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Ok, I do not consider myself Bi but maybe I am. Here's why: I find it extremely HOT to give a girl oral while another guy is doing her. Also like giving oral after he does her. No creampie eating. Just licking her out after good hard fucking or while he's fucking her. I also like to kiss her after she has sucked me and him off. I find a penis very attractive when it's handled by a woman. But in no way do I find being solo with a man attractive at all. I can't even think about anal giving or receiving with another guy, even with a woman present. But I have thought about licking his cock while he is doing her. Just to taste her on him...I have had a long long time ago a gay encounter and I'm 100% sure I'm not gay. I love woman and pleasing a woman or another couple. I'm not arrogant about it, it's just what turns me on. So what am I?? Help!!!

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I think it's a little bit of both.

 

You have just described very accurately my husband. He calls himself bi-curious, I call him bi. But the fact he is that he sort of likes a dick when there is a female connection with it but he wouldn't be 1:1 with a man or kiss a man. Nor could he carry a relationship with a man.

 

Sexuality is a sliding scale and not a on/off switch. He is not straight, he is not gay... he's not even quite bi. Somewhere just to the left of straight but to the right of bi lay my husband. And it sounds like you as well are about in there.

 

People like labels, although here is a great example of a sexuality not fitting a label.

 

He calls it bi-curious.

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So what am I?? Help!!!

 

After careful consideration of your situation, I've come to a diagnosis of your condition. I regret to inform you that you are suffering from a terminal case of Homo Sapienous. The condition involves walking on two legs (if you have them), being an omnivore, etc. etc.

 

Whatever you are, does it matter? Leave the labels for the tin cans. Any label anybody might be able to ascribe to you (other than human) is fraught with misconceptions, misidentification, and more. You're a person. You have certain likes and dislikes. Nothing more.

 

It's life. Enjoy it!

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Laser200-- I personally would not consider that bi, but I eschew labels anyway.

 

I happen to enjoy kissing/going down on my hubby after he's been with another woman, but that does not necessarily equate to a desire to go down on another woman. That's a whole 'nother ballgame...

 

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My husband loves that and will steal it from now on he tells me :)

 

Situationally heteroflexible.

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If you only have sexual desires for women and do not have any attraction for or desire for men you are not bi or gay.

 

Men are fascinated by cocks and like to watch cocks ejaculate...period. Even strictly heterosexual men like to see cocks get all hard and shoot.

 

Don't believe me? How popular is porn where you don't see any cocks and don't see any cumshots? Is it strictly women that are keeping the porn industry alive? Do you think all those guys buying/renting/watching porn are all gay or bi?

 

Nope, straight guys love to see dicks and straight guys love to see dicks shoot.

 

 

 

That ain't bi, that's just being a guy.

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Sweet tna --you are so right...why is it a woman can lick another woman off her hubby's cock and no one even tries to label it? When a man does it he feels hmmm OMG am I bi? I agree with most everyone here you are just YOU! NO labels necessary :)

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Forget about labels and be yourself. Swinging should be about giving and receiving pleasure. If all are comfortable with the activities, go for it. Sounds kinky and hot as hell.

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Just for the record, I'm leaning toward... you're just extra kinky :D

 

Only YOU, can say your bisexual (and to what degree) or not. :cool:

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Sounds sexy to me, I love it when my man plays a little with another guy, it makes the sex better when there are no hang ups and everyone is enjoying each other!

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I think you are just EXTREMELY comfortable with your sexuality. I like the term situationally heteroflexible.

 

By the way, what you described doing sounds freaking hot!

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Thanks for all the replies. I feel a lot better... Now if I can just my silly dick to work right next time.

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I think it's totally normal. It just shows that you are very comfortable with the couple you were joining and was having a lot of fun.

 

I find MFM threesomes where the guys are homophobic is pretty much boring and ridiculous. When I join a couple I expect to be joining both of them, and I'm 100% straight.

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A fairly accurate description of my husband too. My husband does however enjoy (very much) cream pie eating, and has licked another's cum off of my breasts a couple of times. He denies that he would like to suck off another guy and I tend to believe that. Go figure!

 

I think it's a little bit of both.

 

You have just described very accurately my husband. He calls himself bi-curious, I call him bi. But the fact he is that he sort of likes a dick when there is a female connection with it but he wouldn't be 1:1 with a man or kiss a man. Nor could he carry a relationship with a man.

 

Sexuality is a sliding scale and not a on/off switch. He is not straight, he is not gay... he's not even quite bi. Somewhere just to the left of straight but to the right of bi lay my husband. And it sounds like you as well are about in there.

 

People like labels, although here is a great example of a sexuality not fitting a label.

 

He calls it bi-curious.

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A fairly accurate description of my husband too. My husband does however enjoy (very much) cream pie eating, and has licked another's cum off of my breasts a couple of times. He denies that he would like to suck off another guy and I tend to believe that. Go figure!

 

Just totally out of curiosity, do you get turned on also when you see your husband licking another person's cum off of you?

 

I'm pretty certain that his attraction to it, is because you are involved, as opposed to licking off some plain cum. hope I made sense :)

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Creampie eating, licking cum off her breasts, and snowballing isn't really about the cum, or being bi in any form. It's all about intimacy, sharing such a closeness with your partner that her sexual experiences with another man can be a bond of intimacy between you. That the ultimate result of his orgasm with her can be shared between you, an intense connection, an act of serious intimacy even as you share others sexually.

 

That level of intimacy makes sharing cum delicious!

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Situational heteroflexibility. Love it. Still snickering. Haha. I suppose that describes me pretty well. I think someone started a trend. :p

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Mark you hit it on the head - I am totally straight - BUT- when it comes to a MFM -to me it is all is OK - no anal penetration but I'll play with the other person as the opportunity or position allows. It's not gay - it's group sex for pleasure for all.

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Agreed. I am also in the same class. I love to give my wife oral while other guy does her. I try to maintain some distance. For example, I would suck the upper part of her pussy while other guy fucks her in the lower part. Our position also helps. I lie down on my back and she goes doggy style with her pussy on my face.

 

No guy has even objected us doing this. But I notice that some guys just do their business and reduce contact as much as they could. But some make it a point to touch my face and mouth with their dicks. They would even insert their dicks my mouth for a quick second when they take it out of the pussy.

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This is a very hot topic, we started in MMF with me not doing anything with the other guy, but now I will always do oral on him. That's as far as I will go though, we both love it and haven't found a guy that objects.

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Hmmm, interesting topic. My wife and I have been talking about a possible MMF threesome for a while now and I think we're going to try one this summer. At first, I was getting excited about the possibility of just watching her with another man but the concept of full on group play never occurred to me until now. I agree with the poster who said that guys like dicks and seeing them shoot off. I consider myself straight but I do like watching cumshot vids and sometimes I'll even go out of my way to find cumshot compilations on one of the many free video sites I frequent. The idea of giving or receiving oral sex from another man seems exciting but I'm definitely not interested in anal engagement of kissing. Just not for me!

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Just someone that enjoys expanding their sexual pleasure.

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Creampie eating, licking cum off her breasts, and snowballing isn't really about the cum, or being bi in any form. It's all about intimacy, sharing such a closeness with your partner that her sexual experiences with another man can be a bond of intimacy between you. That the ultimate result of his orgasm with her can be shared between you, an intense connection, an act of serious intimacy even as you share others sexually.

 

That level of intimacy makes sharing cum delicious!

 

 

I love this description. Total and intimate sharing.

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I believe that all men are at least somewhat attracted to the good looking penises. I had my first taste of dick at a very young age. Before I hit puberty I learned to be ashamed of liking it. So I knew the pleasure of it, I didn't try to it again until I was almost 40. Now I'm in my late 50s. There's such a taboo against it a lot of women don't like it. My wife left because I was I one on my knees. She just wanted to see him suck me. But since our divorce, we had a couple more threesomes. It's not only men that make it hard for bimen to be open, but also women.

 

I will warn you that it's very addictive. Especially if you already oral. I hope to find a woman that's fine with me sucking a dick. Because now I'm comfortable being a c**********.

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I find it extremely HOT to give a girl oral while another guy is doing her.

 

I've done that. My wife had one of her best orgasms that way.

 

I also like to kiss her after she has sucked me and him off.

 

Kissing me after she has sucked his cock was her idea. It was o.k. with me.

 

I find a penis very attractive when it's handled by a woman.

 

It's hard not to notice his cock. What gets me excited is when we are playing with a man who is noticeably bigger than I am.

 

But I have thought about licking his cock while he is doing her. Just to taste her on him...I have had a long long time ago a gay encounter and I'm 100% sure I'm not gay.

 

I think you mean 10%.

 

I love woman and pleasing a woman or another couple. I'm not arrogant about it, it's just what turns me on. So what am I?? Help!!!

 

I think you are 100% bi.

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