Bad idea on how to throw out swinging idea for wife?

My wife is 24, although looks more like 18. Everyone asks for an ID to buy lottery tickets and even questions her age when we sit on the emergency aisle on a place because you have to be over 16 or 18 lol. She's very petite and I find her so sexy. I have a fantasy of showing her off and possibly even sharing her. I'm very nervous about bringing this up though.

We are trying to visit Las Vegas in July, for our third time. We love it and usually only drink, play slot machines, and maybe a show or two. This time we are talking about going to some clubs and dressing up. I've bought her quite a few sexy dresses and heels that she wears in the bedroom and sending me pictures. She's more of a jean and converse shoes type girl when we go out. I was thinking about buying a sexy anklet for her to wear out to the club.

Then hopefully some guy would maybe know what this stands for in this lifestyle and approach her for a dance. Then I just say sure why not go for it. Would you think this would be a good idea or not?

This doesn't seem like a good idea if you can't even talk to her about it yet.

How long you've been married got cut off, but it sounds like you need to spend time just talking about all different types of relationships in general and get a feel for her impression of swinging or open relationships.

This something you really do need to communicate with her about! Nothing good will come out of you just setting her up to be picked up without her knowing your intention.

In the regular Vegas Night Club scene people can get Really obnoxious and Really confrontational. They can be obnoxious to her and really confrontational to you. At first I was just going to say the guys, but as I sit here in my hotel room in Vegas, I remembered last night and four idiot women screaming at each other. No I wasn't involved, just watching from the bar.

My wife and I do have a running joke...if 'you dress like that tonight, honey, you are going to get me into a fight'. The reason it's funny is because it's true. At 1 or 2AM after people have done some serious drinking things can become very bad very quickly. There are bouncers that generally keep this to a dull roar, but if you are not ready for it or used to it can and does escalate really quickly.

Probably should have conversation with the wife about what she wants first.

Even with a chat with the wife about showing her off, I would be a bit forewarned about the scene.

I agree with the many people here who have recommended that you and your wife communicate, honestly and openly, about your desires- and hers! Swinging can be kind of a relationship minefield, thrilling to navigate, but with many opportunities to blow up a couple's relationship due to jealousy or hurt feelings. The good news is that open communication, of your fantasies and turn-ons, but also your fears and concerns, is the way for the two of you to avoid or defuse the mines.

I was thinking about buying a sexy anklet for her to wear out to the club.

 

Then hopefully some guy would maybe know what this stands for in this lifestyle and approach her for a dance.

I'm not quite clear about this- is a sexy anklet one of those secret signals that you are swingers? If so, I haven't heard of that one. One signal that I have heard of is the black ring on the right hand- though others have told us that some other sexual signals are similar to this!

Another option for you two, if you are both ready for a bold experiment, might be to visit a lifestyle club in Vegas. It would take some of the element of chance out of this!

The anklet is supposed to show that she is a hot wife!

I was thinking about buying a sexy anklet for her to wear out to the club.

 

Then hopefully some guy would maybe know what this stands for in this lifestyle and approach her for a dance. Then I just say sure why not go for it. Would you think this would be a good idea or not?

Contrary to urban myth, swingers do not wear anklets, rings, put white rocks in their front yard, pineapple decorations on their door, or whatever silly idea is out there to signal to other swingers that, "Hey! We're swingers!!!"

If you really want to know if she is interested in playing with another man, just ask her...outside of the bedroom and not under the guise of sex.