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I've been told by several men that I have a tight pussy. The first time I heard that I was quite surprised as I have had 2 children and thought I was probably otherwise. The first saying this was quite large in girth....7 x 6 1/2". I'd never been with a man that thick and the first time I saw him, I blurted out, "It's a damn tree trunk!" He was flattered.....but I was concerned it would fit.....thankfully it did. So I thought him saying I was tight was simply because of the size difference between us. He had been a swinger in the 70s and said there was only one woman he remembered and it was because she was tight, and I was the same.

 

But others have been average and said the same. My Love is not average...at least I don't think so.... 7 1/2 by 5 1/2 ...and he is perfect for me. He also says my pussy is tight.

 

Anyway, I would like men's opinions on our 'opening', and like the questions regarding a man's equipment, does a woman's size matter?

 

My guy was with one lady who was just so loose/large that nothing happened and he had to stop...no friction...which surprised him as she was quite petite.

 

As an aside...For fun I took a photo of my guy's erect penis. One day my SIL was looking at photos from a European trip I'd just taken. Sitting beside her I saw that the next image was going to be of that perfect dick...she looked so surprised when I grabbed the iPad from her so quickly...TMI for my SIL!!!!

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Yes, it does but it is only a part of whole picture. The woman of the fwb we have had sex with is very tight, even when fingering.

 

MsD is much wider. Fucking is not like, as a Dutch saying goes, 'throwing a saussage into the hallway'. But I am a large man with large hands and occasionally I fist MsD, much to her delight. The girlfriend can only take four fingers. So I expect much more friction if I ever get the chance of fucking her.

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I think it's a factor...tightness vs looseness. I am not exactly sure what is too tight and too loose. I have had tighter ones and certainly really loose ones. The two women that I distinctly remember being really loose have amazing sexual reactions, and it was great. I mean I've never had too tight or too loose?!?! Personality, body type, enthusiasm all play a major role in an unforgettable experience.

 

If you want me to blow my load while fucking, smile at me, I love that!!

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I can tell you that there are as many different "sizes" of a woman that there are (presumably since I'm not a woman) as men. In my experience, smaller, "skinnier" , women always felt "looser" than "bigger" women.

 

It's that perfect fit and the right emotions, that makes an experience memorable.

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Yes, I think to most men, it comes in two sizes, tight or "stretched-out.” and they tend to associate the sizes with age more than body type or other factors.

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(Mr. CoupleInMD79 here) I have seldom met a pussy I didn't like! For nearly all of my "close encounters", I've experienced pussies somewhere in the "sufficiently tight" to "holy shit you're so tight" range. I figure that if the woman's pussy is not tight enough to give me a good squeezing during our activity, it's because I haven't done a proper job of getting her excited and engorged before intercourse. There are muscles and blood vessels all around there, after all!

 

One important point about very tight pussies. As much as it's a lot of fun to play with a woman with a very tight pussy, it's also important to make sure the area is very well lubricated, naturally or with added lube. The penalty can be some uncomfortable chafing... don't ask me how I know...

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One important point about very tight pussies. As much as it's a lot of fun to play with a woman with a very tight pussy, it's also important to make sure the area is very well lubricated, naturally or with added lube. The penalty can be some uncomfortable chafing... don't ask me how I know...

 

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Pardon me, but is this trip necessary? A vagina is capable of expelling a child, and can recover sufficient elasticity to pick up a lead pencil. I would venture to say that the "tightness' issue is actually a "non" issue. There are genuine issues and there are bogus ones, this is of the later variety. LOL

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Pardon me, but is this trip necessary? A vagina is capable of expelling a child, and can recover sufficient elasticity to pick up a lead pencil. I would venture to say that the "tightness' issue is actually a "non" issue. There are genuine issues and there are bogus ones, this is of the later variety. LOL

 

So are we to assume that penis size isn't an issue as well? Because I can assure you it is an issue for some people. :)

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Genital size is only an issue for the insecure. Regardless of the gender of the genitals.

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My $.02 - It doesn't really matter during routine swinging, and I do not like being asked "Am I tight (enough)?" This is a variation of "Do these pants make my bottom look fat?" If we are both enjoying ourselves, the question is meaningless. That being said, from a pure lust/kink standpoint, I prefer big loose pussies and easy entry bottoms (I am not well endowed).

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Looking at it from a slightly different perspective..... yes. If you are Long Dong Silver and she can't stretch that big, it matters. Ouch!

 

Otherwise, I think it is just another falsehood popularized by commercial porn.

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Only matters if I'm not enjoying myself. But if its feelin good, no worries. I've been with a really lose woman, and yes it is like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. Not bad sex but not great sex either.

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I dated a girl back in the early 90s that had what could probably be termed as a sloppy pussy. Not only was it really loose, but it would become seriously wet. She was great in bed though and I'd have to say was my second favorite sex partner, right behind Mrs Marcus. I would hint about doing some exercises, but she'd always shrug it off and just say, "Nah"

 

On a side note she also had a very loose ass. The first time we had anal it kind of freaked me out how it pretty much swallowed my penis. I wasn't complaining, but I wondered how many had been there before.

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I dated a girl back in the early 90s that had what could probably be termed as a sloppy pussy. Not only was it really loose, but it would become seriously wet. She was great in bed though and I'd have to say was my second favorite sex partner, right behind Mrs Marcus. I would hint about doing some exercises, but she'd always shrug it off and just say, "Nah"

 

On a side note she also had a very loose ass. The first time we had anal it kind of freaked me out how it pretty much swallowed my penis. I wasn't complaining, but I wondered how many had been there before.

 

It was probably more her general muscle tone than extensive prior experience. Some people have low muscle tone or looser connective tissue throughout their bodies.

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It was probably more her general muscle tone than extensive prior experience. Some people have low muscle tone or looser connective tissue throughout their bodies.

 

You are probably correct. She was a very tiny girl, but I don't think she ever did any kind of exercise. In general her body tone was poor, but man could she screw!

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One woman I have been with was seriously concerned about how tight she was (or wasn't). I told her that all I needed was enough friction for me to enjoy (and she had more than enough) and I had no complaints. Once she was comfortable with this she would come SO HARD that it forced me out of her. Imaging a hole there one minute and gone the next. No loose at all.

 

Isn't 'am I tight enough' the female equivalent to 'am I big enough'? 99.9% size isn't really an issue...(unless it's too big and doesn't fit).

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You are probably correct. She was a very tiny girl, but I don't think she ever did any kind of exercise. In general her body tone was poor, but man could she screw!

 

Best exercise known to mankind!

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I love big loose pussy. I love the way it caresses my dick, I also love the thought that it might have been stretched out by a lot of big cocks.

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My GF had a pussy so tight that is was almost painful to come in. you had to get the pressure off the bottom of your dick so she didn't cut off the flow. After a few years though, I had her stretched out...

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I've loved every pussy I've entered. All different sizes and types and they all made me cum, so I think there can be no complaining if you came.

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Yes, pussy size does matter. My cock is average size (6.5 X 5 inches). The pussies of women I have been with that have not had children were tight on my cock, felt great, and made me cum fairly quick. In general, women who have had children have had pussies that were looser on my cock, and I did not cum as quickly.

 

One of my FWB swing partners was a petite Asian who had never had children. Her pussy was very tight on my cock. When we swung, most guys whom she had sex with came very quickly, several after only 10 to 12 strokes, during their first round with her. They would usually apologize saying, "Sorry, I could not hold back; you were so tight."

 

With several of the women who had children and had loose pussies, I took too long to cum. I frequently ended up asking them to roll onto their side while we were having sex. That usually made their pussies feel tighter and made me cum.

 

One female had four children and her pussy was very loose, resulting in me having sex with her for an hour or so before I could cum. Then she had a vaginoplasty and labiaplasty. The difference was amazing. Her pussy looked and felt like the pussy of the Asian FWB partner, and during the first round of sex I could never last more than a few minutes.

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Structurally and biologically it doesn't matter. It is only a perception. What matters is how much work has gone into preparing it for entry? Tight may be pleasing to a dick, but i fit is an unprepared dry pussy, it may hurt the woman. If the guy has worked well on making me ready, I can make it tight by pulling my muscles inside. But , if the guy hasn't worked on it, I would rather throw him out than worry about what he thinks.

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As a woman, when with another women the question is "how many fingers?"  I've never run out of fingers on one hand.  Actually my technique is mouth on her clit, one finger in her bum, and however many in her vagina.

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Men often tell me I'm tight but I think it's because I delivered my kids by c section.  

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22 hours ago, njbm said:

It would be a better world if people related to their sexual partners as a person and took less measurement of boobs, vaginas and penises. Part of the fun is the variation. 

 

When we read profiles that say the guy has to be so many inches and he has to be able to perform, we know they are not the people for us. 

Totally Agree on this!

 

 

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On 5/21/2020 at 10:20 AM, MarniJohn said:

Men often tell me I'm tight but I think it's because I delivered my kids by c section.  

We women in our family have pushed all our children through our "birth canal," something we laugh about since it is such a strange euphemism.  Is "vagina" really offensive to anyone?  And to call it a "canal?"  It's more a tunnel, call it the "birth tunnel" or "birth tube."

 

Anyway, I was afraid that childbirth would make me loose, but from self-examination and what I've been told, that isn't the case.  I agree with the people who say it is more muscle tone than the size of the vagina, it's all scrunched up ready to expand, it's how hard a woman can scrunch it.  It's also possible that men are happy to put their dick in there even if it is a little loose and they're just lying not to start an argument, but either way it isn't a problem.

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We have a good friend we used to play with who seemed  to have a much looser pussy than my wife but it was really the fact that she got so much wetter than my wife so it only felt looser. It was still great though as all sex is.

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On 6/20/2020 at 12:13 AM, oc1234 said:

We have a good friend we used to play with who seemed  to have a much looser pussy than my wife but it was really the fact that she got so much wetter than my wife so it only felt looser. It was still great though as all sex is.

That's the way sloppy seconds feel as well, extremely slick and loose.  I've learned to love that feel and now even like a woman who has a loose vagina.  

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6 hours ago, Numex said:

That's the way sloppy seconds feel as well, extremely slick and loose.  I've learned to love that feel and now even like a woman who has a loose vagina.  

When my wife and I play with our best male friend, It has always been bareback. When we are having a MMF threesomes with him, I always like to go second because of that wonderful natural lubrication. It's so much better than anything you can buy.

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17 hours ago, oc1234 said:

I always like to go second because of that wonderful natural lubrication.

Red likes me "fresh" as he says.  Hubby is the opposite and prefers to go second, not because he says he likes the feel but because him watching me (or Lora or Clair) with someone else is more exciting for him before he orgasms rather than afterwards.  I sort of know how he feels, but it just gets me excited again quickly to watch.

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It interesting that whilst there has been considerable discussion on pussy size, nobody ever comments on its position.  The differences in positions, particularly relative to the distance between the top of the vagina and the navel, first struck me after a very pleasant evening when I was able to enjoy two ladies in quick succession.

 

The first, it turned out, had her vagina very high up the front making penetration extremely easy, and I later found that her anus was also far forward allowing anal from the missionary position.  The other was quite the opposite with the vagina far back beneath her legs, and I had to raise her arse to penetrate from the front. However, it  was very convenient and comfortable for spooning.

 

I may have been fortunate that the two ladies  that night represented the extremes, but I have since often found similar examples. Having a medical background I decided to search the medical literature, but whilst there are numerous papers on length, shape etc., there is almost nothing on position. 

 

Has anybody else found this?

 

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Sometimes when one of the guys wants "tight," Lora, Clair and I let him put it in our bum.  They don't ask all that often.

 

Another aspect of pussy size is length.  A long dick in a short vagina can bottom out and be painful.  

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On ‎7‎/‎7‎/‎2020 at 10:08 AM, sandyman6900 said:

,,,Has anybody else found this?

 

Yes. For some women, I put a pillow under their butt. For a woman whose vaginal open is more toward her south pole, coitus with her on-top is more comfortable.

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6 minutes ago, SW_PA_Couple said:

For a woman whose vaginal open is more toward her south pole,

My vagina is my South Pole.  It's my only pole, I have no North, East, or West Pole.  And it is magnetic.

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17 minutes ago, SW_PA_Couple said:

For some women, I put a pillow under their butt.

My butt is skinny so if it's not doggy or female superior, I usually put a pillow underneath for missionary.  Clair and Lora have nice bums and don't need a pillow.  If I recall correctly, a line from the August Wilson play "Jitney" after one fellow tells another that his girl has a big butt he replies, "It's more cushion for the pushin', like riding on Goodyear."

 

Or maybe it was "Fences."  I'm too lazy to look it up.

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I get the "your pussy is tight" comment a lot also, and it always surprises me too, for the same reason, two kids.  So whenever a guy says "Wow your pussy is tight", I always laugh and say "well you should have fucked her when I was in my twenties, cause that pussy would have crushed your dick.  ????? 

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As for me, I enjoy more to fuck my wife's pussy when it's getting loosen up. Her pussy normally is pretty tight at start but eventually loosens up after she got horny or after took cock for a while. 

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On 8/13/2015 at 10:49 AM, Daphne said:

"Does pussy size matter?"

There's another aspect to this question - does the size of the external parts of a woman's pussy matter?

 

Both Clair and Lora have "dainty" pussies, everything is fits together nicely and neat.  I OTOH, have large inner lips (long, but not "meaty") that protrude way beyond my outer lips, which themselves are bigger than normal.  And to top it off, my clit is enormous and sticks out from my labia majora as well.  It all sometimes makes for bathing suit problems.

 

My older sister used to call me a freak and say I wasn't totally a girl.  It didn't help that I'm scrawny with no tits.

 

It ultimately brought my confidence back that both the men and women who I love like it down there with their mouths and dicks and fingers.  And all that equipment works great for me.

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Pussy size matters to me as much as cock size matters to her!  That is not at all.  
 

As long as people do something about the things that are in their control like their weight and their health we don’t care what size their sex organs are.  If they are a passionate enthusiast lover we will get off.

 

Missus enhancer is incredibly tight when we get started, but is also multi orgasmic so by the time she has cum multiple times she is completely wet and it isn’t so tight anymore. Makes no difference to me.  

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4 hours ago, couplers said:

There's another aspect to this question - does the size of the external parts of a woman's pussy matter?

 

Both Clair and Lora have "dainty" pussies, everything is fits together nicely and neat.  I OTOH, have large inner lips (long, but not "meaty") that protrude way beyond my outer lips, which themselves are bigger than normal.  And to top it off, my clit is enormous and sticks out from my labia majora as well.  It all sometimes makes for bathing suit problems.

 

My older sister used to call me a freak and say I wasn't totally a girl.  It didn't help that I'm scrawny with no tits.

 

It ultimately brought my confidence back that both the men and women who I love like it down there with their mouths and dicks and fingers.  And all that equipment works great for me.

I'd love to see that!

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19 hours ago, Baconheads said:

I'd love to see that!

Perhaps some day, you will.  You may think that it's beautiful or not, but either way you'll agree that it's a wonder.

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