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Date with a Bull

I had an experience last night that will definitely be my memoir if I ever sit still long enough to write one. Fox was out of town for an extended period of time, and this happens to be the first and only time that we have spent a significant amount of time away from each other since we have been together. I honestly enjoy spending as much time with him as possible. This is the first time in my life that I can say that I thoroughly enjoy my partner. Man, if I knew then what I know now, but c’est
 

Why I don't masturbate...

Fox finds it very odd that I don't like to masturbate. It was never something that I did at all but I didn't think it was abnormal until we started talking more about it. I am currently reading Shameless: A Sexual Reformation by Nadia Bolz-weber and suddenly everything makes sense to me now. I am from a small Texas town where there is literally a church on every corner; religion, Christianity to be specific, is the way of life. During my adolescence I went to church every Wednesday and Sunday, m
 

Jealousy, What A Bitch!

I can't be the only one this has ever happened to... our old friend jealousy came to visit me recently and that made me say some things in a manner that was not reflective of my true feelings resulting in a bit of damage in my relationship. During a play session with another couple I noticed that my partner was doing things with our lady friend that he hasn't done with me in a while. So instead of doing the right thing and communicating effectively about it I went about it completely wrong and d

KinkyKoachNSilverFox

KinkyKoachNSilverFox

 

Life of the Party!!

On Saturday Fox and I  went to a house party for St. Patrick's Day with people we had never met before, which was completely outside of my comfort zone, but hell we only live once, right!  Considering we are quickly becoming more public on our journey I need to become more comfortable with partying with new friends. We dressed up and walked into that party as if we had been there many times before. Fox tends to own any room he walks into for several reasons; his stunning looks, his strong mascul

KinkyKoachNSilverFox

KinkyKoachNSilverFox

 

Revelations from Play

I, as in Stephanie, had a very interesting weekend experience that caused me to learn so much about myself.  Fox and I went on a date with a fun and sexy couple that we met on one of our websites. The date started out as usual, getting to know each other, a bit of verbal flirting and moved into us getting a hotel room.  I won’t go into much detail other than it wasn't a terrible experience between me and the guy but it wasn't as much as I would have liked for it to have been. He was a great guy,

KinkyKoachNSilverFox

KinkyKoachNSilverFox

 

Cherish the time time you had, instead of thinking about what you don't.

Ok. Hi. I'm not even sure how to start this. Ugh.  Ok. Here it comes. Brace yourself ? Hi. My name is missy. Today is the first day I came across this site and boy am I glad I did. I'm not only new to the site, I'm new to the lifestyle as well.  There was a turning point in my life about a year ago and when I came out holding my head up high, I just idk I started looking at life differently. I started to Appreciated the little things. Like the sunset, and the sound of children pla

Mlw

Mlw

 

Hilton Head, a hulliva(n) Island

On our auto trip south we decided to stop at Hilton Head Island for a few days. We chose a resort that was advertising a special price. It is right on a white, sandy beach and we walked every day up and down the beach in bright sun and 70-degree weather. The water temperature was 43 so that was out of the question but weather was 40 degrees warmer than our Pennsylvania home.   I have sometime scoffed at the stories of you swingers picking up people in bars but I will no longer scoff. JoAnn mad

SW_PA_Couple

SW_PA_Couple

 

New York, New York, a helluva town.

Our adventure in New York City is over and we loved it:   The hotel that was recommended to us by out Hollywood daughter and son-in-law, the Library Hotel at Madison Avenue and 41st street, is charming, accommodating, and close to two different subway stations; walking distance to Times Square, Empire State Building, and Rockefeller Center. They had their own area for their guests to stand for the New Year's Eve celebrations. JoAnn bravely followed me as we navigated the subway system to the Am

SW_PA_Couple

SW_PA_Couple

 

What! On a billboard!

My wife and I were driving though eastern Kansas near St. Joe MO it had been a long day driving from Colorado Springs. Suddenly there was a billboard which read Do you have a hot wife? I looked again and yes it did say that! Then at the bottom it read call .... heating and air. Well we laughed about that all the way to our hotel.

Auroran

Auroran

 

November 1, a nexus

November 1 twenty years ago, three big events: JoAnn and I were married at a private room of a local restaurant, family and close friends with us; I had started my first day with my new employer; we were spending our first night in our newly-purchased suburban house.   This upcoming November 1, Wednesday, will by my last day at the office before my retirement and the day of our wedding anniversary. We will return to the same restaurant for an anniversary dinner. The first twenty years of our

SW_PA_Couple

SW_PA_Couple

 

AFF and the single guy introductions!

So I I been thinking about the responses I been getting on aff a lot lately. mostly the single guys.   I wish they would use their brains and realize that if you wouldn't whip out your cock in person to a pretty lady, why would you do that online? If I want to see it, I can ask. also, most the time they already have these same pics available on their profile!   Crazed sends this message back "congratulations, you have a cock, I got one too"   It's so annoying. now, Im a country m

SASS

SASS

 

sick, dreams of Mermaids and addiction wtf?

so I have been sick for a month now struggling to get well. I posted on here about three weeks aga about the sti, from that point of taking the medication for it, I have been sick. I had a cold and also an oral yeast and after the medication, my cold just go worse. i just finished a round of antibiotics and now am afraid that they are making me sick from over use, but I also don't feel Like I am equipped to fight without them. anywho, I feel like that is related to my dream I had last nig

SASS

SASS

 

Friends with benefits and a drama box.

so we finally decided to meet someone new from AFF. we met at local bar and bonded over the crappy karaoke singing going on that night. we talked for several hours and never once was it about sex. it was really refreshing. a couple times when I brought up drama, he told me to imagine a box, put that stuff inside, and kick it across the room....it isn't welcome here tonight....I like this analogy a lot. I told him not to kick it across the room just yet, because we might need to put mor

SASS

SASS

 

Moonlight and hot tub

My wife and I are sitting unclothed out on the covered, screened-in deck of our rented mountain cabin after about twenty minutes in the hot tub. Our two cabin mates are having noisy sex in their second-level room. We all plan to get together a little later for a game of Fast Track. Then we might have another dance of four-person Horizontal Mambo.   This week-long gathering of 64 couples of the Senior Travel Club has thus far been fabulous. My wife and I have both made new intimate acquaintance

SW_PA_Couple

SW_PA_Couple

 

looking inside myself

It's been a few months since the bomb was dropped, and both of us have had to wake up to the facts that surround us. On a positive note i've stopped my rambling and imaginary conversations whilst crashing my way around the house. Both of us have had to wake up to the fact that we are where we are in our 16 year marraige. Whilst I can't speak for him, I can say that for myself i find myself in love with a man in fact the same man that I marreid 16 years ago with whom intimacy is difficult, Sex

Glida

Glida

 

A little drama and a lot of fun!

Just need to get these gripes outta my system....crazed can't stay faithful when there is distance between us. He does not keep his rendezvous from me for long and usually tells me everything. He is weak. I am considering making this much easier by giving him an ongoing hall pass providing he follow some very simple rules I will make to help keep my security needs. I don't see his pattern being like others that I have read about. when I read about serial cheaters...he doesn't fit in except

SASS

SASS

 

My Sex Addict: Anger, resentment, I don't know what to call this!

I'm walking around the house washing dishes having conversations with myself. Frustrated and angry ramblings about how sucky the situation is.   He said to me the other day, 'We should get back into the scene...things used to be sexier" I mean jesus what fucking planet! Sexier?? for who?? I certainly didn't feel sexy and what he was doing for sure wasn't giving him any kind of sexual satisfaction. Maybe he's talking about that cloud of delusion he lived under dreaming about the chances of

Glida

Glida

 

My Sex Addict

It got so much worse towards the end. If I had thought he couldn't see me in the beginning, approaching the end I was totally invisible. Trapped in a body being played with, trying to connect my mind to what was going on outside and feel something.... anything. I used to think it was me, low libido, not turned on anymore, maybe I'm approaching menopause or a hormone imbalance is making me feel less... yet I could eventually see that it wasn't me. I felt unseen and irrelevant in his latest fan

Glida

Glida

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