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Hey all, question about threesomes!

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Hello! My wife and I are 24/M and 24/F. We've just started talking about the possibility of threesomes with another woman and I am very excited!!

 

I just want to make sure that my wife is as excited as I am and that she is comfortable throughout the whole thing. That being said, she said that she doesn't want our third to "touch me"... Is this common in the very early stages of swinging? How do I get her to relax and be comfortable with almost anything? She has some kinks so it isn't that she isn't freaky enough... Probably just need more communication.

 

Anyone have advice for a newbie to get his wife comfortable with swinging? I would love to see her with another woman or even a man... I think the thought of her being pleasured by someone else is so fucking hot.

 

She has said that she would let anyone eat her pussy, and that is how we even started our journey down this beautiful rabbit hole...

 

Thanks for any advice or replies! Looking forward to growing my relationship with my wife as well as having a ton of fun while doing it!

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Hello, and welcome to the Swingers Board. It's nice to meet someone who is starting young like we did.

 

 

My suggestion is to let your wife take the lead since you feel comfortable with anything that she wants to do and you want to see her being pleasured. It may be difficult not to touch the other girl if FMF is what you first do, but respect her wishes and give your wife the attention. Eventually she will fell comfortable and let you play as well. At first with my husband and me, it was only me playing with my boyfriend or having an MFM threesome with him because I was jealous of hubby playing with another girl. But hubby was patient, and after a while I changed and glad that I did. Best of luck.

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Welcome to the forum, sidd208.

 

I'm a little confused, do you mean that your wife doesn't want the other woman to touch her or that she doesn't want the other woman to touch you?

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Thanks for the reply, I appreciate it! I'll definitely take that into consideration and try to be patient.

 

She doesn't want the other woman to touch me, sorry for the miscommunication!

 

EDIT:

 

By "touch me", I mean that my wife doesn't want our third to touch me (the man)

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sidd208, thanks for the clarification. :) Now with that said, it sounds like you two are mostly looking for girl/girl play and not really a threesome because if the other woman can't touch you, it's going to be a difficult threesome unless the focus is on your girlfriend and even then, she might not enjoy it because she'll always be on "alert" for the other woman to break the rule of touching you and you her.

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Yes, it sounds like she might not be ready for this yet. Is she really on board or just going along with what you want? My guess is she is worried (jealous?) that you are looking for something better than her. Reassure her that this is not the case and talk, talk, talk until she is comfortable...then move forward.

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It could be too that she just wants to take it very very slowly. That's kind of the camp I'm in. I actually am the one who initiated the search for our first hookup, so I'm definitely into it. But Idk yet what'll make me jealous and where my lines will be. At first I don't think I would be comfortable seeing full swap and watching my husband enjoy another woman. Too much all at once. But down the line... who knows? Give it time. Take it slow. Don't push her.

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