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  1. #1
    Iím just curious on what the general though is on what H/W/P on average would be. Is there a weight limit or is it more of a look scale?


  2. #2
    When you see HWP, it doesn't come with measurements. It's code that they think they are fit, sexy, and beautiful people. You can also see that they might label themselves sexy and hot. Their profile name might show they are self described. While it may not apply to all, think about it, if that's their lead, they have a very high opinion of themselves. Some do it to draw attention because they need it, to live every day, others do it because they think sex is attached to body shape...both will probably be shit in bed.
    "Never marry a woman that spends more time preparing for work, than she does getting ready for bed"

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    Swingers Board Addict adamgunn's Avatar
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    I believe that HWP is simply a synonym for "We're not obese." I've known many an HWP person who was quite fun between the sheets.

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    H/W/P is somewhat subjective with couples we've met. For us it means that we have some kind of shape (male=shoulders wider than waist, waist more narrow than hips, Hips smaller than shoulder. It also means a belly that doesn't have to be lifted and moved from 1 side to the other to see his dick.) Woman= shoulders that the form can be seen, boobs that are not overshadowed by belly rolls, hips that aren"t wider than shoulders and thighs that can open sufficiently to accommodate a H/W/P male). We are just not sexually attracted to obese people and stating that we are, by our admittedly subjective standard, a H/W/P couple and look for the same seems far more kind than posting that we're not sexually interested in BBWs or in men who haven't actually seen their penis since college.
    In response to Fullswap, we don't look at ourselves as "fit sexy and beautiful people" although truth be told, to my prejudiced eye, Mrs Doc IS very sexy and beautiful. We both work to stay reasonably fit and attractive by our personal definition and those are the kinds of couples we seek for playmates.

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    Swingers Board Addict Emt's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by padoc View Post
    H/W/P is somewhat subjective with couples we've met. For us it means that we have some kind of shape (male=shoulders wider than waist, waist more narrow than hips, Hips smaller than shoulder. It also means a belly that doesn't have to be lifted and moved from 1 side to the other to see his dick.) Woman= shoulders that the form can be seen, boobs that are not overshadowed by belly rolls, hips that aren"t wider than shoulders and thighs that can open sufficiently to accommodate a H/W/P male). We are just not sexually attracted to obese people and stating that we are, by our admittedly subjective standard, a H/W/P couple and look for the same seems far more kind than posting that we're not sexually interested in BBWs or in men who haven't actually seen their penis since college.
    In response to Fullswap, we don't look at ourselves as "fit sexy and beautiful people" although truth be told, to my prejudiced eye, Mrs Doc IS very sexy and beautiful. We both work to stay reasonably fit and attractive by our personal definition and those are the kinds of couples we seek for playmates.
    While some may feel differently, I greatly appreciate this level of detail and explanation. Although when googling it, it does give examples with size charts. The more I immerse myself in the culture of swinging the more confident I feel about us meeting other couples and not being so self-conscious about the fact that neither one of us has a 6 pack.

    However, as I shared in another thread yesterday, my attraction and connection with another person has less to do with weight/looks and a hell of a lot more to do with whether or not we can have flowing and enjoyable dialogue and chemistry on that social level.

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    Quote Originally Posted by padoc View Post
    “to my prejudiced eye, Mrs Doc IS very sexy and beautiful.
    Padoc, you have posted a couple of photos on the board of Mr. Doc and anyone who’s seen those images would totally agree with your assessment of her. She is indeed sexy and beautiful.

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    Swingers Board Addict couplers's Avatar
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    This is what I had from long ago and use as my target. I struggle, but have fortunately been able to stay at the lower end of the range for my height.

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    5' 0"
    95 - 117 lbs. 5' 0"
    90 - 110 lbs.
    5' 1"
    101 - 123 lbs. 5' 1"
    95 - 116 lbs.
    5' 2"
    106 - 130 lbs. 5' 2"
    99 - 121 lbs.
    5' 3"
    112 - 136 lbs. 5' 3"
    104 - 127 lbs.
    5' 4"
    117 - 143 lbs. 5' 4"
    108 - 132 lbs.
    5' 5"
    122 - 150 lbs. 5' 5"
    113 - 138 lbs.
    5' 6"
    128 - 156 lbs. 5' 6"
    117 - 143 lbs.
    5' 7"
    133 - 163 lbs. 5' 7"
    122 - 149 lbs.
    5' 8"
    139 - 169 lbs. 5' 8"
    126 - 154 lbs.
    5' 9"
    144 - 176 lbs. 5' 9"
    131 - 160 lbs.
    5' 10"
    149 - 183 lbs. 5' 10"
    135 - 165 lbs.
    5' 11"
    155 - 189 lbs. 5' 11"
    140 - 171 lbs.
    6' 0"
    160 - 196 lbs. 6' 0"
    144 - 176 lbs.
    6' 1"
    166 - 202 lbs. 6' 1"
    149 - 182 lbs.
    6' 2"
    171 - 209 lbs. 6' 2"
    153 - 187 lbs.
    6' 3"
    176 - 216 lbs. 6' 3"
    158 - 193 lbs.
    6' 4"
    182 - 222 lbs. 6' 4"
    162 - 198 lbs.
    6' 5"
    187 - 229 lbs. 6' 5"
    167 - 204 lbs.
    6' 6"
    193 - 235 lbs. 6' 6"
    171 - 209 lbs.
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    198 - 242 lbs. 6' 7"
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    6' 8"
    203 - 249 lbs. 6' 8"
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    6' 9"
    209 - 255 lbs. 6' 9"
    185 - 226 lbs.
    6' 10"
    214 - 262 lbs. 6' 10"
    189 - 231 lbs.

  8. #8
    IMHO and experience - anyone who feels the need to state that in their profile has issues. We love being with people based on their sex drive. Barbie and Ken can fuck off - they usually turn out to be duds when the clothes come off!

  9. #9
    Current photos are usually sufficient to assess body size and proportion. One of our "pet peeves" involves meeting a couple that bears no resemblance to their photos, irrespective of "HWP" claims. Everyone has access to a camera, uploads are easy, and the images can certainly be anonymized. There is difference between putting one's best {your body part here} forward with good lighting and dress, and continuing to feature photos that are 10 years old and 50# lighter. We'll take truth-in-advertising for $1000, Alex...


  10. #10
    My (ozzie) idea of height weight proportionate is pretty much a size 4-6 max, depending on height.

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