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    Default What is it like guys?

    Still waiting for my chance to come off the bench and play one year in. Guys what was it like for you the first time you entered a woman with your wife right there in the same room? Were you nervous, excited, worried your wife would get jealous, etc.?
    Still waiting for that elusive 3some. Still waiting for that elusive first play session.


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    Damn yes I was nervous. Our first time was more about my wife. I wanted to watch her, but with a woman. We ended up with a couple. I didn’t know how I would react watching my wife. For me being with another woman in front of my wife I worried about getting an erection. That fear disapppeared because I was pretty hard. I worried about going off too fast. My first was younger and very attractive so I worried how she looked at me. My wife was very supportive. I was way more nervous than her.

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    We had been careful to agree that we'd keep intercourse off the table until we'd had another talk, and we had always had a pretty clear understanding of each other's views and put oral on the table without further discussion. When it came down to it, Mrs. E had gotten started sucking another cock about ten feet away, and now there was another woman taking me into her mouth. Definitely wasn't nervous, but certainly a little overwhelmed/overstimulated.

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    Well someone entered her first, that was the "gulp" of the day. I think she was very happy when I was next to her with someone else enjoying myself but showing how happy I was for her.

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    It is like any new encounter with the opposite sex.

    What does she like?
    Will it stay hard?
    Will I get off too fast?
    Will I get her off?

    add the element of the same room and your other half is having a blast:

    Stay focused on my play partner
    Do not blow a nut hearing my other half get off, before my play partner is ready
    Enjoy hearing her enjoy herself

    All in all it is nervous good time with the extra element of something new while something you love an know being in the same room.

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    We were seduced by our best friends, so we were both having too much fun, my wife with him and me with his wife, to notice that much. Actually since it was not planned, but we are all nudists so we were all on the carpeted floor nude, I looked over to my wife and my friend going at it. I nodded to his wife, whom I was massaging at the time. She had a little smile on her face so I went from a straight massage to foreplay and intercourse. A great time was had by all. We have never had any regrets or jealousy issues, and it really opened up our sex lives. Afterwards my friend's wife whispered to me that her husband had wanted to have sex with my wife for years.

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    Never been married but have taken pleasure is seeing my girl friends having a good fuck with another man, or woman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MixxedCpl360 View Post
    Still waiting for my chance to come off the bench and play one year in. Guys what was it like for you the first time you entered a woman with your wife right there in the same room? Were you nervous, excited, worried your wife would get jealous, etc.?
    I was happy. Any nervousness or worry was overwhelmed by the excitement of entering a new (new for me anyway ) pussy. My wife was all for it, but had to wait for the couple she had been playing with to come around. They had no problem with me watching, seeing her nude, watching them have sex, but took some months before I was "invited in". Now I fuck other women too sometimes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bryonboru View Post
    It is like any new encounter with the opposite sex.

    What does she like?
    Will it stay hard?
    Will I get off too fast?
    Will I get her off?

    add the element of the same room and your other half is having a blast:

    Stay focused on my play partner
    Do not blow a nut hearing my other half get off, before my play partner is ready
    Enjoy hearing her enjoy herself

    All in all it is nervous good time with the extra element of something new while something you love an know being in the same room.
    ^^^^^This!

    I was so focused on my wife I apologized to the couple we swapped with later because I knew I wasn't the best fuck that night, he was. They were totally cool and excited to find out they were our first full swap.


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    Quote Originally Posted by MixxedCpl360 View Post
    Still waiting for my chance to come off the bench and play one year in. Guys what was it like for you the first time you entered a woman with your wife right there in the same room? Were you nervous, excited, worried your wife would get jealous, etc.?
    Wait.....can you define "come off the bench and play?". Are you saying the two of you have been experimenting for a year and she's the only one who has been "playing"???

    T

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelandTiger View Post
    Wait.....can you define "come off the bench and play?". Are you saying the two of you have been experimenting for a year and she's the only one who has been "playing"???

    T
    I'm assuming that's what he means. We haven't started yet, but she's not comfortable about me having intercourse. I totally get it. I'm ok with that and her feelings are paramount.

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    Of course you are nervous, even disturbed to be honest, but you use it to build on the next experience. Giving pleasure, focusing.....etc

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    Quote Originally Posted by MixxedCpl360 View Post
    Still waiting for my chance to come off the bench and play one year in. Guys what was it like for you the first time you entered a woman with your wife right there in the same room? Were you nervous, excited, worried your wife would get jealous, etc.?
    It was totally normal, but it wasn't like we had only had sex with each other our whole life. It was a second marriage for both of us and we'd both had a number of sex partners before we got married. So for us there was not "this is so different" feeling. That said, it was hot watching my wife's legs in the air as another guy fucked her, maybe more so than fucking the other guy's wife for me. That was 14 years ago and I'm still friends with that couple. Well I should say "we're both still friends with that couple" even though we've been divorced for 8 years.
    "Sex is something you do, sexuality is something you are." ~ Anna Freud
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    The first time I had a MFF threesome I was really nervous, not because of the new girl laying naked in front of me, but because of the risk of my girlfriend becoming jealousy and moody with me after, and as it turns out I was correct to be nervous, we met this other girl 2 nights in a row and after that point my own girlfriend became ratty / cold / upset / moody with me, I mean we were young at the time and the girl I was dating wasn't the most confident of people, well she had no problem lying to me but wasn't confident enough to properly explore threesomes.

    My head was full of questions regarding how my own girlfriend would react after....

    Will she be upset at me?
    Will she become jealous?
    Will she push this new girl out of our lives?
    Will this lead into me getting shouted at?
    Will she settle with this situation?
    How can I help her become settled with this situation?

    And so on.....

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    Four nights ago my wife and I had our first ffm threesome. We're a situational full swap couple so this was not our first full swap. This was not the first time my wife had seen me enter another women but it was our first threesome experience and I think it's relevant to the op's question so I'll describe what it was like anyway. Our friend was licking my wife's pussy at an odd angle. Rather than a 69 position on top of my wife, our friend was on her hands and knees ass pointing to ten on a clock. Her ass was sort of up by my wife's head. My wife told me she wanted me to fuck her. It was the first time entered her so I obviously took it slow. I pushed into her our friend she continued to eat my wife's pussy. The position was perfect to see right into my wife's eyes. Our friends face was between my wife's legs and she couldn't see me mouth the words, I love you to my wife. My wife mouthed I love you too, back at me. Hottest fifteen seconds in our lifestyle journey to date. What's it like? Each experience is unique and each couple has their own reasons for playing but i think if you're doing it right, every time you enter another women you should feel a closer connection to your wife. This is our journey.. together.

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    I don't think either of us thought about jealousy. My tongue was concentrating on Mrs. Playmate's clit and Laura was busy guiding Mr. Playmate where she wanted him to be.
    "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." —Will Rogers

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alura View Post
    I don't think either of us thought about jealousy. My tongue was concentrating on Mrs. Playmate's clit and Laura was busy guiding Mr. Playmate where she wanted him to be.
    As it should be.


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    Nervous as fuck... I couldn't keep it up. Fortunately we were with a great experienced couple, and I sat on my partner's lap and watched for a while. It came back up and finished the deed. I was worried about being jealous, making sure she was respected, or if me actually fucking another woman would hurt my wife. The only way to know is to go through the experience yourself. (Cliff note. She was focused on what she was getting, not me, lol)

    I was lost in a world of guilt, pleasure, fear, and wanting to make sure what I was doing was ok. And you won't until you have the talk after. After our first few times, my confidence grew and worries faded. Now we focus on the fun and it is a blast. I still stay focused to determine if I need to hold off and pleasure her to compensate for a poor performer. But mostly focus on the current partner now.

    Before we tried it I was not too crazy about another guy fucking my wife. Now I pick them up for her at bars and try to arrange gangbangs. She is my favorite pornstar. Oh the shit I learned watching other men, and I became a way better lover... the best thing that can happen is she is pleased and you learn something new, reclaiming her after is the best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pleasuredeviant View Post
    ... the best thing that can happen is she is pleased and you learn something new, reclaiming her after is the best.
    That's the only thing my wife isn't into....once we're done playing and heading home, she's usually so tired that "reclamation sex" doesn't happen until at least a day or so later. I don't suppose it's really "reclamation" at that point. She doesn't understand the concept of "reclamation" anyway ("Of course I'm yours, why would you need proof, LOL??"), so it's a bit moot.

    T

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    I remember going into our first fmf, intercourse was off limits. This was her bff and we wanted to keep boundaries. So an hour into it and everyone was pretty hot, my wife grabs my dick and says "fuck her!" and pulls my dick and me, into her friend, who was more than willing to let this happen. Since she had basically forced me into her, I didn't worry about giving her a good rogering lol. Overall, it worked out pretty good. They stayed friends for another few years. We had a pretty hot 3way relationship for a few weeks then it stopped.

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    Our first FFM encounter was amazing. I love seeing my fiance with another attractive woman. I was nervous to the extent that I didn't know when to watch and when to participate and if my fiance had any reservations when to join in on the fun. The woman that joined us was very sensual as well and had experience. My fiance just went with the flow and I was able to enjoy both of them without feeling guilty. I would love to expand our horizons and seek a MMF encounter. That's next on my bucket list.

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    Absolutely nervous and for a number of different reasons! I think the “first time” doing anything is a bit nerve wracking. Our first MFF threesome was with a friend of ours. We already had a little experience with her where the girls had played together a little and I went down on our friend. That was actually our very first experience with any type of swinging. Surprisingly enough, my wife told me she got incredibly turned on by watching me go down on our friend and we had played that fantasy back a few times during our live making.

    Fast forward a few months later and IT happened! The four of us (my wife and I, our GF and her husband) went out of town together for a long weekend. We went out for dinner and drinks. My wife didn’t feel like going out late night so she went back to the hotel and went to bed. Our GFs husband got over served and we then took him home and put him to bed. I kissed our GF good night and climbed into bed with my wife. I was horny as shit at this point. I went back into our GFs room and told her to follow me back into our bedroom. I sat her naked in a chair in front of our bed. I then climbed back into bed with my wife and slowly woke her back up with petting, kisses and massaging. She awoke, was turned on and I started going down on her. Our GF couldn’t stand it and climbed into bed with us. I fucked my wife with the help of our GF and she had a lovely orgasm. She rolled off and ran into the bathroom and our GF grabbed my dick and started licking my wife’s cum off me. My wife came out and our GF asked if she could fuck me. My wife’s eyes lit up and said, “sure, go for it!” It turned into one of the greatest nights of my life!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Courteous1970 View Post
    Absolutely nervous and for a number of different reasons! I think the “first time” doing anything is a bit nerve wracking. Our first MFF threesome was with a friend of ours. We already had a little experience with her where the girls had played together a little and I went down on our friend. That was actually our very first experience with any type of swinging. Surprisingly enough, my wife told me she got incredibly turned on by watching me go down on our friend and we had played that fantasy back a few times during our live making.

    Fast forward a few months later and IT happened! The four of us (my wife and I, our GF and her husband) went out of town together for a long weekend. We went out for dinner and drinks. My wife didn’t feel like going out late night so she went back to the hotel and went to bed. Our GFs husband got over served and we then took him home and put him to bed. I kissed our GF good night and climbed into bed with my wife. I was horny as shit at this point. I went back into our GFs room and told her to follow me back into our bedroom. I sat her naked in a chair in front of our bed. I then climbed back into bed with my wife and slowly woke her back up with petting, kisses and massaging. She awoke, was turned on and I started going down on her. Our GF couldn’t stand it and climbed into bed with us. I fucked my wife with the help of our GF and she had a lovely orgasm. She rolled off and ran into the bathroom and our GF grabbed my dick and started licking my wife’s cum off me. My wife came out and our GF asked if she could fuck me. My wife’s eyes lit up and said, “sure, go for it!” It turned into one of the greatest nights of my life!
    Not to hijack this thread or anything, but it annoys me when someone uses the term "over served".

    You can over serve a baby or your labrador retriever. When a grown ass man has to much to drink, he has had too much to drink. Saying he was over served is a way of relieving the responsibility of the person who made a conscious decision to get hammered. This way of thinking is a pet peeve of mine because it leads to businesses being sued for providing a service to their customers.

    OK. Rant over. My apologies.

    This was a very hot story otherwise! I just wished you had said her husband got shit-hammered!!! So, can we get a follow-up? Did hubby ever get involved in the festivities, assuming he could remain sober long enough to do so?

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    1st time...swear i felt like I was going to have a heart attack. No joke, I had to step back and sit down for a couple mins from the the nervousness and excitement combined. We all have moments we’ll never forget, that one ranks high on my list. After God knows how many years, I still remember that whole night in full details. 1000% loved it.

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