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Hi everyone. I've being posting few thread on this website and I've got very good and solid answers so far.

 

It started when my wife and I talked about our fantasies and I discovered she had one since years before she even met me and never fulfilled it, never even talked to anyone about it : it's being a bad girl fucked by 2 to 5 guys at the same time. Her lover watching first 1 or few guys having her, the lover getting jealous and exited at the same time, until he can't stand it and has to participate and fucks her like a whore in some kind of punishing action. Then she is fucked like an object in all combination by me and everyone in the room or new guy(s) entering it. Very submissive fantasy.

 

What real from the fantasy I don't know. But this thing as kept growing in my mind and imagination for years until becoming an obsession of finally seeing someone fucking her in front of me and with me. It became a huge turn on since we talked and she told me she would like to try it in real life, even if she is scared that in real life it does not work for her. she can't tell. But she masturbate a lot about this and when we watch a porn it's always the group sex that makes her come right away. We are not going to start with a gangbang as totally newbies we'll do a MMF and see if the fantasy and the reality are matching the excitement ? could it be that it only works in her mind, not in reality ?

 

That's my BIG question today : I read a lot of things about cuckold and I don't feel at all attracted by any of that stuff. I'm a very attractive guy, always been very successful with women, had many and gave them a lot of pleasure, I never had any trouble in bed, I can last too and I've actually quite a big cock (almost to big for my wife). So why I want so much to see my wife fucked ?! Her fantasy drives me crazy I don't know what to do anymore...

My wife is stunning (she is a model) she is for me the most beautiful woman I've ever seen (and probably she is) could it be the wish of living my nightmare 'all these guys trying to get her 20 times a day in the street, at work, anywhere she goes, as soon as I let her 1 minute alone' that becomes a huge turn on ?

 

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Lionheart you are making my day ! thank you !

 

If there were a cuckold experience I have to do, I'll be the guy fucking the wife in front of her cuckold submissive man without ANY hesitation. I am very much not submissive and I don't need someone to fuck my wife in a "better" way, we're having great sex together. I've been contacted by people calling themselves "bulls" I didn't know what it was I did some research and it's not at all what I look for. they just got it all wrong... or I just don't explain myself well to them ? I'm a bit dominant too, she is a submissive something natural grew and match there. I need a lot of tips I'm messaging you right away ;)

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I think its all about how secure you are with your relationship as to how well it will work out. For most of my married life (30 years) I could not understand how anyone would want to see their wife getting fucked. Then an event happened where any misgivings about her love for me vanished and with them came a desire to share a guy with her. The cuckold thing, that is for other people. We want to share the experience. We have shared the experience over and over and we love it. My advise to you is to avoid it if you have any jealous feelings toward her. They will probably be amplified several times over. But if not, you may be opening up yourself for the greatest sexual events of you life. I hope so!

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we started the same way (MFM) and have enjoyed that many times.

She would love to be the subject of several guys but so far I haven't found:

1: a small group of guys that I think deserve her talents (as in 3-5 guys)

2: a small group of guys that are "up to it".. the whole homophobic thing

3: had the willingness to "open up" to some guys and be subject to her or I being "judged" as weak or a slut..

It'll happen withing 2013, but it's a matter, to me, of finding a few of her fave MFM playmates and see if they are onboard with being part of a bit larger group than MFM

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good to hear.. thanks. I / we have a few M's she's played with but I haven't attempted to get a few of them together at the same time. that's the next step

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The cuckold thing, that is for other people. We want to share the experience. We have shared the experience over and over and we love it. My advise to you is to avoid it if you have any jealous feelings toward her. They will probably be amplified several times over. But if not, you may be opening up yourself for the greatest sexual events of you life. I hope so!

 

Sharing is well put. Sharing the experience together without one being used or making the other do stuff to please yourself. As for the jealous part, I will only become jealous if (1) I feel left out or my presence not making the experience hotter for my wife or most of all (2) I feel the guy(s) fucking my wife having a low image of myself like junglecouple says "judged as weak" and do not respect me.

I believe the (1) part is not going to happen but I can't be sure until trying for the first time with her. As for the (2) this is my biggest fear and I don't know how to prevent that. If none of these 2 points shows up, I won't be jealous and will I think enjoy a lot seeing her getting fucked. And she wants me to participate it's part of the thing, even if she is turned on by I wait a bit before joining and I only watch first. it's fine with me I'll love to watch at first.

 

we started the same way (MFM) and have enjoyed that many times.

She would love to be the subject of several guys but so far I haven't found:

1: a small group of guys that I think deserve her talents (as in 3-5 guys)

2: a small group of guys that are "up to it".. the whole homophobic thing

3: had the willingness to "open up" to some guys and be subject to her or I being "judged" as weak or a slut..

It'll happen withing 2013, but it's a matter, to me, of finding a few of her fave MFM playmates and see if they are onboard with being part of a bit larger group than MFM

 

I think I'll have the exact same problem. For 1 & 2 it can change with some luck. For 3, that's for me the hard one. Prior to meet my wife I had some experiences with MMF and FFM. Harder to find a girl to join for a FFM but somehow girls were (to my experience) more respectful of the couple and boundaries. Male were easy to find, but harder to do it with, and I did feel judged a lot and that was destructive as my experiences were with friends. The relationship with male friends changed a lot after in a negative way. I am certain of one thing : never do a MMF with your male friends if the girl is your girlfriend or wife (I know they are exception and probably some of you did it with friends and it was awesome). So... hard to find guys at the end !

 

You know, in the many times my wife and I have done this, I have never felt either of us being judged as weak or a slut. In fact, as a rule, each guy will afterward walk up to me, shake my hand, thank me for sharing her with them and express significant praise of her fine qualities and/or comment upon my good fortune at having such a wonderful wife.

 

This is awesome. I want also the same thing happening to me after sharing my wife with a dude or more dudes. I want them to feel special and respect me. How do you do that ? are you a giant or someone looking so powerful that these guys feel impressed ? How did you do that, what's your secret ? You need to teach us who are afraid to look like a weak or cuckold one... and how to make also them to respect your wife.

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Two comments... First, the most difficult thing I ever tried to explain to my wife was why I enjoy watching her with other men.

Second, the word 'cuckold' is so often missued. This has nothing to do with being cuckold.

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This is awesome. I want also the same thing happening to me after sharing my wife with a dude or more dudes. I want them to feel special and respect me. How do you do that ? are you a giant or someone looking so powerful that these guys feel impressed ? How did you do that' date=' what's your secret ? You need to teach us who are afraid to look like a weak or cuckold one... and how to make also them to respect your wife.[/quote']

 

LoL. I'm just a regular guy. If there is any secret too it at all, I guess it's attitude. I respect my wife, and I respect myself. I expect others to do the same. If that's my "secret" I guess it works. I've never put any thought or effort into it though.

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I wanted to watch my wife as we fucked from a different perspective. As if I'm out of my body standing across the room. She refused to let me take videos. The more I dreamed about it I began to imagine other guys having sex with my wife. I'm not into the cuckold fantasy either but I'll admit that I dreamed about other guys seducing my wife in front of me and her submitting to them. It took me a long time to talk her into trying it and when she did she loved it and I loved watching it! I'm hooked for life!

 

The first time we were all in the bed together. Then I started getting off the bed and sitting in a chair in the corner of the room and watching from there.

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Two comments... First, the most difficult thing I ever tried to explain to my wife was why I enjoy watching her with other men.

Second, the word 'cuckold' is so often missued. This has nothing to do with being cuckold.

 

I think we all talk about the same thing but to clear that out I've yet two meaning for cuckold please complete if I'm wrong :

 

originally : the husband of an adulteress

 

in BDSM : A cuckolding couple consists of the cuckold husband who is referred to as the cuckold, or the beta male. The wife in a cuckolding relationship is often referred to as a hotwife and gets to pick and choose who she has sex with. The person that she picks to have sex with is often much more well hung than her cuckold husband and is able to satisfy her sexually, unlike her husband. This person is referred to as the bull, stud or the alpha male, the lucky man that the hotwife chooses to be unfaithful to her husband with. The wife and cuckold bull may date regularly by going out to dinner, clubs, movies, etc. Or the wife and the bull may just meet once at a cuckold party and go into a room and...you know the rest! He is almost always extremely well hung and knows how to satisfy the hotwife so that she can have endless orgasms. He is usually much better looking that the cuckold husband and in very good shape. He may come around the have sex with the wife quite often, even daily, or he may only have sex with the hotwife once at a party.

 

I am not judging any person enjoying to be one of the two definitions here. Only that I personality do not like to be in the situation of either of them. Even if I do like the idea of watching my wife getting fucked.

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I wanted to watch my wife as we fucked from a different perspective. As if I'm out of my body standing across the room.

 

I agree I feel the same.

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the most difficult thing I ever tried to explain to my wife was why I enjoy watching her with other men.

 

Some years back, I spent quite some time trying to figure out why I so enjoyed watching my wife having sex with someone else. I couldn't really figured it out. Clues, yes, but nothing definitive to say "this is why:". I gave up. I do know I thoroughly enjoy it. I love seeing it, hearing about it, and thinking about it. I'm not obsessed with it, but it's definitely an active and immediate turn on. I can't explain it. All I know is that it is very, very erotic to me.

 

For her part, she loves doing it, and my enjoyment of it makes it all the better for her. She loves that I love it, and vice versa.

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Tom here;

I have no idea why i love seeing her with other men, i absolutely utterly love it to no end.

When i was a young teen i had a huge sex drive.

When i was almost 17 i bought my first top-shelf adult magazine, i was fascinated by the pictures and then i started reading all the articles which seemed to involve a lot of stories based around girlfriends and wives cheating or the husband/bf watching, at first i thought how weird it all sounds but i soon got into those stories - at first i thought they were real stories until i realised later a lot of them were probably fictional. So since then some of my fantasies were about seeing a girlfriend fuck someone else.

 

Then when i was 20 i had a new girlfriend, she asked me what fantasies do i have, i said something like i dont think you'll like it, to which she responded in a kind of excited and surprised way "OMG do you want to see me fuck someone else?" i thought - WOW how did she guess that?! i admitted yes. So she set up a profile on some dating website, got chatting with a guy, then the next day i drove her to him i posed as her brother or cousin i forgot which, dropped her off at some bus stop shelter near town, i had already told her where to go for privacy - a large field with overgrown grass and bushes. I saw them fucking, it was my first ever time with this experience, i was so jealous but so turned on at the same time i didnt know how to feel when she got back into my car.

 

A year later, a new girlfriend, confided in her that i dont mind if she sleeps with other men. Nothing happened though. We split up a few months later.

 

Then when i was 25? (im 32 now), i found a website with camgirls, it also featured escorts which i didnt know what that meant other than a bodyguard type person. I was chatting with this camgirl i said id love to meet her and take her out and things, she responded by saying i need an escort for that, i thought what's that? i found it was a prostitute, i just thought NO WAY! But when i was checking out the escorts profiles i soon ended up meeting them. Then i progressed into trying out brothels, sex parties, swinging, gang bangs, strip clubs, as well as being with escorts. I was totally amazed by some of those women.

 

Then i travelled even further for a well known up market brothel, this is where i met Hayley. She was/is so fit and beautiful i couldnt believe it when i first laid eyes on her. I could see she absolutely loved "working" there having constant sex with so many different men from all walks of life, her sex drive was through the roof, she genuinely orgasmed and the proof was there when i witnessed and felt her squirt over me, i couldn't believe it. So i asked her out to be my paid escort for a night out on the town, it was then that we hit it off. She was turned on when i told her i'd love to see her fuck another guy, which she did soon after. Then i arranged gang bang parties for her, we went to swing clubs, sex parties, fetish clubs, we did filming, i was her driver when she was escorting for outcalls, i watched her lapdance at the strip club she used to work at. We moved in together, slowly but surely we went from escort/client, to fuck buddies, then a loving open relationship. She is a total babe to me, i would not trade her in for anything, ever.

 

When i introduced my work colleague into our relationship we pretty much settled down from the sort of swinging lifestyle, as he has such a powerful sex drive... he really does out perform any man i've seen, and is one of the very best Hayley has ever been with. He's 14 years older than her, but he is quite fat and has some excess skin which is kind of off putting for her, among other things she doesn't like about him even though he is a nice friendly gent for the most part. So i'm pretty sure she wont ever end up running off with him. The only thing i wish was really different about him would be if he was black and had a big cock, that would make our relationship even kinkier, if that's the right word.

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The cuckhold description doesn't sound like you so why identify with it? Can't you be the alpha male sharing his female with his (lower placed) pack?

 

Cuckhold also has a lot of elements of humiliation for the beta male in it and again it doesn't sound like you.

 

My advice is fuck often and enjoy it. Forget about the labels. It's just sex.... nobody is going to tattoo it on your forehead!

 

you are so right lol that's a good post. Probably I'm searching for the label name of my kink.. to put on my forehead to keep away misunderstandings... afraid to be misplaced in the cuckold folder :) but as you say if I'm not fitting the description why do I worry I shall do what you say : fuck often and enjoy it, and less worry about the rest. I'm glad many of you find normal for a guy to share his wife without automatically being labeled as cuckold. I feel better.

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Some years back, I spent quite some time trying to figure out why I so enjoyed watching my wife having sex with someone else. I couldn't really figured it out. Clues, yes, but nothing definitive to say "this is why:". I gave up. I do know I thoroughly enjoy it. I love seeing it, hearing about it, and thinking about it. I'm not obsessed with it, but it's definitely an active and immediate turn on. I can't explain it. All I know is that it is very, very erotic to me.

 

For her part, she loves doing it, and my enjoyment of it makes it all the better for her. She loves that I love it, and vice versa.

 

again, I shall follow your lead and be more relax about it.

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Sparkstar / Tom : thanks for that big input ! amazing story it does sounds like one from a top-shelf adult mag and in your life it becames even more than just an inspiration, you made it real. Super sexy story about Hayley I wish I could see how she looks like !!!?? she must be real hot.

 

I personally think if your idea of kinkier is a black guy with a big cock, it's actually better your colleague fucking your girl is not that big and not that good looking, because it seems to balance perfectly and not get out of hands for you. It's best you're still Hayley's man and better looking better shape than the guy you share her regularly. I might be wrong but that's the way I see it if you want to keep her.

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Sparkstar / Tom : thanks for that big input ! amazing story it does sounds like one from a top-shelf adult mag and in your life it becames even more than just an inspiration, you made it real. Super sexy story about Hayley I wish I could see how she looks like !!!?? she must be real hot.

 

I personally think if your idea of kinkier is a black guy with a big cock, it's actually better your colleague fucking your girl is not that big and not that good looking, because it seems to balance perfectly and not get out of hands for you. It's best you're still Hayley's man and better looking better shape than the guy you share her regularly. I might be wrong but that's the way I see it if you want to keep her.

Yeah i know what you mean. To be fair, he is quite good looking in the face for a fat guy, aged 40 but looks early 30s.

 

By big, i mean like 10" long, she said she's had bigger than that! The biggest i've seen was probably a 9-10".

He has a 8", at first when i saw it i thought no way is that a 8" it looks not much bigger than mine...6", but one time he actually did measure it when we were together, he has to use his hand to push his base back/in to make his girth stick out more, otherwise it only looks like a 6".

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verrryyyy nice. Why doesn't Santa leave me presents like that under the tree???:facelick:

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I think we all talk about the same thing but to clear that out I've yet two meaning for cuckold please complete if I'm wrong :

 

originally : the husband of an adulteress

 

in BDSM : A cuckolding couple consists of the cuckold husband who is referred to as the cuckold, or the beta male. The wife in a cuckolding relationship is often referred to as a hotwife and gets to pick and choose who she has sex with. The person that she picks to have sex with is often much more well hung than her cuckold husband and is able to satisfy her sexually, unlike her husband. This person is referred to as the bull, stud or the alpha male, the lucky man that the hotwife chooses to be unfaithful to her husband with. The wife and cuckold bull may date regularly by going out to dinner, clubs, movies, etc. Or the wife and the bull may just meet once at a cuckold party and go into a room and...you know the rest! He is almost always extremely well hung and knows how to satisfy the hotwife so that she can have endless orgasms. He is usually much better looking that the cuckold husband and in very good shape. He may come around the have sex with the wife quite often, even daily, or he may only have sex with the hotwife once at a party.

 

I am not judging any person enjoying to be one of the two definitions here. Only that I personality do not like to be in the situation of either of them. Even if I do like the idea of watching my wife getting fucked.

 

I totally get you. That is exactly how I feel about my wife getting fucked as well. The mere idea of cuckholding turns me off as I don't find it appealing to be submissive and yet the idea of my wife being throughly ravished is one of my biggest fantasies. It's all about the wife.

 

I agree the term is widely misused as when one posts of such an occurence there seems to be someone that throws the c flag.

 

As I said I totally get you.

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I can honestly say I am obsessed in seeing my wife fuck another man. I have expressed it every week to her when have sex. She loves the fact that is my primary fantasy and we talk about it during foreplay and while we are in either doggystyle or bareback position.

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I can honestly say I am obsessed in seeing my wife fuck another man. I have expressed it every week to her when have sex. She loves the fact that is my primary fantasy and we talk about it during foreplay and while we are in either doggystyle or bareback position.

 

I feel the same way, I bring it up almost every week when we are having sex! I try to shut up about it sometimes, but I am still thinking about it in my head even though I am not saying anything to her! I don't want to have to rely on this thought to be turned on with her though, so sometimes I force myself to stop thinking about it and just focus on us having sex.

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I totally get you. That is exactly how I feel about my wife getting fucked as well. The mere idea of cuckholding turns me off as I don't find it appealing to be submissive and yet the idea of my wife being throughly ravished is one of my biggest fantasies. It's all about the wife.

 

I agree the term is widely misused as when one posts of such an occurence there seems to be someone that throws the c flag.

 

As I said I totally get you.

 

thanks man, really really nice to read that you feel the same way. I felt very alone for years in that kink and I realize I'm not !

 

I can honestly say I am obsessed in seeing my wife fuck another man. I have expressed it every week to her when have sex. She loves the fact that is my primary fantasy and we talk about it during foreplay and while we are in either doggystyle or bareback position.

 

I feel the same way, I bring it up almost every week when we are having sex! I try to shut up about it sometimes, but I am still thinking about it in my head even though I am not saying anything to her! I don't want to have to rely on this thought to be turned on with her though, so sometimes I force myself to stop thinking about it and just focus on us having sex.

 

 

It's been a while since I wrote. Realizing now there are people with the same exact turn on I was thinking it must have a name for that kink. I know I shall just enjoy and not search for a sticker but I can't help it... it's also good for me to meet people with shared same interest and to be able to point it out with a word makes it easier. There are 1000 websites and discussions about cuckolding but there always a link to humiliation and submission of the husband. So what is the thing turning me on and also you guys here as we are not submissive at all and turned off by humiliation ? I did my research and I finally found a name which is to me much closer of what I like and it's called CANDAULISM and also another word which is COMPERSION.

 

Compersion is not as strong as Candaulism to me cause it involve sometimes your lover to have another relationship or feelings for another man (which is not my thing) but I will put few drops into to the recipe for the empathetic state of happiness seeing your lover having joy.

 

Also, as much as I like to be the voyeur I have as much desire to participate depending on the mood. The best for me would be to watch first my wife with someone else then to join. Candaulism then 3some.

 

 

 

The definitions are not the same from different sources over the internet but still I feel we get close and I would love to know what you guys think :

 

CANDAULISM : The Candaulism is a sexual practice in which man feels an excitement exposing his wife or a picture of her to other men. By extension, it also refers to Candaulism when intercourse occurs between a woman and one or more men, in front of her exclusive partner who is willing and urging this to happen; however this practice is distinguished from cuckolding by the absence of need for humiliation of the partner.

 

COMPERSION : Compersion is an empathetic state of happiness and joy experienced when another individual experiences happiness and joy. It is an opposite of jealousy.

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LOL I think you need a 12 step program to stop trying to put labels on everything ;)

 

Step 1 - Stop thinking about labels

Step 2 - Find willing woman/couple and screw wholeheartedly

Step 3 - Repeat step 1 & 2 six times

 

Compersion implies a loving relationship between additional partners and Candualism involves some degree of force or coercion.

 

How about plain old SWINGING

 

SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.

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LOL I think you need a 12 step program to stop trying to put labels on everything ;)

 

Step 1 - Stop thinking about labels

Step 2 - Find willing woman/couple and screw wholeheartedly

Step 3 - Repeat step 1 & 2 six times

 

Compersion implies a loving relationship between additional partners and Candualism involves some degree of force or coercion.

 

How about plain old SWINGING

 

SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.

 

I agree, I think it is just plain ol swinging...

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LOL I think you need a 12 step program to stop trying to put labels on everything ;)

 

Step 1 - Stop thinking about labels

Step 2 - Find willing woman/couple and screw wholeheartedly

Step 3 - Repeat step 1 & 2 six times

 

Compersion implies a loving relationship between additional partners and Candualism involves some degree of force or coercion.

 

How about plain old SWINGING

 

SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.

 

Don't patronize me. This website is about swinging, and I'm writing inside its forum. Read the thread and what people wrote before judging. If you have no interest in the thread, just leave it and don't spit on other people taste. And please don't LOL me.

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I agree, I think it is just plain ol swinging...

 

It's all about swinging. Inside swinging they are different fantasies which not all swingers share.

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Don't patronize me. This website is about swinging' date=' and I'm writing inside its forum. Read the thread and what people wrote before judging. If you have no interest in the thread, just leave it and don't spit on other people taste.[/quote']

 

Wow perhaps we should label posts with the words "INTENDED TO BE HUMOR" at the top.

 

I read the thread... I posted before....You liked the response and even said so.

 

You were the one questioning what label to put on yourself. Based on the things you said I think the plain old swinger label works just fine.

 

I see you're relatively new here so I will tell you that flaming responses on your own threads doesn't generally go down well with the other members.

 

Lighten up!

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Wow perhaps we should label posts with the words "INTENDED TO BE HUMOR" at the top.

 

I read the thread... I posted before....You liked the response and even said so.

 

You were the one questioning what label to put on yourself. Based on the things you said I think the plain old swinger label works just fine.

 

I see you're relatively new here so I will tell you that flaming responses on your own threads doesn't generally go down well with the other members.

 

Lighten up!

 

yes the "INTENDED TO BE HUMOR" would have been good. Fantasies and taste in humor are different for each of us... even if you find your own post sounding like a plain old joke :) but I'm sure you had fun writing it and at the end that's what matters ;)

 

Yes you are right I am questioning myself about a label to put on myself. I don't think there is a problem with that. Swingers is already a label, why don't you go to a general sexuality website at the end we could say it's "all about sex". but you're not, you are on this swingers site because it already gives you a big steps towards people that will share the same interest in sex (sharing lovers for example). It will take you much more time to find and be more complicated to find swingers inside the whole community of people "sexual". To tag myself is more a shortcut for me to find people with same interest. I'm driven a lot by curiosity too.

 

Sorry if I got offended and not LOL back. also I didn't link you to your previous posts that would have help the INTENDED TO BE HUMOR.

 

Somehow you want to be taken as a funny lighten up guy but put some "i know what i'm talking about" sentences in your posts, and I think that's to me what makes it unfunny. but that's me I'm a newbie ;) LOL

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I don't know either but it is an overwhelming turn on ... the thought of playing with her and others is always at the root of orgasm.. I'll do some research on this sexual phenomena ...

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I don't know either but it is an overwhelming turn on ... the thought of playing with her and others is always at the root of orgasm.. I'll do some research on this sexual phenomena ...

 

Believe it not there is a lot of men that share the same fantasy of seeing their wife get fucked by another man while they watch as well as seeing the other guy cum inside his wife!! These info came from a Sex Therapist that I spoke to. The Sex therapist also mention that men that fantasize about sharing their wife with another guy falls within normal sexual fantasy behavior!

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I don't know either but it is an overwhelming turn on ... the thought of playing with her and others is always at the root of orgasm.. I'll do some research on this sexual phenomena ...

 

It is extremely hot... if your love, trust and connection inside your couple is strong it's makes it even hotter to see your wife fucked... I never saw my wife having sex with someone else but I'm very looking forward to it. She also wants it a lot even if I feel she wants it a bit less than me what makes me feel awkward sometimes...

 

Prior to meet her I had FFM and MMF. If I had to only keep one only, that would be FFM it was the hottest thing I ever did in my life. but it's hard to explain but the fantasy and what goes in your mind when you are going to do a MMF with your lover, when you dream about it and think of it, when a guy is about to fuck her that for me was beating the FFM. Even if for me the actual sex is actually better when you are with two girls in a 3some. Strange thing. I'm not saying the actual action of MMF was bad, it was terrific but I think your mind plays a big role in it you are a bit confused at the same time you are excited (at least for me) it makes a really strong feeling in your mind. as for the FFM it's pure extreme enjoyment.

 

That's why I think to only watch your wife getting fucked must give you the opportunity to concentrate and enjoying in a more relaxing way, without being two persons at a time inside your head : the porn actor and the lover :) I never did anything with my wife but I surely want to see her getting fucked in front of me while I watch. It turns me on so much to imagine that... also my wife is so good looking it must be a porn masterpiece to see her having sex from a step a away.

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Believe it not there is a lot of men that share the same fantasy of seeing their wife get fucked by another man while they watch as well as seeing the other guy cum inside his wife!! These info came from a Sex Therapist that I spoke to. The Sex therapist also mention that men that fantasize about sharing their wife with another guy falls within normal sexual fantasy behavior!

 

I love when sex therapists are backing up :) all swingers will agree and many people must dream about it without ever doing the step, that's sad for them :)

 

my only worry is that it seems harder to meet a great single guy when you're a couple than a nice couple when you're a couple. Even if there are tons of single guys looking for couple over the internet!

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Believe it not there is a lot of men that share the same fantasy of seeing their wife get fucked by another man while they watch as well as seeing the other guy cum inside his wife!! These info came from a Sex Therapist that I spoke to. The Sex therapist also mention that men that fantasize about sharing their wife with another guy falls within normal sexual fantasy behavior!

 

Wow, that kind of surprises me that this fantasy is so common that the sex therapist says it is considered normal sexual fantasy behavior! I guess it's not the kind of thing most guys bring up to there best buds over beers! It stands to reason...it is not so much socially acceptable to say that is your fantasy as compared to saying you want to share your wife with another girl, or that you want to fuck 2 girls at the same time, which I have several friends, if not all my friends, say to me throughout my life!

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Wow, that kind of surprises me that this fantasy is so common that the sex therapist says it is considered normal sexual fantasy behavior! I guess it's not the kind of thing most guys bring up to there best buds over beers! It stands to reason...it is not so much socially acceptable to say that is your fantasy as compared to saying you want to share your wife with another girl, or that you want to fuck 2 girls at the same time, which I have several friends, if not all my friends, say to me throughout my life!

 

so right !!! :)

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To backup this fantasy, which I certainly enjoy too, is to mention that back in the early 60's, I worked in an Air Force photo lab, in Japan. This was way before copy machines and we had to 'photostat' every page that was handled by the police and OSI. There were a number of cases where some GI was caught having a young airman fuck his wife, while he watched. I know that much more happened on our base, but these were the ones the police were aware of. This could be a security issue and the reason for their interest.

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What is a women perspective in what ur all saying. as a woman I would like to know what she thinks.

 

Very important question. I can't talk for everyone but for me it all started as my wife's fantasy. I talked earlier about this in some other threads. She's has the strong and main fantasy of having sex with few guys at the same time since years before she met me. She is very submissive and is turned on by the idea of being "used" and "offered" and being fucked in front of her lover. I am very turned on by making fantasy of my lover real... and her fantasy became mine. We both have no idea if the reality will be as good and hot as we think it could be but we want to try and see. We want to try slow and it's why 3some appears as a perfect start... As soon as I feel pushing someone to do something that that someone is not so much into - or - that the someone will do "for me" I loose the desire... I'm not saying I never liked the idea of that before I met her but it was sleeping in me and she just pushed a button. It's the first time I met a girl like her we're very compatible for that and I think it raises the chance that we both will have a great experience doing it. I hope that answer your question ?

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To backup this fantasy, which I certainly enjoy too, is to mention that back in the early 60's, I worked in an Air Force photo lab, in Japan. This was way before copy machines and we had to 'photostat' every page that was handled by the police and OSI. There were a number of cases where some GI was caught having a young airman fuck his wife, while he watched. I know that much more happened on our base, but these were the ones the police were aware of. This could be a security issue and the reason for their interest.

 

that's very very interesting! thanks a lot for your post.

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I thank you for your respond, but I would like to have a woman respond to this. All of what I am hearing are coming from men. I want to know how a woman who has experienced this give me her personal feel about it. No offense!

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I thank you for your respond, but I would like to have a woman respond to this. All of what I am hearing are coming from men. I want to know how a woman who has experienced this give me her personal feel about it. No offense!

 

no offense at all ! The thread is called 'Obsessed to see my wife [...]' so mostly men will write here because it's a question men point of view. I would also very much like that 'a woman who has experienced this give me her personal feel about it' so if one is out there please post here !

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I thank you for your respond, but I would like to have a woman respond to this. All of what I am hearing are coming from men. I want to know how a woman who has experienced this give me her personal feel about it. No offense!

 

by the way is it something you would like to experience you personally? meaning : please write your feelings about it we're very interested.

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I understand why you are obsessed, it is THE most erotic experience that you will ever have.

Watching someone that you love completely lost in sexual pleasure is sooo beautiful.

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I'm the fem half of a couple....my husband loves to watch me fuck other men. He says the visual of watching me on a cock is incredibly hot to him. He's not a cuckold, no humiliation for him, he just loves to sit back, enjoy the views, and watch me enjoying myself. (I haven't done a gangbang yet...want to, but the logistics seem complicated). For me, fucking another man is double fun---I get to enjoy being with a different attractive man and tease the hell out of my man!

 

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I'm the fem half of a couple....my husband loves to watch me fuck other men. He says the visual of watching me on a cock is incredibly hot to him. He's not a cuckold, no humiliation for him, he just loves to sit back, enjoy the views, and watch me enjoying myself. (I haven't done a gangbang yet...want to, but the logistics seem complicated). For me, fucking another man is double fun---I get to enjoy being with a different attractive man and tease the hell out of my man!

 

What else do you want to know?

 

The way your husband feels is exactly how I feel about that, though my wife and I have not done anything yet, just talk. The visual, and as you describe teasing your man! That is what is so sexy about it! I fantasize about my wife fucking other people all the time, especially other men. The only way I think I would get jealous is if I thought I could possibly lose her to the other person, like they started becoming really good friends or something like that.

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I think there are a lot more husbands into watching their wives than you'd think, and it doesn't necessarily have to be the extreme "cuckold" type situation, although there are probably plenty of people into that as well. If you look around the "Net at all the wife-sharing and similar themed porn sites it tells me there are a lot of people who, although they might never act on it, find it a turn on.

 

As a single guy who has been involved with couples who share this interest, I think you just need to find the right guy. Although I have a great time with the ladies involved, I know that there are boundaries, and anyone you get involved with should know and understand that. I'm happy with making some sexy friends and can leave it at that. As long as you can screen for someone with a brain that is not going to try and see your wife alone, or fall in "love" just because they had some good sex, or do something else to make things miserable, then I'd say go for it.

 

There are plenty of single men around, you just need to pick the right one who you can communicate with to really know if they get the lifestyle or not.

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    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
    • By KatrinaandDriverX
      For me, it's not about having sex or sex acts or multiple partners. It is about 'feeding' different aspects of my personality, occasionally, in diverse ways with sex. It transcends role playing, it's a sexual moment as I'm giving, yielding, engaging and driving my partner(s) into an exquisite moment. To build them up, for the men to enter me in a pure moment that thrills or kissing a woman with tongues plunging deeply. I love it when someone I may have just met can surrender to me and I to them. Then, once we're done that it's perfectly alright to go to the next partner and, who knows, have that same person again later that night (or not). Or, if it's simply to play with another couple, have the sex with the husband be so great that the wife thanks me. Then, of course, there's the knowledge of my husband having another girl, whether it be a wife  or innocent bystander, knowing she just might be asking herself if watching me fuck means my husband must be amazing (he is). 
    • By SwingersBoard
      My story is about my ex-wife and myself and one of the adventures including my best friend. She was a quiet woman, but the quiet ones can be very wild. We had our first threesome shortly after our first child was born.
       
      We had been partying and all of us were feeling pretty good. Christen and I had a few encounters with my friend Jeff. On this particular night, she came up to me and kissed me while I was looking in the fridge. Some of our guests were laughing and joking in the other room. I gave her that glance that she knew I was asking if she wanted to have a smaller, more private party. She shook her head yes, sucked my tongue into her mouth, and went back into the other room. The party started winding down another hour or so later, and as the last of the guest were leaving my wife went upstairs. Just Jeff and I remained downstairs. I asked if he was ready for another party and he was. He always was with her. She isn't overly pretty or have that model body, but she could certainly fuck good. We went upstairs and found her in the bedroom.
       
      We both went over, me stripping off my clothes while Jeff just climbed onto the bed. My wife then rolled towards him and they started kissing. I just sat on the edge of the bed watching them, stroking my dick. I was so hard. I watched her unzip his pants and pull them down with his help. Once free of his pants the shirt came off. He laid on his side and she went down and took his cock into her mouth. She sucked the head nice and slow, running her tongue all over it. I heard him moan and then watched as he reached into her panties he started rubbing her clit. My cock was hard than granite at this point. I was stroking myself pretty good by this point, but was waiting for more action before I joined in. I saw her wrap her hand around his cock and pump it while she sucked him in over and over again. I reached over and pulled her panties down her legs and off. She wasn't wearing a bra so when I helped her out of her shirt, her breasts were free for the taking.
       
      They moved into the center of the bed, with him on his back. She again sucked his cock a few more times and then started to position herself above him. Straddling his body she reached down and grabbed his hard cock and aimed it at her pussy. I moved around the bed and watched as she lowered herself onto his pole. Slowly the head disappeared and inch by inch she took him until he was in balls deep. She ground on him for a few minutes, slowly gaining speed. My cock was ready to burst. I almost lose my mind when I see her fucking him on top. She really loves to be in control too. He was sucking her breasts and she was moaning really loud. She knows that I love to do her doggy style, but I thought that she had too much on her mind to stop in the middle of this and let me take her.
       
      To my surprise, she pulled herself off and started sucking him again between his spread legs. She rarely will suck any dick after she has ridden it for a while since she doesn't like the taste of her pussy, but she was sucking again with a passion. Her ass was sticking high in the air, with her back arched. I saw this as my invitation, and crawled on my knees up behind her, he with one stroke I was in the wettest, loosest pussy I have been in. I love the feel of her pussy after someone else has been in it for a while. I usually cum within a few minutes, but I guess my cock was extra hard from watching for so long. Also, I hadn't expected her to ride him so quickly which added to me being turned on so much. I was fucking her with long, hard, deep strokes. Fucking with a power that only sharing her with another man can give me. After a mind blowing 15 minutes, she slammed back at me real hard and I started cumming inside of her. I have to keep pumping until my orgasm is finished.
       
      I rolled over and she rolled off of him and in between us on the bed. We all fell asleep, but I was awaken to the bed moving. She was again riding his cock, but she was lying down flat on him. I started to jerk off at the sight of what I was witnessing. I heard her start to moan and soon she was cumming. She rode him a few more minutes until he too had finished letting loose another load of sperm in my wife. I came shortly afterwards all over my stomach. When we awoke in the morning, everyone had those morning after thoughts of what we had done. I left to take a shower and when I came back I noticed she was again blowing him through the crack in the door. I just watched as she sucked him for 20 minutes or so. Eventually, he groaned and filled her mouth with cum. She got off the bed heading to the bathroom I guess to spit the load in the sink. But as she went by she said I darling, kissed me and continued on her way. I couldn't believe she actually swallowed his load. Something she never had done with me.
       
      The next night I had to work and the three of us got it on just an hour before I was leaving. When I left I had cum and showered quickly. Leaving Jeff and my wife to fuck the rest of the night away. The next morning when he came to work we passed each other smiling in the hallway. I went home that morning to a very tired wife. She told me she loved getting fucked by other men.
       
      We divorced about six years later, but I have many fond memories of her sucking and fucking other men. I used to let her go out to get fucked by someone she had met in a bar. But, that is another story. I wish my current fiance would let another man fuck her, but she so far, isn't into it and I'm not pushing. These stories fill my need to have MFM threesomes. There is nothing like watching your woman with another man.
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