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    Default How to bring up idea of gangbang to girlfriend

    I am relatively new to the scene. I have always wanted to have a relationship that is full of group sex. My biggest fantasy is to have a threesome (ideally a gangbang) with gf. I don't know how to present it to her without scaring her. I want 3 or 4 men to take turns including dp/dv the whole 9. I like her and want to share my fantasies. But I don't wanna scare her off. And even she would be open. How do I organize? She is very open sexually. But how would I even start? Any help would be appreciated!

    Thanks


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    Default Re: How to bring up idea of gangbang to girlfriend

    I think there are very recent threads on this. I don't think that you want to start with a gangbang. You should see how conventional swinging goes over first. No one starts on the slalom, they start on the bunny hill. Go to a club or meet and greet with your gf's consent. With experience, she can go on single guy night at a club or at a gb event posted on a website. Make sure she likes the idea and it's not just your fantasy.

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    Default Re: How to bring up idea of gangbang to girlfriend

    Before you start looking to make your fantasy a reality, you'd better talk to your girlfriend about it. If this isn't her fantasy as well, it probably won't ever happen.

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    Default Re: How to bring up idea of gangbang to girlfriend

    All good advice. Swinging is about trust...less than total trust, no swinging. So, first I would really evaluate what sort of trust you have in one another, and that takes introspection as well as communicating, really communicating. Even getting to that level of communicating can and probably will take some time, and then once you are there, only then can you really start to evaluate and being to build upon the trust.

    Short answer - talk and then talk more and take your time
    Not all those who wander are lost

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