The swinger manual?

Hi people ,

We are a happily married couple in our early forties , we have discussed swinging a lot these past few months and we are edging nearer and nearer to our first experience. I (MR) am always checking out this site for advice and to be honest I find a lot of what is written quite inspirational, and I feel it has definitely made me more ready mentally to swing.

My wife however, doesn't really read up on it all that much and still has misconceptions and a general lack of knowledge about the lifestyle, I do tell her about a lot of the stuff I read but I think she's still further behind than me in some respects, so I bought her the swinger manual for Christmas in the hope it's something we can read together.

So good idea? Or was it a bad idea? Lol

If she is interested in learning, then it is a very good idea. It's a great tool for learning about swinging from swingers.

If she isn't really interested in the swinging world, it might fall flat.

Just make sure it's not the only gift she receives.

The Swinger Manual is about as comprehensive a book on the subject as I have ever seen. It's good, in my mind, owing to the fact that it covers both the good and the bad aspects of the lifestyle. I'll send you my sincere wish that your good experiences outnumber any bad ones.

Both my wife and I read it, really helpful.

Thanks guys , wish I'd had a chance to read it before wrapping lol , only 4 more sleeps though!

The Swinger's Manual, by our very own Just Ask Julie, is a good choice. As long as you back the gift up with an Emerald and Diamond pendant with matching earrings, you've got Christmas covered. Good Luck!