stiff1can 15 Posted January 3, 2017 Wife and I have been talking about swinging for a long time. She is reluctant but listens and we have been to a few swingers clubs to check things out. I would like to go online with her so we can look at ads and chat however she seems to have little interest. Since she has stated swinging is not for her I want to respect her words so I am reluctant to bring up the idea of going online. Any suggestions on what might get her more interested in going online more? Quote Share this post Link to post
two4youinswva 3,067 Posted January 3, 2017 I guess I will be the Debbie Downer and throw this out there: You've been a board member for almost 12 years, so I'm going to assume the two of you have discussed it during a good portion of that time. The two of you have been to clubs, so she has an idea about what swinging is. She still isn't interested. I don't think it is likely she ever will be. I hate to tell you this, but I think you need to hear it. Good luck to the two of you. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest luvin eye full Posted January 3, 2017 two4youinswva is right, it's not going to happen - But there is a bright side to it. That is for every one girl you get in the LS she will have her pick of 20 guys lol So you just evened your odds that she will be happy with you only - well she probably would be any way I'm just trying to put a happy spin on bad news. Regards Quote Share this post Link to post
EastInWest 1,507 Posted January 3, 2017 Yup. Seems like the problem phrase is "listened reluctantly". If you want to respect her words, it sounds like her words were that it isn't for her. Quote Share this post Link to post