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    Default Re: I am Bi, why do straight guys contact me?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lascivious L&L View Post
    What I find sad and quite irritating is someone trying to tell me whether I am bi or not. If you have the belief that if I suck cock I'm bi, that's your belief, not mine.
    'I didn't event English'...great but obscure Archer line...I mean you can be upset about it, but the term is there for everybody to understand...guess your not flying your rainbow flag?

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    Default Re: I am Bi, why do straight guys contact me?

    Because they're not straight. I get it all the time. Married men with profiles that say they're straight then the next thing is they're telling me they're not.

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    Default Re: I am Bi, why do straight guys contact me?

    Bottom line is there is not a lot of good social capital you are going to get from being a Bi guy. A Bi girl, woohoo, what party do you want to got to, a bi guy, meh.

    I keep myself on the DL, I just don't list my sexual orientation in ads, not that I really use them anyway.

    I am also not really seeking men, but hey if a good one comes along why not! ;-)

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    Default Re: I am Bi, why do straight guys contact me?

    The term is not understood by everyone, that's the whole point. If you read this entire thread, it's clear different people have different meanings for the term bi. It is probably one of the least understood sexual terms, though it has plenty of competition in not well understood sexual terms. So if there are many different meanings for this term bi, why not pay attention to what the person says they mean by bi rather than telling us what everyone SHOULD mean by bi???

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    Default Re: I am Bi, why do straight guys contact me?

    Maybe I'm not Bi. Maybe I'm bi-curious. Maybe I'm really a straight guy that wonders what it's like to have a dick in my mouth. I'm not really sure. I'll just wait and see. I'll respond to everyone that contacts me and find out when the time comes. I guess I just don't understand why the attitude toward Bi men is as it is.
    Maybe I'll change my heading in my profile. Fortunately my desires don't change with the profile.

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    Default Re: I am Bi, why do straight guys contact me?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lascivious L&L View Post
    The term is not understood by everyone, that's the whole point. If you read this entire thread, it's clear different people have different meanings for the term bi. It is probably one of the least understood sexual terms, though it has plenty of competition in not well understood sexual terms. So if there are many different meanings for this term bi, why not pay attention to what the person says they mean by bi rather than telling us what everyone SHOULD mean by bi???
    Good point.

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    Default Re: I am Bi, why do straight guys contact me?

    Quote Originally Posted by kikonkrome View Post
    Bottom line is there is not a lot of good social capital you are going to get from being a Bi guy. A Bi girl, woohoo, what party do you want to got to, a bi guy, meh.
    I found there is. Am approached by couples who want a bi male to share, & occasional single women who enjoy seeing & participating in m/m sexuality. Were I 42 or 52 vs 62 I suspect a lot more couples would be inviting me, & probably if I had a regular female partner for these soirees.

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    Default Re: I am Bi, why do straight guys contact me?

    I get straight guys contacting me A LOT! Married, single, those with girlfriends. I think there's tons of guys looking to explore out there but are afraid given the negative stigma people place on bi or bicurious men(they're closet gay gays, etc)
    " A girl's legs are her best friends, but the best of friends must part". -R. Foxx


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    Default Re: I am Bi, why do straight guys contact me?

    Our profile lists us both as been "Bi-Curious" and preferably we would like to meet other Bi-Curious / Bisexual people which is for a variety of reasons, we clearly state in our profile that we would like to meet other Bi-Curious / Bisexual people but straight men message us ALL THE TIME.

    Perhaps the biggest reason I don't like playing with straight men is that I had a rather nasty experience with a straight male which happened some years ago now. Me and my girlfriend at the time met a straight guy and decided to give a MFM threesome a try with him and basically by the word "Straight" he actually meant massively homophobic / scared of been near another naked man / not wanting to be in the same room as another naked man / not wanting to share anything whatsoever with another man / and you could also add rude, offensive, and dangerous on top of that list.

    Me and my girlfriend invited him into bed and he was nervous / on edge / paranoid because I was there (another man) then once we did start playing it just became stupidly impossible because he said:

    "I'm not kissing HER now, because you have kissed her, I don't want to touch the lips where another mans lips have been"

    "I'm not touching HER vagina because you have put your dick in there"

    "I am not giving HER oral sex because your lips have touched her vagina"

    This other man didn't even want me there at all, all he actually wanted was to fuck my girlfriend and he would have been happier if I suddenly fell off the planet just so he could have his sex.

    He then proceeded to stalk my girlfriend and try and steal her form me which turned into her been stalked for over 2 months.

    Some years later we also had a very brief encounter with another straight male and he was very similar, he refused to give my girlfriend oral sex because I had given her oral sex first, he then totally refused to try DP because he didn't was his dick to be anywhere near mine.

    In my experience "Straight Men" trying to explore MFM situations is just awkward, but sure straight men bombard us with messages despite us asking to meet Bi / Bi Curious people.


    ONE WARNING I DO HAVE IS.......

    Be careful when so called bi-curious / bisexual men message you because I have noticed a LOT of straight men read our profile and notice were looking for Bi-Curious / Bisexual people and they then change their profile to say they are bisexual. They then send us a message so we read their profile as "Bisexual" then if we don't answer about 2 or 3 days later they change their profile back to straight.

    I find a lot of straight men LIE about been bisexual just so they can sleep with a someones girlfriend or wife, that they advertise themselves as been bisexual and then when you do meet them and get naked in bed they suddenly become 100% straight.

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