite me. I’m 64 as well and definitely not dead yet! Don’t let age hold you back. Enjoy life and spread your wings.

As a former Okie, I miss the Thanksgiving rivalry between Nebraska and OU. I was at the 1972 game, at the time the game of the century, and also the 2000 game that led to OU's last championship. Scott Frost is a great coach and he'll get Nebraska back where they belong.

 

Oh, and back to the question of the thread, I live a few miles from The Villages in Florida. Hundreds of swingers over 60 there!

I miss those days as well. I'm a fairweather Husker fan; I root for them when they don't suck. Been a long time...

I miss those days as well. I'm a fairweather Husker fan; I root for them when they don't suck. Been a long time...

Better find your gear then Bacon... they’re gonna be pretty good this next year. Mark my words... 9-3 or 10-2

Never to old to start, although age sometimes makes it necessary to talk to your playmates as it just takes a little longer to recharge.

Better find your gear then Bacon... they’re gonna be pretty good this next year. Mark my words... 9-3 or 10-2

Can't wait to see that day. Have you ever been to the on premises club in Omaha?

We have matured in the life style. It is what you make of it. We’re both 60. Reasonably fit and fun. We certainly are not 30 any more. I can say our experiences include all ages. It is all in the mindset of each individual. I have enjoyed some great times with women around my age, as well as a few much younger....and some much older. I was driven to exhaustion by a 72 year old woman when I was 52. I am sixty and have a few regular playmates that are mid thirties....and one under 30. The Queen....Mrs Billgoat.....has mostly experienced the same. Women in the lifestyle control who and when they wish to play and rarely get turned down. Be adventurous. If you have good humor, personality and can hold a conversation you will have playmates. All in your expectations. Keep your options open. Attend house partie....private club parties....parties that are a mix of ages and people. Avoid those that are heavily attended by single males. Go for conversation....social....the rest will happen on its own. Make sure you have practiced your skills....being practiced in giving pleasure is the big seller in being popular.

you are never to old… have fun..

Better find your gear then Bacon... they’re gonna be pretty good this next year. Mark my words... 9-3 or 10-2

I agree! Scott will certainly get Nebraska back. And, hey, just a couple of years until there's a home and away with their old Big 8/12 rival!

I would think you will find many your age. People will normally play with people 10 years plus or minus. Don’t expect to play with a 30 year old though it’s not a definite no. Have fun.

I’m 58. Just wondering how often you “play”. Are you into threesomes or just swapping?

Wow, a 72 year old woman. What did she do to you?! ?