First time couple, not sure how to start

My husband, and I are new to this. We aren’t really sure how to go about doing this. I’m a bigger woman (size 17), and that kinda stops us from going to the swingers club. Any ideas, or suggestions? Does anyone meet up off this site? We live in Las Vegas.

I took a look at your pics. “WOW!!” Your tits are beautiful! You don’t look large to me. But I like a woman with a little extra. Your husband is a lucky man. I would go ahead and try the clubs. I’m sure you’ll have no problem attracting some eager gentleman to help your husband take care of you like you deserve. Just wish I could be that guy. Good luck.

You would be welcome at any gathering. If you want to date online just be open about your size. You will be amazed at the men who dream of meeting someone like you.

Thank you ☺️ If you are ever in Las Vegas, look us up .

we were just in vegas over thanksgiving. looks like you just signed up so we missed you, maybe next time.

Actually, that you think you are a 'bigger' woman is the exact reason you NEED to go to a club. Too many people think that they can't swing (or are hesitant to start) because of some self perceived body issue. Once you finally get out and look, you will quickly find that you are not the 'worst' person (or couple) out there...the others are not just the 'pretty people', but people just like you. The second thing you will find is that there are people that are still interested in you (believe it or not ). There are dozens of threads here (search is your friend) that will show the same thing. Once you overcome whatever 'issue' you think you have and go out and look, you will realize that you are just fine and that others don't even notice some of the 'deal breakers' you thought you had. Swinging is one of the greatest things that can happen to ones own self worth. The only proplem is you won't really believe until you try...so try already (and thank me later). Good luck and let us know how you are doing.

Thank you. We will definitely go to one

Dang timing haha. Definitely next time

I posted earlier on. In my opinion there is more to being sexy other than size and beauty. A woman can be a”10” and not be sexy. I think a lot has to do with attitude. The brain is a major factor in being”sexy”. Confidence is paramount. I think most men want an aggressive partner who is really an active participant in playing. I myself am more interested in a partner who is really into aggressive play. A woman who is extremely beautiful but is not really into what’s happening doesn’t give me a “woody” Be positive about yourself. From what I saw of your photos you are a beautiful hot woman. Act sexy and you will be sexy. You’ll get more men interested in you than you think. This is all just my opinion of course.

Beauty is something that is only on the outside...skin deep if you will. Sexy is something that a confident woman projects outward from deep inside and rarely has anything to do with the skin. As rdy2go already said, a woman can be a 10 based on looks but not be sexy. I don't agree with the 'aggressive' part, however. A woman can be sexy and not be aggressive. That's one of the reasons we don't put too much faith in photos...sexy can't be photographed very easily, it's something that only really shows itself in person.

I totally agree with what others are saying here, I can't get behind that enough! Confidence is much sexier than a sexy body. I look around the clubs and watch who people are watching.... yes, they look at and admire that Barbie Doll, but she does not get approached very often. It's the average looking people, the slightly 'overweight' women who are laughing and dancing with confidence, the ones that are bold enough to catch someone's eye and flirt just a little. The voluptuous vixen who is dancing provocatively, smiling that sexy smile like she's got a secret, and who (I'll say it again) makes eye contact with those she is attracted to. Those are the guys who have been 'given permission' to approach and chat her up that actually do so.

So learn your body, watch what other successful attendees are doing to get noticed, trust that there is someone out there that thinks you are hot! (even if it's just your hubby!) and enjoy your evening out. If no one approaches, feel free to chat others up and flirt a little. That's confidence too. And confidence is sexy!

And btw, I'm a size 18-20 (I fluxuate a lot in size) and while not everyone is into plus sized lovers, there are plenty to go around.

And lastly, there are BBW swinger sites out there where you are guaranteed to find 'chubby chasers' and "BBW Lovers'. I found I was on the low end of that spectrum but got way more love and likes there than on a regular swinger site. (BBW = Big Beautiful Woman)

Have fun!!

By no means are you in,what we consider, the BBW category, yes you, like the rest of us, carry a couple of extra love handles. That is almost the normal now. We have been this life style for over 20 years and have found that it is the person that is attractive, not necessarily the body. Live on and enjoy

you live in vegas go to the red rooster, unless they have changed in the last few years, you should have a good time. no pressure, i recommend fri. sat. nights, just go and check it out.

Hi! We are coming in to Vegas 1/2-1/7 and are also a bigger couple. We are trying to choose a resort on the strip that may be better than the others for lifestyle fun. Also....you have nothing to worry about! You would be welcome at any swing function!

Hello Vegasgal92, are you still interested in finding a local gentleman to play with? I live in town and actually prefer my lover to not be paper thin.