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    Default Bi solution to jealousy?

    Hello all. So I will caveat before I begin.
    Assuming the couple:
    1. Has a strong and healthy relationship
    2. Good communicators
    3. Attention isn't an issue

    Is it safe to say being bi can mitigate the potential for jealousy in certain scenarios?

    I ask as there is a mutual appreciation for the sexual object. Example: I have friends that are female and say...i would be devastated if he grabbed her boobs. I have a bi female friend like. No they are nice #$% I want to grab them!

    Or another issue where a couple told me how he was in admiration of his wife's bj prowess ...and envious he couldnt join in.

    Thoughts?


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    Default Re: Bi solution to jealousy?

    The bi situations you reference sound more like envy than jealousy, where the vanilla "I'd be devastated if he grabbed her boobs" is pure jealousy and I think has little to do with sexual orientation. Though, I think bi people may "get" it more than many vanillas because they have needs that they would like to fulfill with the other gender (even if they don't).
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    Default Re: Bi solution to jealousy?

    Astute point westernswing! Barring the envy vs. jealousy comment do you think being attracted to the same object (for lack of a better word) breeds understanding? Or am I just really off base and have no clue (which is very well the case lol)!

    Inquiring rookie swingers want to know !?!?!

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