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New to the lifestyle, need advice.

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Hello everybody!

 

We are a couple from Texas (him 45, her 42) and after several years of considering it, we decided to give the "lifestyle" a go.

 

We live in a small town, so definitely local mingle is out of the question.

 

We're planning a trip to New Orleans in about a month, we want to visit both swingers clubs in NO and let the chips fall where they may.

 

We want to try MFM but I'm uneasy on picking up a single guy, so it has to be a couple.

 

We were wondering if any of you nice folk can give us hints, what to do, what not to do, and what to expect, as we are completely new to this.

 

:thankyou:

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Talk with each other. Talk about what you would like to have happen and what you don't want to have happen. Talk about how much you love each other and how great it is that you are in a place where you can even try to do this. Talk about rules and limits and fantasies and anything else you can think of but the most important thing is that you talk.

 

Next, don't rush things and don't go with any preconceived expectations. Just go hoping to have an enjoyable evening. Do your research in advance (where, when, how to get there) and maybe drive by during the day to see what the area is like in advance. Once there, nothing that you don't want to have happen will happen. No one will force either of you to do anything that you don't want to do (but you have to also be able to say what you don't want to do). You will find most swingers are very polite and will honor your limits and boundaries. Every so often, take a deep breath and relax. Don't be surprised if you find your brain telling you that your eyes are lying as to what they are seeing. We still have this happen to us (brain cannot believe that some of these things are really happening in front of our eyes). Enjoy yourself and have a good time. DON'T drink too much (a common first timer mistake to ease the nerves). Finally, come back and tell us how things went. Good luck and hope you two have a great experience.

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:welcome1: to Swingersboard. One hint regarding swingers' clubs, go in having no expectation other than to enjoy yourselves.

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Welcome TXTwo, Glad you are here and let us know what happens. Lots of good information here to check out and ask the questions you want. Lots of people here to give advice.

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You've gotten some good beginner advice so far from others so I would just like to say...welcome to the forum! :)

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The advice about having no expectations other than having a fun night out together is good stuff. We try to always approach swinging that way, whether it's a club or meeting couple for the first time after getting in contact online. As long as your swinging is guided by "fun" and "together", it's really hard to go wrong. When one of those words is missing for one or both parts of a couple, then it's time to rethink things.

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Thenk you all for your kind comments.

 

There's have been a change on our original plans.... We are going to be visiting the Austin Players's club on Jan 15th and 16th, so if there's a couple willing to pop our cherry, send us a private message.

:4some:

 

Will add more images to our profile so you can catch a sneak preview of what you can have..

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Well, we finally visited our first lifestyle club in Austin last weekend, on Friday and Saturday.

We didn't get lucky with anybody else, but oh boy, did something happen....

 

The fact that she was being fucked in the same room where 6 or so more couples were fucking too, and we were being watched by many more, somehow turned her inner exhibitionist sex monster loose.

She went wild!

 

She even asked me to fuck her from behind while being completely naked on the second floor balcony overlooking the club, for everybody else to see.

Such an amazing experience for both, she now wants to go back ASAP.

 

I will post a few pics I managed to sneak by for you to enjoy :sex:

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Welcome and continue enjoying your journey together! Sounds like a great start for you two.

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