New single bi female going to my first club

I am going to my first club weds. Anyone have any tips or suggestions?

well check out the unicorn hehe just teasing. Everyone is probably going to approach you so you are lucky enough to be picky. You'll probably be approached by the female of the couple. If you are going to play with the male too I suggest putting on the condom yourself or watch him put it on. Make sure you know the couple's rules before hand. Everyone has them even though some say they don't. Some women won't get involved and just like to see the husband enjoy another woman so make sure the wife is going to play too if that is what you want. And remember no means no so if something isn't right or not what you expected you can stop anytime. Best of luck and enjoy. And please give details on how it went.

If it's anything like our first time don't be afraid to make a move, if you like the look of someone let them know with a little physical contact , touching of an arm or leg etc.

At our first club visit nearly all the people there knew it was our first time and were very respectful, too respectful at times , if you get my drift, you may find the same , most people will want you to feel comfortable so may reign it in a bit when flirting with you.

Hello, Chipwich, and welcome to SwingersBoard!

You've gotten some good advice already. I would add that it is helpful to go into the experience with no expectations of anything happening, play-wise. Figure on having the fun adventure of visiting the place, and meeting some friendly people, but it's always a roll of the dice as to whether you will find anyone to play with on any given night.

So, I'm curious about something. I see that you list your location as Philadelphia. What club in Philly is open on a Wednesday? All the clubs near us in the Baltimore area are open only on the weekend.

Which club are you going to? It's not too late for us to get plane tickets and meet you there...

Have a great time and let us know how it goes (if we don't make it in time).

At a club one evening, I was chatting up a single-woman (S) while my wife was dancing with some other people. S and I started to get hot and heavy and I invited her to a room, she accepted, I told my wife. When we got there, she asked when my wife would be coming along.

My wife isn't bi, so I told S that she wasn't. I then got from S, "Well, if it's not a threesome with her, I'm not interested." Okay, her life, her way, we wound up not playing. But I wished I'd known that before we headed back to the room.

Take a friend (even if vanilla) with you. Will help to shield you from wolves.

Take a friend (even if vanilla) with you. Will help to shield you from wolves.

She may even need to bring a friend to this thread, eh?

Saints & Sinners....weds are ladies choice nights.

Saints & Sinners

Interesting, I'll have to keep it in mind. I hope you have a great time there tonight! And do let us know how it goes.

I'm excited. I'll post about it later.

Hmmmm. I was debating about that.

Darn it, didn't make it in time (stupid delay in Denver). Maybe next time. So, how did it go?

That's perfect glad you had a good experience.

I'm glad you had fun! It sounds like you may have snuck a little past your limits in the playroom, but it also sounds like you were perfectly happy with the way the evening worked out. And you have new friends already!

Do you think you and the guy might play a little next time?

I definitely would play with both the male and female of the right couple. However sadly I wasn't attracted to him. Can't wait to go back. Thinking about hitting a club in NYC real soon.

Unicorns rule. You should be able to experience whatever you want.

as njbm has said do what turns you on. Since you're a unicorn you can pretty much find anyone to give you the sex you crave. Again congrats!

If you are willing to travel as far as NYC, you might be interested in also trying some clubs in the other direction. Several other fun clubs include The Private Affair (TPA) in Port Deposit, MD; Tabu in Catonsville, MD; The Korral near Hanover, PA; The Cottage near Gettysburg, PA; and TJ's near Harrisburg, PA. If you'd like to know any details about these clubs, feel free to PM me!

And if you travel to the left coast, you can always try the club called 'Our Place'...it just happens to be, well, our place